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  • View Poll Results: Pegging? Voters: 92

    You may not vote on this poll

    Never. No way. Forget it 4 4.35%

    Maybe, maybe not 6 6.52%

    I would if she asked me to 30 32.61%

    We did it - don't anymore 7 7.61%

    Yes, we do it regularly 21 22.83%

    I've asked, and she won't 8 8.70%

    I'm afraid to ask 16 17.39%

  • Lady gaga looks like a blond version of Edward penis hands!

    Are you saying she has donned a strapon for that photo, I can only just make it out, pegging's gone mainstream!
  • This video, like all of Lady Gaga's, is pretty bizarre...but there are several unmistakable scenes that flash by. Yep, Gaga does it.
    As far as mainstream - pegging has been mentioned on the Colbert Report. Worth a watch to see Colbert's face!
  • Liam9
    Posts: 25
    Have any of you ever considered the real thing? I mean if the opportunity presented itself? I am curious as to how many of you would be willing to try it? :)
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, Liam.

    You know, there have been more than a few threads on this board about exactly that topic. Try searching on "attracted to men" or "real thing."

    Here's one: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/clarity-gay-thing-15441/ Kudos to darwin for posing the question.

    Most guys know what their sex partner gender attraction/preference is from the get-go. By definition, straight guys are attracted to women, gays to men, lesbians to women, and bi-people to whomever. A woman with a strap-on phallus is still a woman.

    Speaking only for myself, if I was attracted to men or was bi, I'd certainly want the real thing, but I'm not and I don't.

    Cheers,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
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  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,474
    Hi Liam9 and ten_s_nut!!! :D :D :D

    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;101801]Hello, Liam.

    ....Most guys know what their sex partner gender attraction/preference is from the get-go. By definition, straight guys are attracted to women, gays to men, lesbians to women, and bi-people to whomever. A woman with a strap-on phallus is still a woman.

    Speaking only for myself, if I was attracted to men or was bi, I'd certainly want the real thing, but I'm not and I don't.

    Cheers,

    Dave
    ...

    And there can be even finer divisions on the response/orientation spectrum.

    I am hetero-bi, enjoy male form aesthetically as much as female, check out gay "porn" as well as lesbian, bi and straight from time to time, tried the gay/bi full range in my youth and found out where I fit more specifically. I don't feel any need or want to have m/m physical sexual contact, yet I can enjoy that other men do and celebrate intellectually, emotionally, openly with them platonically.

    Others have asked, if something ever happened to my dear wife?? I would very clearly, highly most likely find a new female partner. Butt you can never say never in this range of the spectrum, and I accept that comfortably. That little gap, while no threat at all to my m/f relationship, is a little zip zest that seasons my ongoing life from the richness of my whole life journey experience to date!! :D

    This from a bi-guy who is sexually attracted virtually exclusively to women. Butt who is aesthetically and erotically enjoying male and female beauty and energies in all their forms.

    I have put countless varieties of things up my ass to massage my prostate over the past 50+ years, including my friend's dick in our youth experimental fling, and I don't miss it at all. I just don't need a penis in there. Now Aneros and Mrs. A's fingers!!! Super-O-ing all the way in SO many ways!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!................................

    enjoy all of your journey's subtle richness in your eroticism all wherever you are on the great potentials spectrum all

    artform
  • Hello, all, and especially visitors to this site.

    I've noticed that this thread is one of the most popular and the longest one on this website. Looking at Google, I think I know why. If you search on "pegging" and limit the time span to "Past month," you'll find this thread on the first page of results. That means many men reading this thread are not Aneros users. Rather, they are here because of an interest in pegging. This post is aimed at those guys.

    There's a beneficial relationship between Aneros practice and pegging. Had I never started with Aneros, I probably wouldn't have become interested in pegging. Aneros use "wakes up" the prostate to pleasure. And once that happens, a logical question is, what else might feel good down there? "Dildo" might be the next thought. Dildo attached to my wife or GF soon follows. Next thing you know, you're searching the Web to find out about pegging.

