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Just had my first hands free aneros orgasm, but I'm very confused!
  • inhope
    Posts: 290
    I just had my first orgasm using the aneros!!!! at last!!! been trying for years. Anyway.... it built up quickly and was helped along by tensing my legs a little, the orgasm was unlike anything I've ever felt before it was deep and intense! Afterwards i did not feel like i had had one though, i wasn't tired and felt i could have gone on for more! I was still fairly aroused.

    Here is my problem, when i orgasmed... i ejaculated, despite the feeling not being in the penis, nor was i touching it, nor was it brushing anything. It was however exceptionally erect, mores than its ever been in my life! 

    So that wasn't a prostate orgasm then? what happened? is this normal?
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    I think if you ejaculated, then its technically considered a traditional orgasm. It could have been a hybrid orgasm if there is such a thing, not sure, like a super O with ejaculation.  Usually a super O feels like you are cumming, but you dont.  I have read about others who have had traditional wet orgasms hands free from aneros use, but could be just from such new sensations.  many times i get extremely hard erections during aneros use, but have never had a hands free orgasm myself.  Did the ejaculate shoot out or just ooze out, cause sometimes I have also heard of an aneros massager actually milking your prostate, this has happened to me with my progasm some times.  Anyways just some thoughts, either way I would just enjoy it and move on to the next session with excitement of knowing anything is possible.
  • inhope
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    @ineverknew It kinda oozed and a bit of shooting too, not as far as usual and seemed to be more than normal as well i think it had a lot more clear fluid with it. I kinda experienced what this guy said here:


    another thing to note here as well is the fact that the orgasm felt like NO other orgasm I've had, it was different and when i say different i mean, much, much better than any I've had though i don't know if super O is the right term, but it feels like there is a hint of that in there. Afterward i felt like i hadn't ejaculated at all, it was like i could have had multiple if i had wanted, i had to stop though because I've got work to go and do!

    I don't know but perhaps watching porn made it a problem, though keeping me aroused it may have not allowed sufficient time or focus to be placed on the area it needed to be on?

    Check my post in the other thread @ineverknew for a full list of things i noticed, it was the most fun I've had in a long time btw!:

  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @inhope, well its hard to say either way what actually happened, regardless it was enjoyable I take it? Putting a label on it isnt going to change anything.  I say just keep doing what your doing.  Prostate massage is kind of a new frontier, in that most people here speak in generalities, its hard to nail certain things down that happen to us on this journey.  I know I have had some things that were hard to put a label on myself  :D.  I too have used porn in the past, it can definatily get you fired up, but after a while it gets distracting for me and tends to ruin my focus on the prostate pleasures.  I've actually been trying to quit porn all together.
  • inhope
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    Enjoyable, yes! more than any traditional orgasms I've had for 25+ years. So yes, enjoyable.

    One thing i would say though is that i felt my prostate, for the first time in three years i felt it, how big it was, where its positioned and what it feels like when the aneros makes contact. I even had a mental image of it in my head of what its colour was and its shape/texture is! weird i know! 
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @inhope, I remember when i first started to feel my prostate, good times.  Its an amazing feeling when you can feel it swell, almost like a balloon.
  • inhope
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    I the image i had in my head was of something plum sized (a small one) but the colour of the inside of a mango (wtf right?) and all slimy lol, but it feels awesome! I'm struggling to be aroused without the use of porn etc, is there a better way?
  • Wired
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    There is in my opinion, although I'd suggest you stop ejaculating altogether, I appreciate that's going be controversial advice. I will however suggest you atleast begin ending about 50% of you masturbation sessions without ejac. I don't at all suggest less masturbation, just the retention of semen. This will help promote arousal and if your interested can boost your daily energy levels.
  • inhope
    Posts: 290
    sounds good however what if the aneros makes me ejaculate, its hands free and there is little control!
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    @wired, Is that what your opinion was? to stop ejaculation? to keep aroused?  I assume your talking about edging?  Just curious cause i'm trying to stay away from ejaculation myself.  How long do you edge?
    @inhope, if your interested I came along a website that explains why porn is bad for you as far as brain chemistry wise and for arousal.  They have a video series about 60 minutes long all together, very interesting.  I guess I always knew that viewing porn was hindering my arousal during aneros sessions, but this explains why and how.  http://yourbrainonporn.com/your-brain-on-porn-series.  As for your hands free ejaculation, i think that was a fluke, doesnt happen very often.
  • inhope
    Posts: 290
    its not a fluke, I've tried twice since both resulting in ejaculation, but both resulting in NO pleasure from the orgasm, i i come but there is no climax, its just dull! how odd this is, i told you all i was different and it appears i was right, sadly.
  • ineverknewineverknew
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    so you ejaculate but no pleasure from it?  Which massager are you using?
  • inhope
    Posts: 290
    yep on the last two, no pleasure whatsoever its like it builds up to an normal climax but when i came it was a non-orgasm, which is what i used to feel with the aneros years ago when i was told that ejaculating through masturbation with an aneros in is pleasurable, which i found produced semen but no orgasm feeling, very unsatisfying!

