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3 tips for prostate massage
  • A lot of guys enjoy prostate massage, especially as a warm up before using one of the Aneros products, so I wrote a recent blog post to give partners some tips for making it even more fun. Here's a snippet:


    Prostate massage can be one of the most incredible sexual experiences. Fingers are incredibly sensitive and versatile, so you can give your partner all sorts of different pleasures. Here are some tips to supercharge your techniques.

    First, more isn’t always better. It’s easy to fall into the trap of thinking that if a little is good, more will rock your guy’s world, but that’s not how it works. Think of it like music. You want it loud enough to hear, but not so loud that it hurts your ears. When you press too firmly on the prostate, you want that middle zone, too.

    That can be a little tricky because when you get excited, it’s easy to go harder or faster than feels good for your partner. Try playing some music with a steady beat to keep you on your rhythm. If you catch
    yourself speeding up, just listen to the music to catch the right tempo! Go for something in the range of 110-120 beats per minute. Here’s a website that lists lots of different genres of music, sorted by speed. Find a few of your favorite songs and make a prostate playlist!


    You can read the rest here. I'd love to know what you think!
  • Love_isLove_is
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    @CharlieGlickman - What a nice guide to teach a person to stimulate their partner's prostate with their finger. If you haven't already, I'd recommend you post this in:
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Great info Charlie, thanks!

    BF Mayfield
  • @Love_is Thanks for the suggestion. I haven't done much on Reddit yet. Is it considered ok to post links to one's own posts? I didn't want to be rude, if it turned out that you're not supposed to.

    I suppose it's time for me to check Reddit out. :-)
  • Love_isLove_is
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    @CharlieGlickman -  I am so sorry it's been this long since I've been on this forum. So my apologies for not getting an answer to you sooner. Oddly enough, I got caught up on the newness of Reddit. :)

    As far as I know of, yes it is ok to post links to ones own posts. It's done all the time. But feel free to contact the moderators on r/sex to verify. They are good people and I'm sure would love to have another knowledgeable person posting there. If you use the "Search Reddit" feature in the side bar and check mark it to only search that subreddit, you can see how often people ask about prostate orgasms, anal orgasms, and any sort of anal play in general. It's a very common subject. And I'm sure you will get a lot of people interested in what you have to say and also likely involved in your workshops and such.

    So please come join us.  :)