    So, if you're interested in pegging, I suggest starting with Aneros first. Aneros will get your prostate feeling good. I used Aneros for 6 months and was at the routine Super-O stage before any pegging. My prostate was warmed up and ready for more action. Continuing with nightly Aneros use after pegging became a regular part of our sex life means that I'm always ready for whatever my wife wants to do.

    I think the best choice of an Aneros device for someone interested in pegging is the Vice. It's size, material and vibrator are the closest Aneros gets to a pegging dildo. In fact, I find that using the Vice with the vibe in Mode 4 (pulse-pulse) is not all that different from the sensations I get when my wife pegs me in a jiggling motion. Of course, a thrusting dildo is another story, mainly because the full diameter of the dildo holds the anus open all the time. With Vice, anal stretch is relatively limited. Vice's in and out motion is a maximum of a half-inch, and typically around a quarter-inch, total range.

    If you're already using one of the smaller Aneros models, like MGX or Helix, I'd suggest moving up to Progasm, Ice or Vice before pegging. That will give your body a chance to adjust. Even then, a typical 6-inch dildo will take some getting used to.

    Cheers,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • I just wanted to add a few comments to this thread.

    1. Has anyone else noticed the increase in Pegging videos on the web over the last couple of years? I sure have. For me, this fantasy is not really about a Dom/Sub relationship, which is what a lot of videos I used to find depicted. Lately, in the amateur porn I watch, I have notice a lot more videos between loving couples which are not of the Dom/Sub type, but just two people enjoying sex. I think this is a good sign that this sex act is becoming more "mainstream" and that it is not about power and control like a lot of the porn out there suggests.

    2. Unfortunately for me, my SO will not indulge me in this type of sex. I have explored alternate ways of exploring this with my wife even if she is a passive participant, and I thought I would share my techniques. I have even been able to have hands free prostate orgasms using these techniques. I think my aneros journey has helped.

    My wife really enjoys getting body massages, mostly while she lays on her stomach, while I straddle her and massage her body (head, shoulders, back, butt, legs, calves, feet. Not always in that order). My first technique is to straddle her facing her feet so that we are butt to butt. So what I do while massaging her legs/feet, I will spread my cheeks and sit down on her butt and grind my anus against hers. Leaning forward toward her feet is the most stimulating position. This kind of simulates the cowgirl positions and I imaging I am riding her dildo. On many occasions I have had full release hands free prostate orgasms doing this. Sometimes this even leads to sex, since it feels good to her too, she is usually moaning when I do this.

    The other technique also involves giving a body massage, but this time I will straddle one of her legs where I can sit down on one of her heel and I will grind my anus back and forth and up and down on her heel.

    One more thing we do, where she is an active participant, is that she will get on top while I spread my legs around her waist and she humps me as if we were in the standard missionary position. This at least gives me a sense of what it might be like to have her do me.

    So, I just thought I would share some of my thoughts on this subject. Hopefully one day my SO will loosen up a bit and be willing to try it for real.

    Thanks for reading,

    David
  • she will get on top while I spread my legs around her waist and she humps me as if we were in the standard missionary position. This at least gives me a sense of what it might be like to have her do me.



    David;

    If you had Aneros Vice in your butt when she did that, you'd be getting 90% of the pegging experience. The other 10%, thrusting, can be a challenge you might want to skip anyway. If the Vice is too pricey for you, almost any silicone or jelly dildo with an anal-safe flare or bar will suffice. Just don't try to use a hard plastic Aneros or dildo for "dry humping."

    Also, that was a great post. Based on the Pegging Survey (below), I'd say a lot of guys here are in the same boat as you.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • I found another source of pegging videos that thankfully bypass most of the porn stereotypes...it's a blog called "Sensual Pegging". Nice photos, too. Here's the link:
    Sensual Pegging
    Enjoy!
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,474
    Thanks very much Ruby Ryder!!!

    [QUOTE=Ruby Ryder;102187]I found another source of pegging videos that thankfully bypass most of the porn stereotypes...it's a blog called "Sensual Pegging". Nice photos, too. Here's the link:
    Sensual Pegging
    Enjoy!

