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ALways seem to orgasm with ejaculation
  • swgm29swgm29
    Posts: 6
    I am getting good at letting everything build and i get the build up to what i hope will be a dry o leading to super o's and I always somehow end up ejaculating. Am I trying too hard or do i need to refine my control over the aneros? I have several diffent models...Please help. thanks
  • jd1990jd1990
    Posts: 2
    I'm in the same predicament! my forum post is currently on page two.
  • Gee, I wish I had that predicament, altho I know what you mean: it ends the session. I wouldn't mind having it at the end of a long session of lots of dry Os tho. I'm getting better at not ending with a superT, but they sure do feel good.
  • WuerstchenWuerstchen
    Posts: 208
    Have you guys tried nipple orgasm? I regularly ejaculate from nipple orgasm, but there is no refractory period. My nipples always respond, ejaculation or not. I often ejaculate several times in a single session of under half an hour.
  • BadgerBadger
    Posts: 777
    I've not been able to do that; I'll get a lot of precum, then this really good sensation that builds, peaks, and then fades away. I haven't been able to get it to return afterwards, neither the sensation nor the precum.
  • I have the same problem, I can feel the pleasure building up from my prostate and sometimes I experience some mini-orgasms, but at some point when it starts to feel REALLY good I always ejaculate, which means end of session. I don't touch my penis in any way... It feels good but I feel like it could be a lot better if I learned how to avoid ejaculation.

    Strange thing is, I can get multiple nipple orgasms, often with ejaculation... Just like Wuerstchen. Refractory period kicks in only after 3 or more orgasms with nipple stimulation alone. I don't really get why this works differently from my Aneros experiences...
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,782
    @swgm29 - I would question whether your penis is being unintentionally stimulated during your sessions. It's quite common that in the laying on your side position that the head often ends up slightly grazing the bed. Just enough to cause ejaculation. Try laying on your back with your knees up. This keeps the covers, if using any, to not touch your penis.

    If this is not the case, I would say try relaxing your anal, rectal and PC muscles even more. Don't put any conscious effort into doing any contractions.