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changing the way l lube
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    been doing some reading and am currently running a test, lve seen some have thought about using suppositories as a way of lubing.. problem is l have to wait on the ice cube tray to arrive at the moment.

    now while lm waiting l thought about filling a small gloves fingers with lube and its currently being freezed lm hoping for some interesting results as l do find l seem to dry pretty quick, however.. l came up with another idea which required the ice tray.

    now as amusing as this sounds l found an ice mold for ak47 bullet shapes on ebay lol, now my thought was l could use this to form a suppository with either shea butter (or coconut oil which lm planning on trying) and if all goes well maybe l can create a lube channel in the middle to add some of my normal lubrication as well the idea being l could leave it in the freezer then insert when ready.. l was just curious what peeps thought about this idea?

    my other idea was to make half shea butter or coconut oil half lube which could be inserted but this would definitely require being left frozen in either case ld have to wait like 5mins before the session for everything to lube up.

    is there any issue with using frozen lube straight from the freezer since it will have to stay frozen depending on the method l use?

    heres the best tray l could find, was originally going to use one a member posted here which created small balls but l couldnt find one and thought the one l liked to created something easier to insert as it was more suppository shaped.

  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,833
    I use Xochipilli's sports cube tray to 'cast' shea+coconut bullets.  I loose about 1/5th of the batch due to issues with removing the chilled bullets from the tray.  Looks like you have a winner with the AK-47 mold.  One of those be sufficient for most sessions save for a Vice or Progasm ride.

    Once completely chlled I keep the frozen bullets in the refrigerator at 40deg F.   Before a session I take two or three bullets from the refrigerator and drop them into an old fashioned glass with cold waer and a couple of ice cubes to stay chilled while I shower and prep.   

    Shea+coconut won't freeze your vitals and will melt quickly right after insertion.

  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    going to try the frozen lube later l would expect them to melt quickly
    l'll just wait a 5 or 10 before beginning however thats only until the
    arrival of the tray and l can start playing around with how lm going to
    make them until then.
  • BobandyBobandy
    Posts: 37

    I used to use coconut oil and would get the extra wide plastic straws, I would "draw" the coconut oil up into the straw (just like drinking a thick milkshake) and place them in the freezer. Once they are frozen I would take a piece of wood dowel and push them out(might have to run the straw under hot water for a second) of the straw and chop them into smaller sizes and place in a plastic cup with a lid and refreeze.

    Works great!


  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    looks like the lube l froze in the fingers of a glove didnt work that well seemed to dry up too quick.. was fun for a while but when l finished the session it was like usual.. the residue was still on the aneros l was using at the time but wasnt exactly slippery so to speak. good job l was able to thaw the rest of the gloves fingers ld filled, l find it useful for insertion but l havent found a lube that doesnt get quickly absorbed..

    guess my next session will be when l get the bullet ice tray and l'll freeze some coconut oil and maybe some shea butter to see what works best..

    while l did try shea butter my previous exploits werent eventful as it kept melting on insertion which made it impossible but as lve thought about freezing it and using the ice tray l ordered might provide an interesting method of application as lm wondering if part of the progress thats holding me back is the fact l find it hard to stay lubed.
  • isvaraisvara
    Posts: 1,035
    All that sounds very complicated. I have a syringe with an almost open end. The end is carefully polished so there are no sharp edges. For Shea Butter I simply press the syringe into the SB while holding the plunge still so the syringe fills up to the amount I want. I withdraw the syringe and make dome of SB proud of the end, anoint with a slippery lubricant, insert and evacuate the contents. No mess, no moldings, no freezing. Available on demand.

    For simplicity I have melted SB into a shallow plastic container. Once hardened its ready for use!
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,782
    @Auroken - There is not necessarily any right or wrong in any approach to lubing, as long as it works well. Experiment and do what works for you. That being said... You don't have to make it complicated. My shea butter stays in the refrigerator (not the freezer), and is quite solid. I scoop out three approximately dime sized chunks with a spoon, one to spread on the Aneros, and two to insert in my rectum. Because the shea butter is cold and solid, the non-uniformed shaped chunks insert in my rectum with little to no smearing on the outer anal sphincter.
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008


    I am lucky enough to have a small bar fridge not far from my bedroom and this does make things somewhat easier.

