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Better Sex for Male Couple Too
  • helix44helix44
    Posts: 17
    There have been plenty of posts from guys describing their improved sex lives with their female partners. My post is about the improved sex life for a gay couple. I've been one of the lucky ones with the Aneros and have enjoyed many benefits of rewiring and the discovery of my body's abilities. This includes the experience of sex, which is now much less goal oriented. Instead I enjoy being in a state that is like an Aneros session, with slow waves of orgasm that come and go but never fully stop. Whether we're doing oral sex or one of us is fucking the other the quality and intensity of the sex has gotten so much better since the start of the year when I started my Aneros journey. He has experimented a little with the Aneros but I've gone crazy with it, but even so both of us are enjoying the benefits. We rarely use an Aneros during sex - the benefits are all from the rewiring.

    The particular change that I find really amazing is that I now get multiple dry orgasms when being fucked. I have always loved the feeling of being "bottom", but it used to be that my only orgasm was the traditional from stroking myself. Don't get me wrong - our sex life has been great the whole 14 years we've been together, but now in addition to the traditional finish I get multiple whole-body dry orgasms from being fucked. Usually I'll have a mild orgasm or two while he's thrusting. After he comes he stays inside me and I start writhing around to feel his penis moving in me. Several times now that has led to a huge whole body dry orgasm. After the show I put on he's amazed to look down and realize there's no cum. And then I do get a traditional finale when he finishes me by stroking. What's not to like: more intense feelings of love, a more absorbing experience with less self-awareness, and much stronger physical sensation with multiple orgasms. I also drive him wild now during sex because my body is so live and energetic. He can see, hear, and feel how much I'm loving what he's doing, which is a huge turn-on for him.

    Who would have guessed this was even remotely possible?
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 888
    Hello, helix44.

    It's great to hear more from the Gay POV. Until I read your post, I'd thought that all Gay bottoms had multiple dry-Os as routine events. Now I know that was a false assumption

    I certainly enjoy the multiple dry-Os while I get pegged by my wife.

    Best Regards,

  • airbagairbag
    Posts: 137
    Not that it bothers me, but gay people are strangely quiet around here. One would expect them to have more interest in the subject.
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,353

    i think you are overlooking the fact that this forum is the one of the only places in the world where it is commonly known that men can have orgasms without ejaculating.

  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 888

    I thought multiple dry-Os were one those things Gay guys kept secret from straights. Guess not.

    Best Regards,

  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,833
    Many thanks, helix44 for your post,

    The gay perspective is important to many of us straight guys, largely deprived of a 'totally male' perspective regarding many aspects of sensuality and male sexual response.

    While I prefer to partner with the female body it's response tends to distract me from my own most intense feelings and females do not mirror my own sensuality. thanks again !

    I agree with airbag -- we have too few meaningful posts from gay men. We need more!
  • brinebrine
    Posts: 311
    Thank you, Helix for posting. Always learn from each other!

  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Welcome helix44!! :D :D

    Thank you very much for your post launching this thread! I agree with all here in encouraging more of our gay brothers to be posting, blogging and speaking freely and openly here. You might be interested in telling your story in the Male Sexual Orientation Here Poll in the Community polls section of this Forum:*male-sexual-orientation-here-12285/index2.html

    Other bottoms and versatiles have also celebrated the expansion of their erotic and orgasmic responses, due to their aneros practice, in their post in this poll. Welcome to you and your partner and thank you again for your beautiful evocation of gay love-making!! Whole reintegrated men of all orientations, as they emerge from successful aneros prostate awakening, are celebrating their anal/prostate receptive enlightenment with you.

    all the very best growing understanding and shared bliss between all men of all orientations all

  • helix44helix44
    Posts: 17
    You know I had skipped over the threads on pegging thinking they didn't apply to a couple with enough equipment of its own :-) I should have known the wisdom of this crowd included the awesome experience to be had in being penetrated during sex, not just in solo sessions with our favorite toys.

    Many thanks for the positive comments.
  • airbagairbag
    Posts: 137
    Not totally related, but do we have any members who practice Aneros use in pairs ? I know I would like to try that.
  • Great post Helix44! Thanks for posting man!
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,140

    What wonderful insight from the gay couples perspective! It also supports what I've maintained for many years now, that the Aneros is not merely a masturbatory device, but a catalyst for awakening ones body (a
    Tantric Training Wheel). It is not necessarily an end in itself...but a opening to a whole new realm of experience. How delightful that it has enriched your relationship in this way! Thank you very much for sharing this and please feel free to share any other experiences or insights that you might have.


    BF Mayfield
  • Thanks for sharing helix44, nice to hear from a different perspective. :)
  • Oli920Oli920
    Posts: 7
    I agree with Helix 44. Aneros use can drastically affect male to male sex. However, it can also be a bit awkward to try to explain what's happening if the other isn't hip to MMO. As I learned when I went all UBER- O on a guy. It seriously freaked him out. It's difficult to navigate sex with a partner while you body is going for what it wants. not for the faint of heart.