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My experience so far.
  • I'm a healthy and married 35 year old heterosexual male with the sexual appetite of Asa Akira. I have purchased many sex toys for myself and for my partners from the Fleshlight to the Tenga flip (the women usually enjoy vibrating bullets but my next purchase will be a Hitachi Magic Wand for my wife). I'm all about exploring sexual gratification as long as its monogamous and healthy. So when I heard that men may be able to experience what women feel during an MMO I was researching the Aneros product line because damn seeing a woman quiver from an orgasm is one of the sexiest thing I have ever seen. It's not fair that we can't get like that right?

    I don't consider it awkward to have something up your bum if it meant I'd take off like a rocket ship on full afterburners. Truthfully my partners (although fulfilling) always left me wanting more. Either they would tire out or couldn't go the distance with me so I've always had to finish early and I am very fortunate that I can go again and again without a refractory period but believe it or not most women do not always enjoy this. So finding a 'partner' who could keep up with me is a Godsend.

    I purchased the MGX line from a reputable local store and couldn't wait until I could find the time to try it out. I also picked up a reusable enema from the local drug store. I've always got lube but you can never have enough; plus I'm always wanting to try different lubes so that's another story.

    First thing first. Get all of your inhibitions out. You should have an open mind about everything. Prostate massaging doesn't make you gay (being gay isn't wrong either so don't judge me), the dirtiness of feces shouldn't bother you too much. If you wipe your ass then poop shouldn't be gross. It's natural, it gets on your hands and you wash it off. Sure it smells but if you have kids or older relatives then these things shouldn't bother you if you are use to changing diapers.

    Emptying your bowel is necessary. I usually will flush with the enema twice afterwards. You really must focus on relaxation and good thoughts. If you are constantly thinking about poop getting all over the place then you have to cut that thought out by cleaning your poop chute.

    Give yourself at least 40min to prep. While on the crapper you can practice your muscle exercises. These practices really are key. Push out your rectum then tighten your rectum. Hold this for 10 seconds and then while holding try to tighten your PC muscle. Try to notice the difference between your PC and rectum muscle. Repeat these exercises rolling from one to the next. I believe these exercises are the key to getting the most out of your Aneros.

    After flushing your system you may want to shower. Before you insert your Aneros I suggest getting a syringe and injecting 2.75ml or more of your favorite lube. I used a spare syringe from my children's medicine and no I did not put it back in the packaging. Lubing your cavity is very important, it really does need good movement. Lube your Aneros generously and insert it when you are ready. You can lie down on your side but I prefer standing while bending over. Breath in, push it in a bit, exhale and continue to push it in. Eventually you're going to feel it bury itself in automatically and I have to admit it does feel pretty good.

    Experiment positions. Stand up, walk around, try going up and down the stairs. Relax and try to get all negative thoughts out. Imagine good thoughts, sexual thoughts, happy thoughts. Control your breathing and your Aneros through the recommended exercises. Personally I just do the warm up exercises for 5 min max and then move to the next stage.

    I like laying on my back, knees up with feet flat and closer to my buttocks with very limited penile stimulation. I notice that the further the Aneros goes in the better I feel. I will start thrusting and rocking while squeezing my rectal and PC muscles for as long as I can making the Aneros go in and out.

    Within minutes I will start feeling those P Waves and they just start growing outwards from your pelvis and beyond. You should feel like something is tickling you and if you are still doing your exercises you should try different variations of breathing and squeezing. Find a pattern that works because eventually your body will start moving on its own.

    I hit my first Super O the second time I used it. I havent felt this weak or tired since I was a teenager and the feeling is what people were describing. An overall light as a feather feeling that I noticed I could keep going again and again. I believe it was due to my appetite and openness. Even with porn going on in the background I noticed that it was distracting me at times. Hearing a woman orgasm was more helpful and got me more worked up. Just make sure you have towels and wipes nearby. I was surprised by the amount of juice that was squeezed out...