    This is a big help in a gentle introduction to pegging getting underway here.

    all the best slow and gentle arts of ecstasies too on the menu all

    artform
  • Ruby;
    Thanks for the link. Some nice stuff there.

    Art;
    So, how's pegging progressing with the missus?

    Cheers,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • And not because I couldn't hack it. Didn't get that far, the "pony" end was too big for the missus believe it or not. Not that it wouldn't go in, just caused some discomfort whilst it was inserted. I wasn't about to say "suck it up Princess" all things considered!
    So, what is a good tool for slimming down the pony? Gotta get it a bit thinner and shave that nasty edge off it. I got a die grinder with a cutting tool for aluminium and mild steel, just can't imagine hacking into 100 bucks worth of silicone at this point! The thought of chasing a double ended dildo around the garage getting it filthy and damaged doesn't turn me on either. I mean how am I gonna hold it down? Shove it in the vice?
  • Hello, Sky_Walker.

    Glad to hear you gave Share XL a go. I was very curious about it.

    As you can read in this thread about 4 or 5 months back, my wife had the exact same reaction the the standard Fun Factory Share: the vaginal "bean" was uncomfortable, though she did use it on me a few times before I modified it. The mods and the tools I used are described in my posts. Long story short; power tools and sanders won't work on silicone. You can get good results with razor-edge type cutters, chisels, blades and saws; the kind used in wood model making. The silicone can be resurfaced with high-grade silicone sealant, like Dow-Corning or Dupont.

    After the mods, the Share was better but still not comfy for my wife, so I cut the bean off completely and installed a bullet vibe on the surface abutting her clitoris. Used with a SpareParts Joques harness, that was good, not ideal. Eventually, we quit using Share and moved on to the Vixen Creations Nexus Senior. The only mod I made to that was to carve a hole for the bullet vibe.

    Keep working at it and you and your wife will find something that you both enjoy.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • I don t see any mention of the Vixskin dildos here. Why ? Too much realistic ?
  • Found a cool website I thought I'd share for those interested in pegging.
    Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise
    Being a person with interest in the subject, I found this site helpful in answering some questions from another perspective.
    Enjoy!
  • [QUOTE=Awokenmind;102287]Found a cool website I thought I'd share for those interested in pegging.
    Ruby Ryder's Pegging Paradise
    Being a person with interest in the subject, I found this site helpful in answering some questions from another perspective.
    Enjoy!

    LOL, is that not the one that the member specifically called "Ruby Ryder" has already shared with us? :p
  • Oops... did not notice the name.
  • Hello, Awokenmind.

    No problem, dude. Welcome to the forum.

    There certainly are a lot of Aneros guys interested in pegging. That's natural. Once you "get" how good prostate stimulation can feel, finding new ways to expand the experience is a logical next step.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • @wreckind - Vixskin dildos are one of the 2 "skin-like" dildos that I would recommend, not from personal experience but from the perspective of passing the tests of non-toxic as well as sterilizable and easy to care for. They are pricey. As far as being too realistic - that's an individual preference.

    @Awokenmind - Thanks, I'm flattered and glad you like the website!
  • Hello, wreckind.

    There has been some discussion on this site among straight guys who like pegging or would like to be pegged regarding how realistic the dildo should or should not be. The consensus seems to be that a non-realistic dildo is preferable. For me, I don't think it matters. As you can see from the pix I've posted, the ones we use are stylized penis-like objects. That's not because we purposely shied away from realism, but because we wanted silicone at a reasonable price.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • @wreckind - I will chime in here and say that as a woman I have purposefully chosen dildos that were not realistic. I guess I look at it as an instrument to give my partner pleasure rather than actually having a cock. As such, why not have it be my favorite color? :-)
  • Ruby;

    Dildo as fashion accessory. Why not?

    I'm assuming that aside from color and shape, you always choose silicone as the material, right?

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • Dave,

    Fashion accessory! (laughing) I suppose you could say that.

