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Is all pleasure of ejaculation caused from the orgasm?
  • jjajja
    Posts: 49

    After learning about the prostate, and the aneros I know that the orgasm, and ejaculation are separate events.  What I am wondering is if all the pleasure felt during ejaculation is from the orgasm or does ejaculation itself also create pleasure?  Using the progasm jr I had a really wonderful session where I had a great deal of pleasure that lasted for 3 - 5 minutes where I felt like I was on the verge of an ejaculation that never happened.  It felt great, and was long lasting but lacked the explosive pleasure of an ejaculation.


    I don't know if what I had was a dry orgasm, super-o or what.  What I enjoyed about it most was how long it lasted but admit that it didn't have that same pleasure overload I feel while ejaculating. 

  • diemdiem
    Posts: 36
    You can verify that quite easily. If you ever masturbate and manage to get on the edge just before the orgasm, if you contract your PC muscles a lot, it's possible to ejaculate but not have any orgasm.
    It happens me a lot when I got the aneros. If I am on the edge and I contract a lot the aneros I will ejaculate with a constant flow of sperm and not have any orgasm.
    It's pleasant to ejaculate but it's not as strong as the orgasm.

  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008

    I believe this demostrates very well the problem of attempting to put labels to the experiences we feel when participating in this type of activity.

    If you believe you had an orgasm during your Aneros activity, you may well have. It seems that orgasms associated with prostate massage do often last for several minutes, albeit not as intense as those that occur at ejaculation.

    Yes, I also believe that orgasm and ejaculation are two quite separate events, in spite of the fact that I was told recently by a medical doctor (GP) that they are one and the same thing and are therefore inseparable!

    It seems you had a dry O and it may even have been a super-O. Does it really matter? The important thing is that it was obviously very enjoyable and you may very well experience similar, stronger, more intense, longer lasting and excruciatingly blissful orgasms in the future. 

    I sincerely hope that you will. Enjoy them!

  • jjajja
    Posts: 49
    Thanks for the input.  @Pommie.  I'm just trying to gather information the prostate orgasm, and what kind of realistic things I can expect to experience.  I won't come out and say people are dishonest I will just say that some of what people have described as the super-o I find to be somewhat uhh misleading.
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,209
    @jja, I have been using aneros devices for two years now.  I wouldnt describe people as misleading as everyone experiences orgasms differently, especially prostate orgasms as they are essentially a mind orgasm.  With the mind, the sky is the limit.  Some of us will never reach our full orgasmic potential basically because of ourselves and limits we place on ourselves(just my opinion).  Also just becasue you may have felt your orgasm was kind of lack luster compared to a traditional orgasm, doesnt mean they cant and will not be more powerful in the future.  In fact many on here will tell you they had been having prostate orgasms for a while before realizing that they were even orgasms, until later on.  So bascially what im saying is orgasms come in all shapes and sizes.  I truly hope you eventually have a completely mind blowing super O and become a true beleiver! 
  • GilmanGilman
    Posts: 125
    @ineverknew is so right. I believe 90% of the prostate orgasm comes from between your ears, not from between your cheeks.

  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 1,035

    A Review.

    I cannot say what I experienced in my earlier years but in later years I mistook "release" in ejaculation for orgasm.  The feeling of release after the build up satisfied me. It became almost mechanical. Now that a natural erection and ejaculation is failing or non existence I realise that I have been missing the deeper and more fufilling satisfaction of Orgasm.  I think as has been said so often in these posts average the male may never understand the difference.

    My advice to fully functional guys (grandpa speaking) is while you are able to get to ejaculation easily and/or a natural erection, start getting behind it to the next level that does not depend on traditional ejaculation for satisfaction.  It may mean while using an Aneros to refrain from direct penis stimulation and EJ to build up an energy to move on the the next step. Yes, it may be frustrating - so pace yourself.  I like the advice given not to EJ in an Aneros session unless that is the intention. Some sessions should be only  "Penis Not" or "Do Nothing" or "the Detached Observer". 

    In my case I have to retrain. At my age a natural erection is rare and if there is an EJ it is unrecognisable as a traditional release.  This means I cannot easily make the shift to a pure orgasm by building up sexual energy in the old way. This makes it quite a challenge, which I am happy with. It would have been so much easier years ago.

    This is a bit or a ramble.  For me the discovery of the Aneros so so helpful. My partner is so encouraging. I just hope I have a lot of time to truly enjoy my new adventure. 

  • BigGlansDCBigGlansDC
    Posts: 915
    Hi guys,

    I have been using the Aneros for over a year now. One very pleasant spinoff from my sessions is that when I masturbate, my awakened prostate likes to join in the action when I masturbate. It is just wonderful!

    Another thing I have noticed that yes, I'll climax with an orgasm and ejaculation of semen. But also a second later, I'll feel a flash of sexual warmth pervading my entire body and consciousness.

  • lcsjclcsjc
    Posts: 5
    Perhaps I just haven't experienced the strongest dry orgasm available to me yet, but I have noticed that while the dry orgasms caused by aneros are very pleasant, ejaculatory (or wet) orgasms feel far better. So yes, so far, I have to agree that orgasm+ejaculation is more pleasurable. (I do enjoy having wet orgasms after a long session with aneros. Still having aneros in me, I go at it with my fleshlight, and within minutes.... WOW WOW WOW!!!!).
  • lcsjclcsjc
    Posts: 5
    The first wet orgasm I had with aneros in me was amazing too. I was lying on my stomach and after a while all of a sudden my hips started to thrust against my sheets. Slowly at first, then gaining speed as it went along. I had absolutely no control over it, my body had taken all control away from me. At one point I grabbed the end of my mattress as my hips went to town, thrusting and grinding my penis against the sheets. Then it happened. My dick EXPLODED with intense pleasure as cum gushed out all over the sheets. The feeling spread throughout my entire body. Man or man. WOW!!!!!!!!!!!! Sometimes my body still takes control of itself like that when I'm on my stomach, or when I'm going to town on my fleshlight with the aneros still in. Too bad I'm currently single, I'd love to have it in during sex with a woman!