    Again find a pattern and don't give up. I pretend that I'm challenging the woman I'm fucking to see who comes first so I'll really put an effort into pleasing her and then myself but with this tool I will always lose.
    What helped me early on was penile stimulation right before cumming and stopping that and focusing on the Aneros. Right before I'd cum I'd just try to cum with the Aneros. Squeezing and contracting as hard as I could would send me over the top. When you think you're over the top don't stop! Keep going and you may find bliss.

    I enjoy my Aneros and the new experiences it has given me. I've told my wife about it and we can't wait to give it a whirl. I seriously think she will be the one to dominate me this time and I don't mind one bit for a change.

    I do have some issues with it though. The PTab can pinch and studies have shown that prolong pressure can have negative effects towards an erection. I don't have ED issues nor do I want to speed up that process.

    As stated before I don't have refractory issues but I was noticing that my erection would subside from time to time. This worries me as I've always been rock hard during masturbation. It just makes me wonder if it is because I'm not focusing on my wang or something else. I just want to be rock hard all the time while masturbating. I'd hate to lose that mojo.

    My last gripe is that I can see people being too dependent on their Aneros. I wouldn't trade my Super O for my wang but as long as I have my sexual appetite this will be a nice addition to use maybe once every month (I masturbate at least 1-2 times a day).

    I also now have these mild 'blue balls' feeling. I'm much more sensitive to touch and even when my clothes rub my skin it sends a tingly sensation throughout my body. Not a bad thing but who really loves those 'blue ball' feelings?

    I'm curious about a vibrating prostate massager and that maybe my next purchase. As much as I would love to spend 2 hours on it I just don't have the time to dedicate towards self pleasure. But a black Tenga flip with the MGX feels so out of this world and usually tires me out in an hour that this thing is totally worth it.

    Thanks for reading! Hope this helps someone!
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    "The PTab can pinch and studies have shown that prolong pressure can have
    negative effects towards an erection. I don't have ED issues nor do I
    want to speed up that process."

    The P-tab does not ordinarily produce enough force to cause pudendal nerve entrapment .  That said, there are some users that find the tab on the MGX and other rigid models uncomfortable.   There are a number of workarounds that can mitigate that effect ranging from a cotton ball to an eraser tip.   You may also want to consider the Helix Syn which features a silicone exterior and a redesigned tab and abutment arm that has some recoil to it.  Most users find that it provides gentler "sweet spot" (perineal acupressure spot) stimulation.

    Cheers!

    BF Mayfield
  • BF Mayfield, that's good to hear. I am enjoying my MGX (wish I had a little more time with it; I may have to try sleeping with it) though.
    I did find it rather strange that my wife approached me about possibly pegging. God I love my kinky wife. I think we will have a few spins with the Aneros first. I may regret it if somehow she's super experienced at it. I mean regret in the most tame way.
    I was torn between the Syn and MGX but it will probably be one if my other purchases.
    Any recommendations on toys we can both share at the same time?
  • I've been giving my MGX a lot more attention than I'd like to admit. If the prep time and usage weren't so long (feels so good though) I'd use it exclusively.
    It is taking less and less time to prep and use but I have been trying to keep my stints on a 2 hour schedule... Again it is very difficult saying no.
    Every session has been better but I'm trying to get use to the MMO feeling. It hits hard and willingly but the shock sometimes brings me back. I'd rather it just keep going and going. But yes I get even more hungry now.
    One major difference that I am noticing is the increased strength in my stomach and rectum muscles. My PC muscles have always been very good but damn I feel like I could crack a walnut back there. I am still pretty sensitive for days afterwards and even my normal masturbation routine I have noticed myself harder and hungry for more. I asked for it and it delivered.
    One thing I enjoy about my MGX is how it just won't give up. I can seriously start seeing myself passing out with this and instead of milking on a monthly basis I'm using it twice a week. My wife probably is wondering why I'm leaving the bedroom in the middle of the night. Uh, to let her sleep of course!
    Now my biggest issue is figuring which one to pick up next? I'm thinking Progasm... Actually I know it will be that one...
  • Engorged
    Posts: 34
    I hit an epitome with my sessions. I have been using my MGX on and off during solo time. Every time I've been able to hit MMO and every time I've ejaculated because shit it feels good!
    I switched it up a few weeks back just 'bating like a beast (as many times as I can in a sitting and it's ALOT!) because my wife and I would like to start having more children (you can hear my sex life just chub away) and I figured that it may be a while before we can spend some alone time together. I love my Aneros so I won't be too lonely but yeah pregnant wife equals very little sex for me but oh so much good time by myself... Just don't tell her...
    Lately I have just been edging and trying different techniques that feel good while watching/listening to some very orgasmic porn. Then it hit me as I got my first dry O without my MGX. It wasn't as intense as I thought but no mess and if it wasn't for work in the morning I'd be attacking myself trying to beat my previous records. I literally ripped three DOs in a row and wanted more.
    I felt tired, shaky and panting afterwards like I was Peter North shooting blanks but damn the smile on my face would have scared a lawyer! I would masturbate to finish 1-2 a day (Anero-less) before sexing up my hot MILF but THIS opens up a whole new field. My wife is going to freak when the time comes! Literally!

