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Could I have been wrong?...and a rant
  • Posts: 0
    So my progress so far as short as I can make it. (some of this is in previous posts of mine)

    At a young age- I discovered some sort of orgasm by emulating what I saw on late night tv by "humping" a teddy bear I had. it was awesome, butterflies in the stomach, quivering buttcheek muscles (lol), tingling in my balls, no ejaculation, then waves of full body weakness, followed by a "WTF?!"...couldn't do that again even when I tried

    Early twenties- Tried anal play by myself, but felt gay (no offense to anyone who is), it was such a confusing feeling, kinda scary. I was in such a high state of arousal, I had a girlfriend, a blowjob girl, and an ex I would sleep with, sometimes all in the same day (I'm not bragging, I thought I was a sex addict), and I would also masturbate for a couple hours if I got the chance. Always shooting a Peter North load. NOTHING SATISFIED ME! That's why I tried to achieve an anal orgasm...always searching for something better.

    Fast forward a few years (three years ago) - I read a story about a guy getting a vibrator and after a few sessions, described the exact feelings I had had with the bear (...lol), this made me determined to find out how to do it again. I found myself on the Aneros page, this sounded amazing, but being broke I could not get one, so I decided to get super horny, do all the prep and just use my finger...That was it! Butterflies, warm feelings, buttcheeks starting to shake, whole body getting weak and waves of pleasure to my bones, no erection! I had the feeling again!...Then I got so excited, I had a palpitation and got scared, lost the feeling "God Dammit".

    Is this the beginning of the super-O?

    I have not had this feeling again. I got the Progasm Ice, few involuntaries throughout a two year period, no Super-T, just jerkin of with plastic hanging out of my ass, and then feelings of utter distaste for any form of sexual act out of embarrassment. Soon after had a little tingle, but found, it was a fart, then nothing. Boo me...

    A few months ago- I got the Helix. Why after soo much disappointment? (if you go back and read my previous posts, you prolly think I was on the way, but I think I was magnifying the feelings in my imagination to get excited for the next session...lies? No. trying to hype myself. I'm my own cheerleader (that mental image does not help my lack of enthusiasm)). Well, I thought maybe the size of the progasm was too big for my tender bottom, so why not try something smaller. Good thing, the feelings really did start (not the bear feelings though), I don't get regular involuntaries, just a few everyonce in a while, but I get a few twitches (no pleasure in those), I sometimes I feel ( I think) the prostate, not sure, and a few times I got a boner and good feelings, but those ended quickly. The best feelings I got where almost like a traditional, not quite, and my ass clenched down real tight and so did my abs, but I always end the session thinking, "is that it?". I know I'm supposed to take it for what it is and I try, but I've had nothing memorable happen yet...

    UNTIL!!!- Short version, long awaited a session. Had an okay session, the prior one day was a bit better. Wasn't satisfied. Got into the shower to clean up, and thought "maybe I'll jerk and try to male squirt again (bad previous experience with that), so I decided to do that. Half way through, I thought I would try a super-T, but in order to change things up I found something to put in between my P-tab and me, to hold the toy a bit farther out to not hit the prostate...As it turns out, this felt a bit better. So I finished up and took the 'thinking man' position but naked on the toilet. "I think my prostate is not as far in as I had been thinking".

    When I tried that one evening and had the "bear feelings" with my finger, I was only in a knuckle or two deep...just about the same depth the Helix just was. The next session I used the same blocking device (about a half inch give-er-take). It was different again, I started to feel a better tickle than before, a more focused tickle, and I felt almost an echo of the "bear feelings"...

    Could it be possible that my prostate is not as deep as I thought?

    Thanks for letting me get those thoughts out! Any input, stories, rants, questions, haikus, very specific direction straight to the exact feelings, all are welcome!

    Later Forum
  • stumpy
    Posts: 140
    So this post flashes me back to when I was a kid. When I was about 6 or 7, I discovered the benefit of climbing a pole (or rope or the column out front of my house), then figured out that I could simulate the same thing by hanging from the towel rack in the bathroom, at least until I broke it of the wall. There was no ejaculation with these, but it felt so good, and did include trembling and shaking. I had always assumed this was my under developed body making sense of the rubbing and translating it into pleasure, the only way it could, I don't know off this was through the prostate or not. I don't honestly know if this is the same sensation that we're searching after now though...at least i don't relate the two. However I guesses it's possible because those events would have caused me to tense up my pelvic floor muscles...so similar to the"exercise induced" thred.

