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Reaching some new milestones but still looking for help
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    I'm still a relatively new user to the Aneros. I purchased my Helix back in January. My journey has had it's fair share of frustrations and new heights. A couple nights ago, I had what I like to call the "internal itch" so I cleaned myself, flushed out and lubed up. Whenever I ride, I tend to insert the Helix whilst on my side and then I move on my back. This usually gets the involuntaries going straight away and the body starts twitching not long after.

    The body shakes haven't had much pleasure until the last few weeks. Either way, I began my ride a little differently. Instead of inserting on my side, I decided to insert a little differently. I laid down on my back and inserted my Helix from that angle. One of my favorite moments of any of my rides is the insertion. The sensation of the nodules going through different parts of my anatomy always gets me going a little bit.

    I'm not entirely sure what happened but at some point that night, my Helix SLIPPED past something. It was like there was a fold or maybe even a bump that it just suddenly went past. That, in and of itself, didn't necessarily change things immediately. I don't even know if it made any difference. It's just something I noticed.

    I'm not entirely sure what happened, I don't know how it happened, but some time during some local P-Waves (they usually don't go a lot further than my groin and abs), I began to reach some really new heights of pleasure.

    As my excitement began to mount, I developed about half a boner (I wasn't fully erect) and.... SOMETHING happened. I tried to focus on the sensation but I was lost in some sensation. The peak of the sensation was incredible. The only thing I compare it to was a really intense traditional orgasm, except the sensations were a little more spread out. I seriously thought I was ejaculating a fountain but I wasn't. And like I said, this was fairly intense. It lasted for about a minute to maybe a minute and a half. My ride didn't go for much longer than that and didn't really pick up after what I'm guessing was a Dry-O. It was my first one too.

    Does anyone know what on earth happened to me? I could really use some help here. I just want to know what happened to me so that I have a better idea of my own internal awareness and can try to get things happening again... but with having no expectations of course :)
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Congratulations mikejensen!!!

    Different veterans here may characterize what you have just experienced as a Dry-O or as a Super-O. Congratulations!!! Mike, I vote for this being your first Super-O!!! The name really does not matter. This journey is not the Olympic Games.

    This is a pivotal event on your journey. This is a major step in the separation of your ejaculatory response from your vast wide-ranging orgasmic energies responses. Separating these two nervous system mechanisms is the great leap of prostate awakening!! Your body/mind is taking over and you are on your way man. Your intuition was very wise in capitalizing "SOMETHING"!!!

    "SLIPPED" may be a physical sensation on your rectal muscle wall and or prostate gland just behind that wall as your Helix made a unique new contact point with your prostate, or your seriously rewired nerve complex at/in your prostate. Or "SLIPPED" was a nervous system interpretation of this separation, and first major full body orgasmic energies event, experienced while you were still expecting a localized, and penile focused, enhanced masturbatory-like set of sensations.

    Your semi-erection is another great indicator. For many guys, your sessions may include more times, and greater degrees of flaccid penis, as you experience pure orgasmic energies, full body to out-of-body orgasmic ecstasies. With some ejac-like sensation to gradually no ejac-feeling, butt instead, a whole universe of astoundingly powerful ecstatic, enveloping, expanding, enlightening revelations. When in these events, don't worry about or try to "focus" anymore. Let the event unfold for you as it will, often new and strange and wonder-filling!!! Man you are ON YOUR WAY!!!

    all the very best stunning ecstatic energies experiences as you experience the momentum of your prostate awakening all

    artform
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    mikejensen,

    I'm pleased to concur with my colleague, 'artform' and offer congratulations on experiencing a Super-O ! What you described -> mikejensen said:The peak of the sensation was incredible. The only thing I compare it to was a really intense traditional orgasm, except the sensations were a little more spread out. I seriously thought I was ejaculating a fountain but I wasn't. And like I said, this was fairly intense. It lasted for about a minute to maybe a minute and a half. is completely congruent with the Super-O definition > WIKI said:Super-O is an abbreviation of "super orgasm," a term coined by Aneros user Brian Mayfield for an orgasm that steps out of the normal frame of reference. A Super-O is an overwhelmingly strong non-ejaculatory orgasm that may involve: durations of minutes at a time; full-body orgasmic waves of pleasure; intense pleasure throughout the pelvic region,...The duration of the Super-O may be several seconds to minutes longer than a traditional orgasm (particularly when multiples are involved). Super-O's come in all shapes and sizes. Some are small, some are large, some are single, some are multiple, some are centered in one area while others are in another. Some are particularly intense, while others are more subdued. Generally the experience is one of a surging pleasure wave that leaves one in a blissful yet energized state. The Super-O is very personal and different for each individual.