    Aneros, you have been one sexy little minx that just does not give up! You have feverishly pushed me to break the mold and it was so goddamn worth it. Masturbating to near finish without the mess and being able to do it for hours on end? The doors and barriers you have opened for me will be we'll spent. I understand that with great power comes great responsibility. Let me honor you by spending hours perfecting the trade and if I wasn't married then I'd still be THAT guy women went to for a workout romp. Alas that is my gift to the rest of you...
    Don't forget your breathing techniques and being open to exploration! They are vital components towards your journey. Don't give up and just have fun, try to enjoy the ride. Let it ebb and flow. Sometimes you'll hit a dud and other times you'll find bliss; might as well enjoy it regardless of the outcome.

    My next mission is to freak out my wife. She takes pride in making me cum on her when her tank is dry. I think she will be pleasantly awed at the new tricks that ive picked up. I'll report back when that's been completed.
  • Engorged
    Posts: 34
    I have not had a chance with my Aneros in a while but the solo sessions are going very well. With the new found skills I can keep going until I get tired or when my time is up. Christ I am turning into a chronic masturbater.
    My wife is wondering where my uncontrollable hormones are coming from since our time together surprised her.
    On a newer note I've purchased a Progasm red for $30 on the Aneros website. I can hardly wait!
  • Engorged
    Posts: 34
    I finally got to testing out the Pro and it does not disappoint.
    Here are the highlights.
    - Damn this thing is pretty big and hefty
    - Insertion wasn't as bad as I thought but it did put up a fight
    - movement is MUCH better for me; autoF'ing is truly automatic whereas with my MGX it required me to constantly contract and push
    - I can't sit down with it
    - On my back produced weaker responses than the MGX but every other position worked better than the MGX
    I feel like such a slut with the Progasm. This thing is a slice of heaven for me. My first test drive left me sweating, worked up and hungry for more.
    Doing kegels and other breathing exercises really enhanced the overall feelings I would get from my MGX but with the Pro it was like Daniel-san realizing wtfh why he was waxing the car or painting the goddamn fence for. It made a lot of sense to my prostate and for that my body rewarded me with some intense PWaves and MMOs in fairly quick fashion.
    Warm up was short because this thing was whipping me faster than I expected. People said to go slow. Not going to happen with the Pro. It wants to show you why it was created for.
    The MGX tickled me while the Pro cuts to the chase. It works remarkably better for me. I find myself constantly challenged and pushed. It didn't feel uncomfortable but I was sad that I couldn't sit down due to the tabs.
    Sadly I had to keep my session short but I'm taking a day off of work to give it a proper break in. With what I've garnered we're going to be best of friends.
  • Engorged
    Posts: 34
    SUCCESS!!!
    I have had a few secret sessions with my lovely wife but last night was a shocker. She didn't know I had my progasm in but the other night she was trying to finish me off with her hand. Reaching down down down she nudged my pro and stopped. I was looking into her eyes for a reaction. A blank stare, a curious smirk and a few simple questions was all I got. She asked if it felt good (very good) and how it works (fucking magical, it has a mind of it's own). I showed her and she was receptive to it. Sexy wife asked if it hurt so I gently put her on her back, inserted my engorged member and told her that while I'm making love to her I'm imagining her making love to me from behind. Suddenly the level 8 session was cranked into level 12 territory. PEGGING please be next!!!
    I don't think I have ever seen her cum so hard and she nearly passed out. She was never really vocal but whew last night felt like I was sexing a siren. Even after cumming inside of her she could still feel me throbbing. My naughty Aneros still asking for more. Wifey had a lot of questions this past year and now she knows who my mistress is.
    Tonight my wife wants another session. I think I'm going to try to let her insert it in me. I'm praying for some oral with the pro. I haven't had that yet. Maybe I will have something to report later...
  • Ah the narrative that just keeps on giving - wonderful read Engorged! Remember the pleasure just evolves to deeper and deeper levels - lovely to hear you are a true pair in this adventure now :)
  • SUCCESS!!!
    I have had a few secret sessions with my lovely wife but last night was a shocker. She didn't know I had my progasm in but the other night she was trying to finish me off with her hand. Reaching down down down she nudged my pro and stopped. I was looking into her eyes for a reaction. A blank stare, a curious smirk and a few simple questions was all I got. She asked if it felt good (very good) and how it works (fucking magical, it has a mind of it's own). I showed her and she was receptive to it. Sexy wife asked if it hurt so I gently put her on her back, inserted my engorged member and told her that while I'm making love to her I'm imagining her making love to me from behind. Suddenly the level 8 session was cranked into level 12 territory. PEGGING please be next!!!
    I don't think I have ever seen her cum so hard and she nearly passed out. She was never really vocal but whew last night felt like I was sexing a siren. Even after cumming inside of her she could still feel me throbbing. My naughty Aneros still asking for more. Wifey had a lot of questions this past year and now she knows who my mistress is.
    Tonight my wife wants another session. I think I'm going to try to let her insert it in me. I'm praying for some oral with the pro. I haven't had that yet. Maybe I will have something to report later...