    I do indeed always choose silicone. Silicone rocks... and although it is more pricey that the cheap dildos, you don't have to worry about toxicity and sterilizability. When you really understand more about the toxic cheap jelly dildos - you will never use them again!

    There are only 2 mixed material dildos I would recommend - they are the skin-like ones mentioned before - Vixskin and the Tantus O2.

    Ruby
  • Ruby;

    Some people can't afford the high quality silicone toys. For those folks, I suggest putting a condom on their ten-dollar jelly dildo. Not a bad idea in general, since it assists clean-up. Money saved on the dildo can be applied to a higher quality harness, which is really important. Do you have pages on your site for the harness issue? I must have missed it.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • Yes - it's under the FAQ - first question.
    For the budget-minded - The cheapest place I have seen to buy decent harnesses is SheVibe. they have a good selection.
    Just make sure you don't get the thong back kind - the stability with those is lacking. You want two straps in the back. Also - no cheap elastic straps. You want something that will hold it to the body firmly - no wobbling.
    I recently tried out the Spare Parts Joque harness - incredibly comfortable and excellently designed. But those are pricey, too.
    What I really want to try now is the RodeoH - the reviews are excellent and they look so comfortable! Better priced, too.

    This is perhaps the cheapest beginner's kit I have seen with a silicone dildo.

    You got me started, Dave....

    Ruby
  • Badger
    Posts: 647
    ten_s_nut;

    You also have to consider the accumulative cost of the condoms for each use; they'll add up to quite a princely sum after a while. If you can afford to wait a little longer, and keep a close eye on sales for the dildo of your dreams, you can get one that way. It will just take a little longer.
  • Ruby;

    Thanks for the pointer to harnesses on your website. I don't know how I missed that. The pegging starter set you linked in your post looks perfect for newbies to pegging, assuming there's someplace in the harness pad to put a vibe for her.


    Badger;

    Good point about condoms not being free, but they are really inexpensive when purchased in bulk on the Web, like the following at less then 11 cents apiece:
    Amazon.com: 100 Okamoto Crown Condoms, World Famous Super Thin and Sensitive Condom, for Extra Sensation: Health & Personal Care

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • cj187
    Posts: 54
    After chatting with Dave earlier, he has asked me to post here.

    Recently my girlfriend has expressed an interest in Pegging, and i'm subtly encouraging her, telling her how much of turn on it would be. It transpires her interest was piqued by a colleague who is surprising her husband with it over xmas, the lucky sod.

    At the moment I'm letting her introduce this into our relationship at her own pace, reason being that generally I take the lead on stuff like this and she knows i'm pretty much up for anything. Will keep you informed of our progress.
  • Without meaning to be presumptuous - you are a lucky sod as well!

    Do you know how many men there are out there who dream of their women coming to them with an interest in pegging? It's a freakin' hard thing to ask for as a man. So you are indeed fortunate.

    Sometimes, for the woman, there can be an aspect of newly discovered dominance or being in charge (one kind of has to be in charge to "run the fuck") - so perhaps it's good to let her take the lead in this if there is a chance she might be exploring that territory and you are amenable to the idea.

    Sounds like you will be having a very Happy New Year!

    Enjoy,
    Ruby
  • Hello to all! I Only recently found out about Pegging on this site, needless to say I have been anxious to give it a try. I approached my wife about the subject several weeks ago and she was receptive to the idea of giving it a try. We got the DVD about male anal penetration and watched it the other night. We have purchased a beginners sized dildo and a high quality harness which looks incredible on my wife! Tonight was our first experience and suffice it to say we are starting out slowly, lots of lube and relaxation, one finger two fingers, a very small vibrator then my wife slowly eased the larger dildo into me it just all of the sudden dissapeared. I am glad that it was no larger than it was. I found it to be a very enjoyable experience and most importantly an incredibly intimate experience with my wife! We are gonna ease into the full blown pegging and I can assure you I am looking forward to it.
  • Welcome to the world of pegging! So glad to hear your first experience was so enjoyable and even better - intimate. That's one of the things I love most about pegging; the intimacy and vulnerability of the exchange. If you are looking for a place to learn more about pegging - I humbly offer my website - there's a lot there.
    Enjoy,
    Ruby
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, pegging fans.