    I liked your statement -> I tried to focus on the sensation but I was lost in some sensation. because it demonstrates two mental qualities which I believe are necessary to experience the Super-O. The first is tuning into and focusing on the subtle sensations being generated by your body. The second is allowing yourself to cede conscious control of the experience to your body, literally to "lose yourself" in the moment. This is the point where you just " Let Go ! " to allow your body to generate this phenomena for your pleasure and enjoyment and just "Go with the Flow ! ".image
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    Thanks gentlemen. I also forgot to mention that I started tweaking and pinching my nipples as well which seemed to be incredibly sensitive. They hadn't been that sensitive before and they just seemed to be hyper sensitive that night. Does nipple pinching help too?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    mikejensen,[QUOTE=mikejensen;47754]Does nipple pinching help too?Absolutely it helps ! To reach the Super-O, one needs to reach elevated levels of arousal. For most men the traditional focus of erotic stimulus is their penis, however, we need to understand that we share with women many common erotic areas of our bodies, including Nipples and other Hot Spots. Whether you pinch, tweak, twist, rub, brush, lick, suck, press on or otherwise fondle/caress them, your nipples can certainly be an area to exploit for pleasurable sensations and a source of heightened arousal.
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    So amazingly wonderful to hear, friend. You are there! You are there! Glad you stuck with it all. As Dr. Seuss said, "Oh, the places you will go."

    You WILL go...FAR!

    Keep us informed.

    PS - Agreed completely with our colleagues art and rumel.

    Brian
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    [QUOTE=artform;47748]When in these events, don't worry about or try to "focus" anymore. Let the event unfold for you as it will, often new and strange and wonder-filling!!!

    Oh trust me, there was only so much focusing I could do whilst caught up in what was happening to me haha. Yeah, after a while, I almost literally thought to myself "Just forget it" and just let the sensation take over me. It was absolutely fantastic. Like I said though, my ride didn't go much further afterwards (which I was fine with) but I'm wondering, how is it that these things pile up on top of each other?
  • buttfunbuttfun
    Posts: 60
    [QUOTE=mikejensen;47754]Thanks gentlemen. I also forgot to mention that I started tweaking and pinching my nipples as well which seemed to be incredibly sensitive. They hadn't been that sensitive before and they just seemed to be hyper sensitive that night. Does nipple pinching help too?image

    I've had a lot of success with this as well, and certainly didn't expect it. Felt fantastic.
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    Yeah, it felt great. But I'm just wondering (to any and all experts here) how do these Super O's pile on top of each other? What does that even begin to feel like? How will I know that I'm experiencing more than one simultaneously?

    Having my first Super O just seems to have created more questions haha.
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    Mike,

    I thought about your questions for a long while and I like to answer in parable and analogy. So, here goes:

    Super O's are like pepperoni on a pizza.

    Sometimes they are placed as separate entities, with a beginning and an end and cheese between. Sometimes they are linked, like a chain with starts and finishes that are distinct, and connected. Some times a sloppy pizza maker throws the pepperoni on the pizza with abandon and they fall where they may; some overlap, some completely cover others, three or four may lay on top of each other, some barely touch, some are not connected at all.

    When they over lap, for me, it IS difficult to distinguish them, but their multiplicity is evident, many different pleasures happen at the same time. And, of course, sometimes the thickness of the stacked pepperoni is overwhelming when one bites into it. In the same way some orgasmic "stacks" are almost too much to handle. Recent orgasm waves I experienced just about made me faint and they sent me in to a hallucinogenic state.

    I've never heard of a person dying from a pepperoni overdose, and I've NEVER heard of anyone succumbing to a series or "stack" of multiple orgasms either. So, welcome them with open arms.

    As always, each of us is different from the other. So maybe your pizza is made with mushrooms or sausage instead of pepperoni, but still the loveliness of enjoying your orgasm pizza will always bring joy, without the calories!