    In that fridge, I keep a jar of unrefined shea butter from which I scoop a quarter teaspoonful, which I mould (by hand) into a small ball. I then smear a little KY gel around the anus before inserting this plug. The tool of choice has usually been prepared by coating it with a small amount of shea butter at room temperature. It is then inserted into said anus and, hey presto - job done!

    It takes all of 90 seconds from start to finish - and no complications.

    BTW, this works for an all-night session if I want. If the tool is extra large (like the Maximus), my plug might be a bit bigger.

    If I want a session to start in early morning, this preparation needs to be done before going to bed (including insertion of the shea butter plug) and I might also inject 3ml KY gel immediatly before insertion of the tool.
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    as l had two trays l made some coconut oil ones and some shea butter ones but l dont feel there is much difference apart from whats left after use in the next bowel movement lol.

    however lm still working on trying to get the prostate awoken, lve had some interesting sessions but nothing earth shattering yet.. tho l always find some point in the session my bladder literally fills up and end up having to take a leak as the urge gets too strong to not go..
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008

    The feeling of a need to pee is not unusual, especially when some way into the journey but I think you'll find that this problem will decrease as your system becomes more used to what is happening.

    If you need to pee during a session, if you can, go ahead and empty your bladder and try to pick up the session where you left off. It isn't necessary for this to be a session killer. That may sound counter-intuitive, but I have found, (although a nuisance), persistence will pay off.

    I haven't used used coconut oil but if it works for you, fine! Since shea butter works well for me, I'll probably stick with it.
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    the annoying part for me is when l feel the session is going well eventually it feels like my bladder will explode and l need to pee.. lve tried holding it but it doesnt help, the sessions that become the most annoying l end up having to pee two or three times which gets annoying especially when its quite a volume buildup in the bladder.
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 1,008

    If you are having to empty your bladder two or three times during a session, either you are taking in too much fluid before your session begins, or your sessions are extremely long!

    IMHO, you should try not to drink anything during the couple of hours before you commence a session and make sure your bladder is empty when you do start the session.

    I have found that by abstaining from any liquid during the couple of hours before I begin a session, has worked wonders and I don't really have this problem any more.
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    tbh its hit or miss.. once or twice its been the consistency of seamen so maybe l was thinking it was something it wasnt.. either way it is sometimes annoying but doesnt always happen.

    l have been thinking tho, lm wondering if its worth trying to abstain from any masturbation and focus solely on the aneros, usually l finished off by doing it manually.. but after some thought maybe l should just focus on the aneros for a week or so and see where that takes me.. ld expect ld feel more aroused as time goes by or at least thats the theory as l have quite a high sex drive and it seems an interesting idea to focus on another area rather than finish off by telling my body its easier to do one by hand.
  • AurokenAuroken
    Posts: 113
    just thought ld mention, while lve tried the lube bullets l found they always had air pockets in the tray meaning some had a slightly sharp edge to them where the airholes were in the bullet ice tray. l could make them less sharp before insertion, however lm now trying injecting lube.

    currently using coconut oil tho l wish it was slipperier tho l did have some flutters last session with this method, basically what l do is a jug of warm water with a little tray (and a little part of a card board box so it doesnt tip or sink into the jug, then take what l need to inject (only put slightly over what l need into the cup so l dont waste much), then while lm cleaning/douching let that melt and once lm back its usually ready to syringe up and inject.

    now some of you might say that the lube will dry in the syringe while lm having a session making it annoying to clean.. indeed l found that the first time however once lm done with the lube l chuck the syringe in the jug and it keeps the coconut oil from solidifying and sorta washes itself until l clean up afterwards.