    Here's a very short story you might like:

    Quickies in New York

    Happy New Year!

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • Thanks, Dave! That is a well-written story. A little more intense than I prefer but there were some very hot parts. I loved the juxtaposition of the ending where she is so tender with him. Nice!
    Happy New Year, all!
    Wishing you a year full of pegging adventures and explorations.

    Ruby
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Happy New Year to you too, Ruby and all the pegging fans here.

    I agree the domination aspect of the "Quickie" story isn't everybody's cup of tea; not mine, for sure. Even so, there's no doubt that power transfer is one of the turn-ons about pegging, for both partners. There's something to be said for walking in the other person's shoes occasionally. Pegging certainly helped me understand my wife's attitude about penetration.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

    Pegging Survey (please vote)
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
    Wet HFO by strap-on:
    Sdms-837 part1 (straponed male orgasm) - XNXX.COM
    Strap-on image gallery:
    Strap-on Images
  • J4J4
    Posts: 124
    Just last night I joined the ranks of the pegged! I got a Tantus Bend Over Beginner set for Mrs. J4 and I last year. We played with it a couple of times but it wasn’t until last night that we had all the components in place to try a real honest of goodness pegging session.



    I’ll be the first to admit that Mrs. J4 had all the right swagger to pull off the Strap On role. Having had experience now with anal play, it’s so easy to get the initial cleanup, warm up with the vice and relax on entry parts. It was funny to feel her figure out how to hit the hole (actual dialogue from last night: “Is that the right hole?” laughing, “you know I only have one, right?”)



    While in all aspects it was very pleasurable (and in no aspect was it uncomfortable), I was unable to maintain an erection or achieve orgasm in any of the pegging positions we tried. Much of this I attribute to fact that I am a Peridise man and that I made a tactical error in thinking I needed to accommodate the Vice first in prep for the Strap On. In reality, the Tantus beginner is no bigger than a Peridise and the Vice started a desensitizing process that the constant thrusting of the strap on only exacerbated. The end result is that after 30 minutes of pegging I stopped getting any penile or prostate reaction.



    The story has a “happy ending” of course. At about 3 in the morning I woke up awash in powerful prostate sensations as the little jewel seemed to have thawed out and was retransmitting all the pent up sensations I had hoped would be released by the actual pegging. Mrs. J4 was receptive to a shoulder tap booty call and all was well.



    Now for the last couple of years me and Mrs. J4 have been on a fantastic sexual odyssey having consented to the “you only go around once in life” theme and embarked on a lot of exploration, role play and fantasy fulfillment. For those of you in search of ways to communicate to your SO’s, one of the tools we have developed for dialogue is the Sexual Bucket List. There are things on The List that we have agreed to try, even if only once, so that we can keep doing it on the basis of “What makes you Hard andWet” or “gee, that was different, but let’s not do that again”. If things we try make us Hard and Wet, we don’t really have to explain it to one another, we just accept that that’s theway we’re wired and that we can repeat those things even if they aren’t exactly mainstream.



    Thanks to all the contributors to this thread! Y’all provide exactly the Right Tone and immensely useful information so that us first timers are not complete bumbling idiots!



    J4
  • Whoo hooo, way to go J4!

    Add Nuru gel massage to your bucket list......go on, google it!
  • brine
    Posts: 220
    J4,

    So great for you two. Keep us posted on your experiences.