    Congratulations, my friend and keep that pizza oven cooking!

    That's my take.

    Brian
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    yum~~...~~yum yum yumO!~~O!!!^^^!!!!!!YUMYUMYUM...AAAAAHHHhhhhhh!!!!!!~~~~~~ooooOOOOOO!O!O!!!!!!OOOO!!!!!!!!!!AAARRGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!ooooooo~~~~~oooo~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!ahhhhmmmmmmmmm!!......OOOOOOOOOAhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm~~~~~~~~~~~O!!~~~~O!!~~~~~~ OMG ^^^^^^^~~~~>>>>>>^>^>^>vvvvvvvvv~~~~~~~~yum~~~~~yum~~~~YUMYUMO!O!O!O!!!!!!!!ahhhhh~~~~mmmmmm~~~~~~~~~~OOO!!!............

    YMSOMMV (your multiple super o mileage may vary):D:D:D
  • utubeplayutubeplay
    Posts: 38
    GREAT Description brine!!!! From what I remember this is EXACLTY how they felt!!

    [QUOTE=brine;47799]Mike,

    I thought about your questions for a long while and I like to answer in parable and analogy. So, here goes:

    Super O's are like pepperoni on a pizza.

    Sometimes they are placed as separate entities, with a beginning and an end and cheese between. Sometimes they are linked, like a chain with starts and finishes that are distinct, and connected. Some times a sloppy pizza maker throws the pepperoni on the pizza with abandon and they fall where they may; some overlap, some completely cover others, three or four may lay on top of each other, some barely touch, some are not connected at all.

    When they over lap, for me, it IS difficult to distinguish them, but their multiplicity is evident, many different pleasures happen at the same time. And, of course, sometimes the thickness of the stacked pepperoni is overwhelming when one bites into it. In the same way some orgasmic "stacks" are almost too much to handle. Recent orgasm waves I experienced just about made me faint and they sent me in to a hallucinogenic state.

    I've never heard of a person dying from a pepperoni overdose, and I've NEVER heard of anyone succumbing to a series or "stack" of multiple orgasms either. So, welcome them with open arms.

    As always, each of us is different from the other. So maybe your pizza is made with mushrooms or sausage instead of pepperoni, but still the loveliness of enjoying your orgasm pizza will always bring joy, without the calories!

    Congratulations, my friend and keep that pizza oven cooking!

    That's my take.

    Brian
  • [QUOTE=artform;47851]yum~~...~~yum yum yumO!~~O!!!^^^!!!!!!YUMYUMYUM...AAAAAHHHhhhhhh!!!!!!~~~~~~ooooOOOOOO!O!O!!!!!!OOOO!!!!!!!!!!AAARRGGGGHHHHHH!!!!!!!!ooooooo~~~~~oooo~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~!!!!!!!ahhhhmmmmmmmmm!!......OOOOOOOOOAhhhhhhhhhmmmmmmmm~~~~~~~~~~~O!!~~~~O!!~~~~~~ OMG ^^^^^^^~~~~>>>>>>^>^>^>vvvvvvvvv~~~~~~~~yum~~~~~yum~~~~YUMYUMO!O!O!O!!!!!!!!ahhhhh~~~~mmmmmm~~~~~~~~~~OOO!!!............

    YMSOMMV (your multiple super o mileage may vary):D:D:D

    I luv artforms decription, too. hits it off for me.
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    Thanks for all the help, gentlemen but I'm afraid I've run into another problem. After recognizing that it was a Super-O that I had (and experiencing perhaps one or two more) I have a problem mentally now. I can't ride without at least HOPING (perhaps expecting) another Super-O that was as amazing what I first experienced. How have you all conquered this mental block? Because this is a mental block that will carry over as a physical block to experiencing more... stuff, I guess is the best way to put it. It's like I took a step forward before leaping backwards. Do you guys have any advice?
  • Yeah, Mike. Just let the thoughts in your head roll by. Concentrate more on bodily sensations, what you are feeling at prostate level, doing your nipple thing and any other body touching, some advise avoiding the penis, to be more in feeling mode than thinking. Some find relaxing music helps, some find watching porn helps, but the big thing is just to relax and let what happens happen. Too much thinking can really distract.
    Paul
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    mikejensen,

    I think you're experiencing a very common phenomenon for men who experience their first Super-O, namely 'How do I repeat this wonderful event ?' As you have accurately identified, having expectations can become a blockage to experiencing another Super-O. I don't know if one ever really conquers this line of thinking but my best advice is to just tell yourself to enjoy the sensations you ARE experiencing and if they escalate into a Super-O then all the better!

