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almost fall asleep? lol
  • jja
    Posts: 49
    Well I don't know if I'm doing things wrong or not. I have read the tutorials and stuff but have a problem. I try to relax completely, and clear my mind. I often find the aneros will start moving on it's own, which builds excitement, but rarely gets passed that. Sometimes I will start feeling I dunno how to describe it, really wanting to feel an orgasm but unable to.. Almost like feeling very very turned on.

    However I have found that I start hovering between falling asleep, and enjoying the aneros session. Am I relaxing too much? I have noticed some people trying to think sexual thoughts, or watch porn but I thought we were supposed to focus on relaxing our body?
  • XilehXileh
    Posts: 353
    I love it! Once you get really good at relaxing, ZZZ's. Done that too. Actually, a side benefit has been the meditation and relaxation. I've had a very difficult year with aging parents and the sessions have been almost restoritive. Being erotically charged before a session works, but watching anything during is too distracting for me.

    Xileh
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    jja,

    I fell asleep at the end of my Eupho session this morning. And, for me, that's okay. It's a sign of my contentment.

    I'm with Xileh regarding porn. FOR ME, it is not a help. HOWEVER, each of us different and things work for some and not for others. Make your own judgment call based on your experience.

    Brian
  • PommiePommie
    Posts: 722
    I must admit, I don't mid or care if I fall asleep during a session. I know it's not recommended but on a few occasions, having fallen asleep has resulted in me waking up later (sometimes over an hour later) to some of the most amazing and powerful responses of all.

    I simply love it when that happens!
  • slimjm
    Posts: 497
    Yes, you need to be relaxed, that is to say not stressed about something in the day, but not really tired. After 10 minutes with your Aneros in with no activity, get on your back, knees up and relaxed apart some with a small pillow under your butt, and do gentle PC contractions, that is gentle contractions of the muscle you use to cut off urine midstream, while tickling your nipples and see what you feel "down there". You should notice some tickling muscle movement feelings around your anal sphincter and with practice over time, a funny feeling involuntary sucking in movement of the massager. That's the sequence that drives the orgasm you should eventually enjoy with continued practice.
  • hulahula
    Posts: 212
    I have never ever been able to even think about sleeping with an Aneros in me. always way too excited to even think about sleep.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    LOL It's happened to me numerous times. Mind you I wake up feeling mighty refreshed. But at that point all my arousal is gone and I've never been successful at starting it back up from that point. So I end the session and get on with my day.
  • calmercalmer
    Posts: 75
    I find time seems to pass quickly when I am having a session. I suspect that I either zone out totally or fall asleep and wake up at intervals
  • Badger
    Posts: 649
    Yes, you probably do. Anymore, I seem to just fall asleep, and when I wake up (usually in the morning), I dang near fart it out. Twice they flew out of my butt and into the toilet as I reached down to pull them out, once with my Progasm, and once with my Tempo (that one had me scared! Didn't chip/crack the porcelain, though)