    Brian
  • argyle
    Posts: 5
    I've been Pegged!! It was a very pleasant experience, the experience did not last as long as I would have hoped but I know that with practice we will get a lot better. My wife is an incredibly giving person which is a good quality to posess when it comes to being on the end that she is on. We did some warming up with a finger then multiple fingers then on to the real thing. She was behind me and I was on all fours and she began by placing just the head of the dildo into me then before I knew it the whole thing was buried inside of me it was a very warm sensation and she started penetrating me in the ultimate reversal of roles. We both agree that it will only get better. My wife admits that her first concern was my comfort so she was not really in tune to her own pleasures and feelings. At any rate I Loved it!
  • As important as anal lubricant is ...
    particularly for penetrative anal sex
    ... exercise caution ==>
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    - rip
  • Badger
    Posts: 647
    Oh, good grief! In spite it possibly being true, aside from his horrible deception, the projectile results were hilarious. It looks like he learned a lesson about lube selection and quantity, not to mention how to treat people, the hard way. Kind of reminds me of the vomiting episode of The Family Guy, as well as the drinking episode between Leonard and Penny, vomiting in her bathroom after drinking several bottles of wine and a bottle of Peppermint Schnapps on The Big Bang Theory.
  • The wife and I have had pretty good success over the last couple years with pegging. She currently uses a very sturdy, leather harness (don't know the name but dropped a couple bucks for it), and we have a Tantus Charmer dildo for the business end. The Charmer is a woman's g-spot dildo but has very nice ribs that work well on the prostate. Our favorite position is missionary with my lags wrapped around her back. It's a little awkward at first but once you both find your rhythm is great for mini-0's! We also found a cheap wedge pillow on Amazon and it can help things a lot.

    I love my Aneros and my journey is progressing nicely. My wife loves the effect the Aneros is having on me in the bedroom. Pegging was a way for us to bring the two together. I'm currently looking for a double ended strapon but am not having much luck. I've been looking at the strapless types but i know we will still have to use the harness and i'm having a hard time deciding which one to go with. We purchased the Share and when we took it out of the box, we were both amazed at the size and have no intentions of using it.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, Pbmazda32.

    Sounds like you and your wife have had experiences with Aneros and pegging that are similar to ours, except we started out with Fun Factory Share, which was a mistake. Our current dual-ended pegging rig is documented in this thread a few dozen posts back. We're still learning and have the goal of getting her to have big Os during pegging. So far, all she's been able to achieve is lots of mini-Os. I guess we need more practice. :)

    Best of luck to you guys,

    Dave

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  • argyle -
    Sounds like a very nice first experience for you both. You are right - it gets better with practice! Thanks for sharing your story.

    Pbmazda32 -


    I love my Aneros and my journey is progressing nicely. My wife loves the effect the Aneros is having on me in the bedroom. Pegging was a way for us to bring the two together.



    I love hearing stories like this. When anal exploration ends up improving a relationship - yay! Thanks so much for sharing that with us.

    If you are looking for a double-ended strap-on - one option is to use the Outlaw Leather harness that will hold two separate flare-based dildos, one in you and one in her. I have experience with this set up and particularly enjoy the dildo that has a bullet vibe inserted in the base of it. Most dildos that have a vibe in them are not positioned correctly for contact with my clit, because the dildo is in my partner and the vibes only come through the base, which is often too high. The Outlaw harness has a dildo that is in me so the vibe is right in the perfect position. Plus - you can each choose which size you want! Yes, the Share is pretty huge...plus the double-ended dildos are hard to manage without a harness - even the smaller ones are definitely not a beginner's toy. Mainly because you have vaginal muscles competing with anal sphincters and the anal sphincters are going to win every time. So the woman often finds it hard if not impossible to keep the toy inside her - requiring so much effort and concentration that any pleasure she might be experiencing goes right out the window.
  • I've been lurking this thread for quite a while, mostly because I don't have any personal experience to add. I want to say to Ruby that your advice and insight has been most welcome and appreciated. I have a double that I was thinking of using when I find the right partner, but would have never thought about the competing muscles. Instead, I will look into a good harness and leave the dildo selection up to what I hope might be a very fun night with someone special. :) Of course, this will all happen when the time is right in my life.
  • rikaaim, Thanks for your kind words. Glad you came out from lurking and joined the ranks of the posters!
    Doubles can be awesome for solo play, too - the bulb end is like a handle and (I hear) it works well.

