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Just got aneros
  • xxxxxx
    Posts: 1
    I just got myself aneros on Tuesday, used it 3 times and absolutely nothing happened. I even do not feel anything when I put it in. There is no discomfort, but nor is there any pleasurable feelings. It really feels like absolutely nothing happened. How is this supposed to give me an orgasm? I had it in there for probably like 20 minutes. Tried doing those muscle movements and still felt absolutely nothing.
  • Give it a few more chances before you worry too much.

    If it still does NOTHING at all, and I really mean NOTHING--because the smallest feelings can grow into something wonderful--then think about trying a different model.

    If you got the MGX or the SGX, there's a money-back guarantee. Sorry it didn't work for you the first time--don't write it off yet, though.
  • Hi, xxx. Welcome to the forum.

    Wow, you're the first guy that this didn't work immediately for. NOT! Really, man, have you read any of the introductory posts on the forum??? Have you not read that this often takes weeks, months, or even...dare I say it...years before you reach the goal of non-ejaculative multiorgasm.

    Dude, this is a marathon, not a sprint (I just made that up...Ha) and you're in for a really great ride, but xxx, it takes TIME! I said exactly the same thing after my first 10 Aneros sessions...nothing. It took a month or more of 3-5 times a week before I even got an erection as a result of my Aneros sessions...but I finally did...I finally started to realize that what I was doing was actually working.

    The journey is worth the effort. It's a fantastic result when you get there. But you have to be patient. You have to pay your dues, so to speak, and practice with your aneros. Go to the WIKI and read through it. Read other people's experiences and you'll find a wealth of knowledge of how to use your Aneros massager.

    You're going to get a "welcome" email from our brother "rumel". He'll send you a message with many links that will help you to begin well.

    May I suggest that you NOT do any more sessions UNTIL you read more. Your expectations at this point will definitely hold you back, and keep you from progressing because you are expecting too much at this point.

    Relax, read and learn. The journey is worth it...the result is fantastic, but you'll have to pay your dues.

    Good luck.

  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,460

    I think you need to do a good deal of reading to begin to understand the process involved here. The comment you "...still felt absolutely nothing." is actually quite common for newbies, I'm confident the sensations are there, it is just a matter of you tuning into them. So
    patience, young squire, patience...3 tries x 20 min. = 60 minutes is hardly enough time for your body to even begin to tune into these subtle sensations. It takes me about that long to get relaxed enough to really allow those subtle sensations to emerge and blossom, patience, patience, patience.

    P.S. I sent you an introductory PM with some additional hints and tips to get you started here.
  • Yes, read read read this forum! My first time I got to using my hand to help "feel" it in me and that worked! Just wiggle it around some and try to feel it in you!
  • airbagairbag
    Posts: 135
    Which positions have you been trying ? Position can have a very big impact.
  • twlltintwlltin
    Posts: 602
    Many of us started out thinking that buying that lump of white plastic was money down the drain. It isn't. It's the beginning of learning how your body's responses work. For most of us this takes a lot of time and patience.
  • slimjmslimjm
    Posts: 575
    It took me months and months, but how incredible it is now. Relax and patiently train with it and enjoy the discovery of each of the sensations as you go along and feel free to ask questions.
  • airbagairbag
    Posts: 135
    If you are desperate to feel something, start masturbating with Aneros in. Usually by the time you're hard your prostate becomes very easy to hit with aneros. If you ejaculate and still don't feel anything unusual, then that's something to worry about I guess.
  • GeogioGeogio
    Posts: 107
    Try a few things first. Sessions should be spaced apart by a couple of days at least. But... everyday take a bit of lube (like petroleum jelly) and massage your anus while showering, Pull it open a little, insert finger, rotate and enjoy the rimming, it helps to increase the stimulation which comes during the sessions. Enjoy!