    Remember you can not force a Super-O to occur so you might as well drop any expectation of having it occur during your next Anerosession. Perhaps thinking of it as a surprise gift your body bestows upon you, only when you are NOT expecting it, is a better approach. The cumulative pleasure you experience between Super-O's is extremely rewarding in and of itself, image so why not just relax and enjoy the ride for the moment to moment experience and let what will happen, happen as it may.
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    GENTS! Again, I approach your combined mountain range of wisdom and hope to apply it in as amazing a way as possible. Last night, I went for a ride (having declined the urge for several days) and it was incredible. 3 Supers almost straight after the word "Go!" and in fairly quick succession. It was fantastic and a ride to remember.

    Here's where I seek more advice. After those 3 Super Os, the pleasure dropped like a rock. I mean, it almost completely stopped and an hour and a half later, did not come back. I wasn't really even expecting another Super O but I was a little upset that my fantastic ride dropped off after a rather amazing twenty minutes or so.

    I was wondering what your tips are to prolonging the pleasure of your rides and/or even getting the pleasure back started again?
  • XilehXileh
    Posts: 353
    Mike -

    Per Rummel, focusing on the Super O may deprive you of many wonderful sensations and experiances. Often, I have enjoyed a pleasureable feeling for several weeks then have it disappear, not to return. Something else replaces it later. So much unexpected wonder. Relax, enjoy it all.

    Xileh
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    Mike,

    So glad to see you are moving ahead with steady progress. I'm really excited for you.

    Here are some of my thoughts on your question about prolonging and replicating the pleasure:

    • The best sessions for me are the ones that keep distractions at a minimum. I get everything ready and set the atmosphere; the room, the temperature, the lights, the music, my body, the bed, and I get everything I'll need. A sure fire way for my session to have fizzle moments is to have to get up to turn off a light or close a door or grab a towel. Keeping distractions away allows me to fully concentrate on the matter at hand. Doing so allows my sessions to be uninterrupted, giving me the chance to experience all the session has to offer.

    • I focus my concentration and energy on all the feelings, regardless of how minute or subtle they may be. I describe them in my mind with words (e.g., bugs crawling under my skin, a metal ball rolling down my torso, etc.) This keeps me connected with the moment and from hoping for something else, keeping expectations at bay. I see all that I get from a session as a gift. This way, a session is not identified by me as a "dud."

    • I learned early on that I can't necessarily replicate experiences. My first few Super O sessions were actually quite violent and extremely pleasurable. I haven't since had a repeat of Supers of that description. That is not to say the will never happen again like that, but this is a journey and not a destination. There are detours and scenic roadways, and all have their value. I take each session as it comes. Hoping for something may cause you to miss the beauty and mystery of the moment.

    So, prepare, focus, relax, enjoy the journey.

    I look forward to hearing about your further adventures.

    Brian
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    mikejensen,

    image I just have to laugh a little, here you have described experiencing not just one or two Super-O's, but three Super-O's through twenty minutes of intense orgasmic pleasure and you're asking us how to prolong it even further? image

    ...I was a little upset that my fantastic ride dropped off after a rather amazing twenty minutes or so.

    Perhaps a little perspective is needed to appreciate the great gift and joy image you have already received.

    Listen to your body! It has already given you what it could, be thankful for that and give it a chance to re-energize. Super-O's are special events to be cherished and enjoyed not only during their occurrence but in your memories as well. If you try to push for them or hold them , they will flee from you like a timid fawn, allow yourself to welcome them into your experience without coercion and they will visit you more frequently. image
  • mikejensen
    Posts: 35
    Thanks for all your help everyone. I've done a lot of thinking (whilst refraining from riding just so I can get a better understanding of certain things) and I've come to this idea that the Super O may not necessarily be a certain event, such as it is, but may actually just be a certain level of arousal. What do you guys think?