    All I have to say though is I wouldn't dwell on the sensations from when you were a kid. If you do you're liable to miss out on new and better experiences. Your body is developed and a lot more complex in the way the nervous system functions then when you were a child. I wood recommend that you just learn to relax, maybe take up meditation, and allow you body to show you what it can do now. You won't be disappointed.
  • twlltintwlltin
    Posts: 570
    ♫ Look for the bear necessities… :-)
  • I can relate to climbing ropes in school when a preteen or so. Strange new feelings but I never new how to put my finger on it, literally. And then, like all other boys, at around 13 I "did it". traditional orgasm with my hand. BUT THEN, at around 18 or 19 I was going to do the "traditional" one night when I felt inspired to try another way. I noticed, when about to start on a "traditional" a certain muscle would tense up. This tensed-up muscle and my hand motions = orgasm. I figured, how about just the tensed muscle, but no hand motion. What would that do? I tried it for about an hour and was rewarded with a sublime long lasting orgasm, that until recently I have not been able to replicate for over 40 years! I honestly can't remember if I came with fluid; it felt like I did, but then sometimes recently I feel like I did with my Aneros, though in point of fact, not; just dry.
    A few years ago, before getting my Aneros, I leaned to recover these dry orgasms, just by "getting the feeling" on my prostate, relaxing and sticking with it for up to an hour. Maybe something internally was teasing the prostate which led to some very nice dry orgasms. I investigated further and fell upon the Aneros site and knew that was what I was searching for. I only have one model, the SGX but it does the job really well and am still learning new tips and experiences.
    If anyone needs any specific advice, or has questions, I'll be happy to offer what I've learned so far.
  • Posts: 0
    Thank you guys for your responses, now I don't feel so alone! Stumpy, I think I need to take your advice and let go of what I am looking for and just let new experiences happen. Thank you, spoken like a wise man!

    Twiltin, just plain awesome response! It make me crack up, and also made a good point. I'm glad other people have a sense of humor about all this as well!

    Bill, I know the feeling of having an awesome experience and not knowing how it happened or how to get it again, but Stumpy had some good advice. Who knows, maybe it was the innocence of not looking for something specific in the first place, lol!

    Thanks guys!

    More stories or tips from anyone please! and I still wonder if my prostate could be that shallow in, so any knowledgeable people, speak up! lol
  • Because of the fires here in New Mexico the bears are coming (maybe cumming, too) down from the higher mountains to our canyon looking for food. A friend of mine who forever is punning and punishing me to death says the bears are coming down because they are not finding the bare necessities higher in the mountains because of the fires.

    When I was maybe in my 20s, a long time ago, I was afraid of heights (and still am.) When I was high on a ladder, not from any other cause (ahem!) I wud feel giddy and get a sensation in my perenium and have a nice wet orgasm. Needless to say I climbed a ladder many times after that. It also happened when I climbed in the tree and had to hug it to hang on when I wud pick the apples with the hand in the other arm. At my age I don't dare climb ladders anymore. i use Aneros instead. Same sensation, but I'm better at edging off to prevent the wet orgasm so I can keep having the repetition of the dry ones.
  • Wow, great story paulsp.
  • Badger
    Posts: 648
    I remember having to climb a rope to the rafters in our gymnasium for gym class, in junior high; I was scared to death climbing that high, but I did. I remember touching the beam, and starting down. I have no recollection of the rest of the trip down. I know there was no traumatic incident, but I still can't remember a danged thing after starting down.
  • ....meaning you probably had a very pleasant experience after reaching the top? I know I did in my similar cir cum stances, but I always put it down to innocently rubbing against the rope. But it could well have been tensing up certain muscles etc. Interesting stuff. :)
  • Badger
    Posts: 648
    No, I had a DEATH GRIP on the rope, and was certain I would slip and fall to my death, or worse: be maimed for life, and fail gym. There was absolutely nothing that was pleasant about climbing a rope, and to the ceiling of a gym, no less. If I didn't mention it before, I am deathly afraid of heights.

    Did I mention that I'm afraid of heights?
  • priapusonepriapusone
    Posts: 257
    LOL, you did mention that!
  • "At a young age- I discovered some sort of orgasm by emulating what I saw on late night tv by "humping" a teddy bear I had. it was awesome, butterflies in the stomach, quivering buttcheek muscles (lol), tingling in my balls, no ejaculation, then waves of full body weakness, followed by a "WTF?!"...couldn't do that again even when I tried"



    "WTF?!"...couldn't do that again even when I tried"

    I remember my first orgasm. This is what I think of If I tried it again. I also remember when I tried to do it a second time; I couldn't. Then a third and forth, but I managed to to it again within that same week (using the same technique) and was VERY surprised that time. That first time was a freebie......every time after that well refraction .

    Yeah, but that orgasm feeling followed by a LONG pause of estacy...I'll never forget that.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,604
    [QUOTE=stumpy;47909]So this post flashes me back to when I was a kid. ..... snip .... I had always assumed this was my under developed body making sense of the rubbing and translating it into pleasure, the only way it could, I don't know off this was through the prostate or not. I don't honestly know if this is the same sensation that we're searching after now though...at least i don't relate the two. However I guesses it's possible because those events would have caused me to tense up my pelvic floor muscles...so similar to the"exercise induced" ....

    I think that the ecstatic laughter I experienced as a kid when being tickled is analogous to adult orgasm. Before my first wet dream (circa age 13) I always craved that elevation in mood and excitement I got when being tickled, first in the ribs then along other body surfaces. Once I ejaculated, that phase of life pleasure seemed over. It was replaced by the rope-climb experience.

    I was fortunate as the rope-climb was a graded achievement from 7th grade onward. Each year between 7th and 12th grade the required time was trimmed by 10 seconds and one had to gain proficiency and strength to earn an 'A.' That took a lot of practice and by 9th grade I'd always hit the deck with my dick trying to climb out of my jock. :)
  • stumpy
    Posts: 140
    Yea...I remember having to do it in school also, the girls loved to watch also. I've always had incredible upper body strength...it's only now as I'm older I understand why. I was doing chinups on the towel rack before they were cool. Lol