    Using SGX (but its the same with the MGX and Helix too)
  • rumelrumel
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    inhope said:

    ...It kinda oozed and a bit of shooting too, not as far as usual and seemed to be more than normal as well i think it had a lot more clear fluid with it.

    inhope said:

    yep on the last two, no pleasure whatsoever its like it builds up to an normal climax but when i came it was a non-orgasm, which is what i used to feel with the aneros years ago when i was told that ejaculating through masturbation with an aneros in is pleasurable, which i found produced semen but no orgasm feeling, very unsatisfying!

    From your description of events, it sounds to me like you have been experiencing a prostate milking in your sessions of late. This type of non-pleasurable ejaculation is frequently the desired outcome of BDSM sessions or where orgasm denial is part of a relationship dynamic. I have experienced (though very rarely) similar non-pleasurable ejaculations, however, most other prostate milking sessions have been very pleasurable, though not as intense as a traditional penile based ejaculatory orgasm.

    Much of the "pleasure" we experience in life has to do with the attitude we associate with the sensations we perceive. The neuroplasticity of our brain to change and rewire itself is a marvel of bioengineering. To be able to consciously affect this rewiring is even more remarkable. I believe you will evolve through this phase just as you have learned to progress from when you first began this journey back in January, when you love to learn it, you learn to love it.
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  • ineverknewineverknew
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    Yeah i was going to say sounded like prostate milking to me too, ive heard for some its pleasureable and others say its not and very frustrating.
  • inhope
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    well thats great. the first sessions was very pleasurable and i mean pleasurable!, immeasurably so, the last two - nada.

    Just to add, even with the disappointment, confusion and lack of anyone experiencing the strange a weird things i experience i actually DO enjoy using it, a lot.
  • Wired
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    I edge every night for about an hour raising my arousal cycling under PONR. Once I'm really going, I do some basic asana's for about 30 minutes getting other energies in my body flowing good. By this time the energy in my body is amplified and I begin some meditation focusing on pranayama, followed by some Chi control meditation and lastly with some relaxation meditation. This cycle raises my chi, produces great chi flow and control, allows chi conversion, reduces sexual urges, and lastly leaves me extremely relaxed. Disregarding a huge amount of other benefits this offers.
  • I had what I now know was a supero years ago, without aneros.  I have never had an orgasm like it before or since.  There was a partial ejaculation, but it oozed out.  It was so blissful that I felt I had experienced an ephiphany.  I couldn't believe how good I felt, not just my genitals, but my whole body.  I was not trying to have a "supero" and at the time did not even know what a supero was.  

    I share this because you said, inhope, that after your first orgasm with ejaculation, you felt like you had not ejaculated.  Does this mean that you did not have a refraction period?  That is what my experience was.  Although I had ejaculation of some semen, and this incredible feeling throughout my body, I still had sexual arousal, and no refraction.  I think that if only some semen is ejaculated, and not "a full load" the refraction period does not ensue.  Truth is, there is no one way that these experiences happen, they are as varied as the sunsets.
  • inhope
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    The first one had no refraction period at all, the next two i felt as though i had came (tired/didnt feel aroused afterward) only the first one seems to have 'worked'/have any pleasure associated with it.