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Which factors disturb your sessions the most?
  • View Poll Results: Which factors disturb your sessions the most? Voters: 10

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    Expectations 2 20.00%

    Lack of privacy 4 40.00%

    Tiredness 2 20.00%

    Fear 0 0%

    Tensed muscles 1 10.00%

    Body shakes 1 10.00%

    Your penis 0 0%

    Routine 1 10.00%

    Frustration 3 30.00%

    Your moaning 0 0%

  • Kev
    Posts: 87
    I'm personally getting especially disturbed about my moaning and involuntary body shakes.. They seem to cut my ability to feel pleasurable feelings.. I'm quite surprised..
  • TipherethTiphereth
    Posts: 146
    Fear/Lack of privacy, and being tired only.
  • rck
    Posts: 32

    1.  Lack of Privacy.  This means even when I am alone I always feel rushed and have to take numerous glances at the clock to make sure I'm still "safe".

    2. Expectations/Frustration.  I'm good about going into sessions with zero expectations.  But, when things start going well my mind constantly wants to take over so it doesn't miss the big bang.  The result = no O.

    3. Penis.  My penis is only a problem when a. it starts to get hard or b. I'm on my side and it rubs the sheets, etc.  I have the best experiences when I'm not even aware my penis is around.  As in these two examples, once it enters my thought process my brain keeps looking for signals "there" rather than getting lost in the overall experience.

     

  • airbagairbag
    Posts: 116
    For me,

    1) Sleep deprivation/tiredness

    2) Expectations

    3) Anything that distracts my attention

    Don't get me wrong - watching porn with aneros in your butt is one of most enjoyable ways to watch porn. But don't expect any progress or orgasms. So: no distractions !
  • Badger
    Posts: 656

    10) My moaning(?)


    I thought that it was supposed to help things along, not hinder them.  I seldom have the solitude to moan to my heart's desire, but when I do, it seems to be helpful.

  • Kev
    Posts: 87
    :) lol.. I know, it's weird.. but lately I discovered that moaning can actually distract my concentration.. I start to concentrate on my moaning instead of the feelings...
  • DarkEngine
    Posts: 109
    3. to 7. botch development in someway, but penis is likely the largest issue so far.

    Penis/PC muscles provide great sensations but they can cancel out development once it kicks in. Which is a sticky scenario since typically my penis tenses from arousal which...is how the Aneros works for the most part.

    Besides that, avoiding PC muscle usage leads the p-waves to simply plateau from my body being unable to comprehend the surges and whatnot.

  • dingus
    Posts: 72
    #2, until I find some way to talk to my wife about it.
  • tairy
    Posts: 50
    It's tiredness and stress for me lately, and maybe some emotional uncertainty as well. I've been having so-so sessions the past few weeks because by the end of the day when I finally have a little free time for a session, it's a struggle to stay awake and focused.

    Other than that, erections/arousal. I get so turned on during good sessions that I find it torturous to not have a traditional orgasm if I just stay on the edge without going over for too long (I haven't crossed over to mini Os/dry Os/Super Os yet).
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,196
    for me it is:
      - lack of privacy.   even if i had total privacy, a voice in my mind might still creep in "what if somebody sees or hears you"

      - discomfort.   this is individual to me and those who suffer from prostatitis and other pain issues down there.

    darwin
  • BigGlansDC
    Posts: 641
    For me, they are:

    (1) Tiredness. Generally I retire fairly early, certainly before midnight most nights. It is hard for me to have an Aneros session in the evening after a long day's work. I am toying with the idea of having a session around 7 a.m. when I am refreshed after a night's sleep.

    (2) Lack of privacy. I have a great deal of privacy here at my apartment. Most of my neighbors are quiet people. Unfortunately a lady has moved recently into the apartment below me. She has wooden soled shoes which goes "clunk, clunk, clunk!" She walks incessantly in her apartment. All this is a great annoyance and distraction at times.

    (3) Tensed muscles, being up tight, also rob me of a good session.