    I love to f**k my wife with my Progasm simultaneously doing what it wants to do with my prostate.  The full and heavy feeling gives way to pleasant prostate f**king some ten to twenty minutes after Progasm penetrates my ass and seats itself where it can caress my man gland.  Then I'm not only well ready to make love to my wife, but my boner is rockhard and soaked in precum, and I'm ready to go whatever distance I determine to go.  It's wonderful to eat pussy while Progasm is chewing up your prostate and seminal vesicles.  I've always found that investing time in 4play and at least one or two clitoral orgasms for my partner pays off in terms of her responsiveness, and her desire and ability to achieve g-spot orgasms once we're coupled.  The same 4play investment pays off for my own responsiveness and multi-orgasmic ability.

    Once she's had enough and raises the white flag I can (and do) sometimes leave the Progasm to continue its perverse pleasure-giving.

     - rip
  • BigGlansDC
    Posts: 636
    Hi Rip, you wrote:


    I love to f**k my wife with my Progasm simultaneously doing what it wants to do with my prostate.  The full and heavy feeling gives way to pleasant prostate f**king some ten to twenty minutes after Progasm penetrates my ass and seats itself where it can caress my man gland.  Then I'm not only well ready to make love to my wife, but my boner is rockhard and soaked in precum, and I'm ready to go whatever distance I determine to go.  It's wonderful to eat pussy while Progasm is chewing up your prostate and seminal vesicles.  I've always found that investing time in 4play and at least one or two clitoral orgasms for my partner pays off in terms of her responsiveness, and her desire and ability to achieve g-spot orgasms once we're coupled.  The same 4play investment pays off for my own responsiveness and multi-orgasmic ability.

    Once she's had enough and raises the white flag I can (and do) sometimes leave the Progasm to continue its perverse pleasure-giving.

