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  • stumpy
    Posts: 140
    So after years of using the Aneros and learning more about myself, while at the same time learning everything there is to know about women and how to please my wife thoroughly, my wife has finally committed to paying me back for the things I've done for her. So starting this Wednesday my wife will be taking my prostate into her own hands and has committed to extensive reading and hands on practice to become a master at sensual massage and manual manipulation of my prostate. She's promised to practice on me no less then once a week.

    I enter this as I would any Anero's session with no expectations, but incredibly excited! I know it's going to be a lot of questions and responses in the beginning until she figures out the terrain, however I'm excited to see what new sensations she can create for me.

    I'll keep you posted!
  • Yay!

    After discovering the Aneros last year, I don't think I could be in a relationship that didn't involve sensual / prostate massage. 

    Glad yours in headed in the right direction :)
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    @stumpy - That's awesome! Glad to hear your wife wants to do that with you. I'm much of the same mind as RastaYoga, that I don't think I could have a truly satisfying relationship without some prostate massage and pegging with the woman I'm with.
  • stumpy
    Posts: 140
    We've been together for 20+ years and we've experimented in everything from pegging, to swinging, to bdsm. However as we get older together (not really that old, both in late 30s, together since High School) we learn more and can get more focused on a particular goal or level of intimacy. She's tried to do this for me before, but she didn't have the knowledge/patience.

    Over the last few months, we've found a new level of intimacy though, that has definitely reinvigorated our sex life and expanded our interest in eachothers bodies. I've turned her into a squirter...beyond anything I've every seen in porn. So she's promised to repay the favor.
  • rck
    Posts: 32
    @stumpy, how did you get her to be a squirter?  I've started to work with my 46yr old wife on G-spot orgasms.  We haven't gotten over the hump yet, but have made definite progress.  At first, the "pee" feeling bothered her and it was remotely  pleasureable.  Now, she gets a lot of pleasure out of it, but hasn't gone over the edge yet.  Any pointers appreciated!
  • stumpy
    Posts: 140
    My wife was uncomfortable with it in the beginning as well, because much like the prostate orgasm there is the "I'm going to pee" feeling.  So just like prior to an Anero's session have her empty her bladder immediately before and don't drink anything for an hour prior.  That will give her confidence that it's not urine.  Also have several towns on hand, at least 3 thick ones underneath her (unless you prefer to order plastic sheets), but make sure you have towel's out a few feet in front of her as well.  My wife can clear 4 feet (when my face isn't in the way), if I have her hips tilted upward she looks like Old Faithful and her being able to watch it drives her wild and makes her keep cumming.  Once she starts cumming now she can't stop, and even after I stop touching her, she'll keep trembling and shaking with orgasm for about 10 minutes after...and has been known to wake up an hour later having another orgasm.

    Otherwise don't rush it, spend some time down there, kissing and nibbling on her clit and labia softly for at least 10-15 minutes before going inside (research Yoni massage).  The extreme arousal will make it considerably easier to find her GSpot when you do go inside.  It's a spongy pad directly inside and up, back towards her clit.  It will grow as it is lightly massaged and might eventually push you out of her pussy before she explodes.  Just communicate with her and ask if she wants more pressure, try different movements (circles, pulses, figure 8, whatever you can think of) and see what she likes.  Most importantly she needs to be relaxed and you need to assure her that it's ok if she squirts.

    My wife still always asks my permissions before she goes off....she's usually crying by that.

    She has asked me to record her squirting, so she can see it from my perspective.  So after I record it I'll ask her if I can share. 
  • stumpy
    Posts: 140
    ...towels on hand...not...towns on hand.  LOL

    Also have water ready for her afterwards as it is draining and can be dehydrating.