    Other possible distractions will make their impression upon me as I continue with the Aneros. Being both open and receptive to all the good the Aneros has for me is a good antidote.
  • jja
    Posts: 49

    Lack of experience: I relax and things start to take off, and I feel an orgasm coming on.... Then it's like hitting a wall and fades away. It's frustrating, and I really don't know how to get around it. Don't know if I should relax, or use contractions. Contractions seem to stop any involuntary movements going on, yet I can't seem to get over the hump.

    Lack of time:  I find that I'm either too tired, or I have to start late and cut into my sleep schedule which causes the next day to be a little rough.

    Burning sensations:  Don't know if it's the P-tab, lack of lube or what but sometimes it comes right away and fades away, or sometimes it comes later in the session. 

    Needing to Pee:  I hate this.  It's like clockwork.  After about 30 - 40 min in I get the urge to take a leak.  Try to ignore it but it doesn't go away.  It's at this point I'm out of the zone, and end the session.

    Lack of an erection:  I notice some people posting the opposite here.  I know it's also said that you don't need one for prostate orgasms.  However in my sessions my erection seems to indicated how the session is going.  If I'm really hard I'm enjoying the sensations and feel like I'm about to orgasm.  If I go limp, the session isn't really going anywhere.

    No Super T:  This is mostly about if you want to have a traditional orgasm with aneros in.  People say it's great, but for me it ruins the orgasm.  While cumming it's more of a distraction and takes the enjoyment away.

     

     

  • Tomasheen
    Posts: 181
    Very interesting post here. I am often put off by a cruel thought that "It won't work to day"! If I have had a good session, I feel elated all day and go about with a smile. Sometimes I get little or now response from the Anreos, and I feel really down afterwards. Then I think "Will it, won't it the next time"? More anxiety.
  • Tomasheen
    Posts: 181
    Sorry! One more comment. A very obvious disturbance  I experience is any retention of any pending stools in the
    rectum. They will surely be a hindrance. Also insufficient lube. and above all, too much anticipation of what's going to happen.
  • I actually had an interesting observation while viewing porn and 'trying' to get off with the Aneros. I found that if the viewing was less focused, ie seeing a large number of erotic images all presented at once, basically a gallery page.. The erotic stimuli was actually stronger than when focusing on a single subject. I noticed the same thing with a video I was watching when it switched to a rapid succession of erotic imagery. The "less focused" the subject was, the greater the stimuli from the Aneros. I think I've come to the conclusion that the more abstract stimuli actually prevents your mind from focusing on trying to become aroused, thus... you become more aroused.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    For me it's almost always distracting thoughts or lack of focus. Basically I'll get caught up on thoughts that are bothering me. So the pleasure starts to go away as my thoughts are no longer arousing and my focus is not on the sensations of the Aneros. Other times but less often, tiredness will keep me from evening starting a session.
  • Webbo
    Posts: 6
    1 , 5 , 7 and 9 , With all the advice on here I try and do as follows : # 5 if tense I am told muscles tire so that relaxes me anyway , works for me when clamping also . # 7 something goes in my ass and my cock shrivels , it always  has done when discretely trying stuff when the wife isn't around, This was a major hang up until I thought it was hard and looked down at this limp dick ? I try to take it out of the equation now as it has become irrelevant but feels good anyway .#7 and 9 work the same for me therefore if I don't expect I will not become frustrated . Its all good really as the Kiwis say . :-* My major one will become #2 , A major hurdle that could be a turning point as I am alone through work for a few weeks . !
    Cheers all
    :)]
  • varmintvarmint
    Posts: 53
    11.  Breathing.  I've got it down now. but took long time to balance the pleasure and breathing. Getting almost there and losing it, because forgetting to breath is real bummer.  Painful headache and then having to work all the way back-up.

    12.  Improper prep.  Not fully preparing bladder and ass.  Nothing worse then having to stop for a bowel movement! 
  • BigGlansDC
    Posts: 641
    The intrusion these days that most disturbs an Aneros session for me is the noxious political rhetoric of our upcoming presidential election here in the USA!
  • twlltintwlltin
    Posts: 571
    Earplugs?  ;)