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Advice for newbie: I'm nearly there but not quite
  • SmokeySmokey
    Posts: 21
    Long time lurker, I've finally signed up. I've had about 6 or so sessions with the aneros helix and would appreciate the community's help.
    On my second or third session I feel like I came really close to a super-O but couldn't quite get there. The session had been going along OK then at about 40 minutes I took a break for 10 minutes & did nothing. When I gently started contractions again, I felt a very sudden & intense sensation in my prostate and had a sudden & what seemed like a huge erection. I was moaning and was actually seeing stars! I felt that "I'm going to have an orgasm" sensation but rather than centering on the top of my penis it felt as if it were behind the base of it and all through it. I got a sudden rush of lust and had to move because my penis was now in an uncomfortable position under me. I may have also grabbed it. Then the going up sensation faded and away it all went.: -(
    In subsequent sessions I have had spontaneous erections & some very nice feelings but nothing like those I described.
    I would appreciate your advice on what I might do to get back there. Have I been trying too hard? Am I not doing contractions properly? Thanks
  • WiredWired
    Posts: 83
    Sessions are unique. Some will be good, some great and some lacklustre. I think what you should do is be positive and happy about the experience you had. Keep practising (it sounds like your doing the right things) and allow yourself to accept the different pleasures your helix offers you. This might sound like "just keep practising" but there's more to the advice than what meets the eye. I believe your next step lies within the mind. You can help the mind via being healthy (I don't mean fit or strong, but healthy (they are related but are not the same)). Welcome to the forums
  • SmokeySmokey
    Posts: 21
    Thanks Wired. I am definitely enjoying it. Perhaps I'm being impatient. Usually I can't wait for the next session, which can be weeks apart.
    I was wondering if others had got to that point just before super O and had a way to get over the top
  • ineverknewineverknew
    Posts: 1,180
    @smokey, I agree with @wired's advice.  Also the advice your seeking about "a way to get over the top" is not something someone can tell you how to do.  Everyone must learn this through practice and find their own way on this one.  I have been at this for almost two years and have no clue on how it happens. Good luck!  Sounds like your on your way!
  • imadeitimadeit
    Posts: 20
    @Smokey you are on the right path.  After you feel great pleasure like that (lets call it O instead of Super O), it should fade away.  What need to be practiced is to make the next O happen, and then make another happen.  After you get really good at it, try to chain all of them together.  Which means, when you are in middle of an O, don't stop what you were doing, keep doing the samething, so the next one will show up on the top of the first one.  After you have 3 stacked together (at least for me), it becomes a Super O.  There is no limit on how many you should stack. 2,3,4,5 is just up to you, until your mind calls quit.
  • SmokeySmokey
    Posts: 21
    Great advice, thanks. I've had 3 sessions since that really intense feeling happened but didn't get to that level again. I'll just keep trying.