    For everyone else - I have been working on a piece of writing that may appeal to the members here - it's about how porn's portrayal of pegging scares people (of both genders) off from wanting to try it. You might enjoy it. "How Porn Ruins Pegging"

    Happy Pegging,
    Ruby
  • Ruby, I had one pegging experience with my ex girlfriend. She bought a "beginner" strap-on set long before we met and was planning on using it on a woman, but plans changed, and we had a go at it. The phallus part of the unit was immensely huge and very uncomfortable. I was able to ease into it after a while. Anyone who knows me around here knows I'm no stranger to anal toys either. I was using double dildos solo and plugs of all shapes and sizes before I met her. For me to say that this phallus was too large in girth is a statement. The experience for me was utter bliss once everything got moving. I wrapped my legs around her back and just held on. She was standing on the floor, and I was partially off the edge of the bed. The position was perfect. I could have easily cum hands free. There are two reasons we didn't try again. One, this is a spur of the moment decision on her part, and I couldn't clean fully. So, there was a little "residue" on the phallus when we were done. Two, this beginner strap-on had no insertion on her part, either with a bulb or any extension from the harness part. We looked into the Share and many other models, but I think the first reason sufficiently grossed her out enough that she just wasn't up for trying it again.

    I have a double dildo that I like to use in the shower and plant one end into the rail holder and then insert and ride the other end. I very much enjoy Aneros, but love to be able to ride and get pounded by a strap-on or my double dildo. I tried once to use this double dildo with her, but the mechanics were hard to work out with the angles and such. Frustration lead to giving up. This is why I was appreciative of you mentioning double dildos with couples play. Maybe next time I can achieve more.
  • rikaaim -
    Always best to start with something reasonably sized. I consider that to be about 6" long and 1.25" in diameter - no larger than that. For men who have more difficulty opening up to accept a toy - maybe 5.5" x 1". There are undoubtedly many men who can claim to have taken a large toy right from the start but most men need to ease into the larger size dildos - and some are satisfied with the beginner sizes. I wouldn't go any shorter than the 5.5 or 6 because it can tend to fall out when thrusting.

    I'm so glad once you got used to it that the result was "utter bliss". Nice!

    There are people who are very sensitive to "messes" with pegging. Sorry to hear she was so put off by it. I'm sure you have probably explained this to her but I'll say it anyway...if she understands that it was only because it was the spur of the moment and you were not cleaned out - perhaps she might be willing to try it again. I can personally testify to the comparison. I pegged a man without his cleaning out beforehand and there was indeed a little bit of residue on the toy and a bit of smell. The following time he took the time to clean out - just with a bulb syringe and there was no smell, no mess - nothing but pleasure and nice clean pegging.

    The double-ended dildos are really advanced toys and not advisable for beginners. They often set people up to fail, unfortunately. They are difficult to manage without a harness - and even then still a bit tricky. If she is looking for insertion on her end - consider the Outlaw Leather harness, which will accommodate two flared-base dildos - one in her and one in you - you can even choose your own sizes...
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Hi there,

    Just got an Tantus O2 revolution dildo to try the pegging.
    First session i wasn't able to get past the inner ring of the anus,i guess i must relax some more.
    Don't have problems with the progasm but tantus is a bit more so i have to slowly get into that.

    Some time ago i bought a sex machine,mini stallion from orgasm alley around 1100 dollars for my fleshlights.
    Amazing being fucked with that with a heated fleshlight.
    Now i've tried to use the same holder with the Tantus and if i put some cloth in the holder it stays put no matter what.
    So next time i do this i'm gonna let the machine slowly touch my anus,can control speed and depth,let it go further or faster in a way that it stays comfortly.
    This way i can just relax and not do the pegging myself.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, valliant.

    Good luck with the machine fucking. I hope you are REALLY careful. There's enough power in that thing to hurt you.

    Best Regards,

    Dave

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    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/pegging-16013/
    Tool comparison photo:
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/members/ten_s_nut/albums/vixen-vs-feedoe-vice/
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  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Just ordered the johnny vixskin to do the pegging because it looks softer to begin this journey.
    Later will get back to the tantus O2.