     - rip


    Hi @Rip,

    You really got me hard as a rock this morning as you described how the Progasm works on you as you make love to your wife, and then some, perhaps MORE, as the Progasm continues to make love to you.
    I had once again a great session with both Maximus and Progasm Classic after reading your pungent and turgid account. ;)

    And @Engorged, My experience with Progasm Classic mirrors mine somewhat. I started working with both Progasm Classic and Progasm ICE in September 2012, one month just after beginning to work with Maximus. It took me a good six to eight months before I began to work with the these three BIG models adroitly. That was early last spring. However, both the Maximus and Progasm Classic would always give me a rugged ride.

    But it was nearly two weeks ago, that I began experimenting with lying on my right side in the fetal position. That position is my favorite position for sleeping. The fetal position, I have noticed, is a passive position, ideal for the do-nothing technique for Anerosing. I discovered that both Maximus and Progasm Classic feel GOOD as I do this as they autof**k me so slowly and sweetly without me having to do anything. Of course, my shallow breathing powers these models. It is absolutely awesome! ;) :D :D

    Thom./BigGlansDC
  • Engorged
    Posts: 34
    Thanks everyone for the replies. This journey has been a surprise for myself. I always hear how my other male counter parts are bored by their sex life whereas I have very rarely found it boring (just limited). If they ever came to me for advice I wonder what they would think if I brought up the Aneros.
    Last night I decided to try my MGX for giggles and found out that although I greatly enjoy the size and pressure of the Progasm, the MGX moves much better. My wife noticed it too and she pulled at the curly tail. All I wanted was her to chomp on my rock hard member.
    Rip, I love eating pussy. It never gets old; even if its the same pussy. It turns me upside down when I'm on my stomach, Aneros doing its job and my head buried in between a dripping pussy. My wife has been more aggressive and vocal (sexy as hell when the one you love tells you to cum inside of them while they are clenching your ass with the death grip, eyes rolled back and spittle at the corner of their lips. She's slowly waking up sexually to her new toy. She pretends she's tired but spreads her legs open for me regardless.
    She has informed me that I am much more vigorous in bed than usual but her female parts have been more than willing as we had sex for about 3 hours (a record for us, not for me). My cock was glistening with thick pussy juice. It was one of the sexiest things I have ever seen. I lost count of how many DO I had but I did manage to cover my wife in cum multiple times until she admitted enough and fell asleep.
    After fulfilling my wife my naughty girl (Aneros massager from now on) still wanted to play so I did my exercises in bed with my passed out wife. I was still protruding and tried to mount her again but her defenses kicked in. So I grabbed my recently purchased Tomax Succubus Micro ribbed sleeve and put it between her legs and (after lubbing) went to work. At first she tried to push me off again but after she felt the fleshy texture and realized that I was penetrating something else she just gave up and let me fuck the shit out of it. I came three more times and the sleeve was dripping with pussy juice, lube and semen. After she woke up she wasn't sure if we did it again or how but damn it felt great when she wrapped her hands around the sleeve and squeezed me dry.
    Whether Aneros works or not I could care less. This thing is dangerous, kinky and has a mind of its own. I may be able to sustain longer MMOs while solo but as a hands free couples toy? The Naughty Girl just doesn't disappoint.
  • Engorged
    Posts: 34
    BigGlans,
    I imagine eating my wife's pussy like how the Naughty Girl is fucking me. Hard clenches for me are given to my wife as long clit sucking pulls. Fast movements are returned to her with rhythmic tongue lapping. I want to 69 her so she can feel my adamantium rod throbbing in unison with me eating her out. I day dream about her trying to deepthroat my cock or the reaction on her face when my body starts to spasm and she's trying to wrestle my member down. Let alone her trying to keep up with the fountain of cum gushing out. In time but yes foreplay gentlemen. I usually will eat out a woman until they ask for my to slide my cock in. Slowly my wife is becoming my girlfriend again and I fucking love it.
    A funny conversation did come up about 'did you always have workout sex with other women?' which is entrapment. I did answer that I was very sexually active, was always careful choosing good partners but this new exploration is something for us. Now I'm just waiting for anal, pegging and oral delights.