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Couples Question: Increased Performance?
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    My girlfriend and I have been using our Helix for some time now, but I would classify us as only occasional users. We are using it to enhance our lovemaking. I don't seem to be able to find the alone time to rewire. Perhaps someday. Using it during sex has been an interesting experience for us and great sexy fun. I am wondering if any other couples have seen increased performance results?

    We both love the fact that when using the Aneros I get super hard and maintain that firmness much longer than without using it. I also have longer orgasms with more "pumping" when I come, which she likes feeling also. And we both really like the fact that I have a much greater increase in my ejaculate quantity. I also love that great feeling of being fully emptied out too. There is nothing like that feeling.

    Given my increase in hardness, and the fact I do not loose my erection quickly after coming (which is the case typically), she has been encouraging me to "go for it" again a second time, with some good results. I am sometimes able to go all the way to a second orgasm now through intercourse or oral stimulation. Even though I seem to fully empty out on the first orgasm, I still am able to produce more come for the second round. She thinks I shoot about 25 or 30% the second time compared to the first time quantity. This second orgasm seems to only be possible when I use the Helix though. She is REALLY happy with this new discovery, and so am I. Wish I knew about this side benefit sooner!

    Curious if other couples have the same or similar performance increases. Is this typical? All feedback and comments welcome. My girlfriend would especially like to hear from any women that might be reading/posting here also (via a Private Message is OK too, as she reads the Forums but does not post out in the open.) Thanks.
  • gm501
    Posts: 87
    You are one lucky guy to have such a great and open girlfriend. I can't give you any info from my perspective since I've never used my toy during sex (wife doesn't know about it), but I'd say in general my Aneros has made me more aware of my own self and thus more in tune with my body, which I think carries over into my sex life.
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    Hello, CA25.

    My wife and I use Aneros before intercourse almost all the time since I go to bed with it inserted. About 20% of the time I leave it in while we have sex.

    As for increased performance, with the Helix, I can go on and and from one dry O to the next until my wife has had as much as she can handle. For some reason, I can't wet-O with Helix inserted. No problem like that with Vice, Eupho or Peridise. I have no idea if the quantity of ejaculate has increased with Aneros. We haven't collected it and measured though it sure feels like more than before.

    I can't go right from a wet-O to an erection in any case -- takes about 4 hours to recharge enough to have more sex. Prior to Aneros, it was taking me at least 12 hours to recharge.

    There's a lot more about partnered sex with Aneros in this thread: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/partnered-sex-aneros-15352/

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    Thanks Dave. As always you are a great source of info. The quantity difference is pretty obvious for her when doing oral for the first and second orgasms (I have used the Helix during both) or when I just ejaculate on her. I also love the feeling of going longer with the Helix inside me. It kind of keeps me from coming quickly... holds it off longer. Which is GREAT too. Thanks for the link. I will check it out.
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    CA25,

    I have found the same generally. Harder, last longer, more cum, and I feel bigger (no data to back this one up). I also have more stamina and can "go for it" more than once in a two to three hour period. Once even went at it THREE times in one night. Wahoo!

    Then there is the increased confidence and libido. AND I'm much more adventurous than I've ever been. We are enjoying trying new things - more often.

    I find that I reach many orgasm levels by just pleasuring her, never less that Dry O's.

    I have worn my Helix during sex a few times, early on. But now I rarely need to as I am now MMO Aneros-less-ly. So when my wife and I have sex, I ALWAYS have multiple orgasms during it - Dry O's, Super O's, Calm Seas O's, and of course the culminating Super Traditional O!

    Of course a huge factor is my wife and her expert touch!

    I am a lucky man, indeed.

    Brian
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    Thanks gm501. I know it took me a long time to tell her about it. I was trying to rewire in secret, and they read more about the potential benefits to couples sex while using it. So I finally wanted to try that with her got up the courage to tell her about it. I was completely surprised that she embraced the idea of us using it together. It is actually a turn on for her, and it took her some time to admit to me that she also gets increased satisfaction from our lovemaking as a direct result of using it. Bottom line is that I can last longer, even during aggressive intercourse, and am harder with a bit more length when that hard - which all makes a difference for her experience. Not that it was bad, or inadequate previously, but we can now go to a higher level of enjoyment when we use it. That benefit alone was worth bringing it out into the open to her.
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    Thanks Brian. Sounds like you guys have an awesome time together. Do you think your increased libido is from just having better sex together, and wanting to do that more, or do you feel it is related to the increased prostate massage? The increased confidence thing is unbelievable. Sharing the idea of using the Aneros has indeed opened up the door for additional types of shaaring for us too!


    [QUOTE=brine;101616]CA25,

    I have found the same generally. Harder, last longer, more cum, and I feel bigger (no data to back this one up). I also have more stamina and can "go for it" more than once in a two to three hour period. Once even went at it THREE times in one night. Wahoo!

    Then there is the increased confidence and libido. AND I'm much more adventurous than I've ever been. We are enjoying trying new things - more often.

    I find that I reach many orgasm levels by just pleasuring her, never less that Dry O's.

    I have worn my Helix during sex a few times, early on. But now I rarely need to as I am now MMO Aneros-less-ly. So when my wife and I have sex, I ALWAYS have multiple orgasms during it - Dry O's, Super O's, Calm Seas O's, and of course the culminating Super Traditional O!

    Of course a huge factor is my wife and her expert touch!

    I am a lucky man, indeed.

    Brian
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    Dave,

    I have been reading many of your posts about the Vice, and am now strongly considering getting one to use with my partner. Being a human vibrator for her seems like an intriguing idea. The fact most say it has a more gentle and softer feeling inside, and a more filling feeling, also seem desirable to me. Not quite sure I have enough experience yet for a Vice though.


    [QUOTE=ten_s_nut;101613]Hello, CA25.

    My wife and I use Aneros before intercourse almost all the time since I go to bed with it inserted. About 20% of the time I leave it in while we have sex.

    As for increased performance, with the Helix, I can go on and and from one dry O to the next until my wife has had as much as she can handle. For some reason, I can't wet-O with Helix inserted. No problem like that with Vice, Eupho or Peridise. I have no idea if the quantity of ejaculate has increased with Aneros. We haven't collected it and measured though it sure feels like more than before.

    I can't go right from a wet-O to an erection in any case -- takes about 4 hours to recharge enough to have more sex. Prior to Aneros, it was taking me at least 12 hours to recharge.

    There's a lot more about partnered sex with Aneros in this thread: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/partnered-sex-aneros-15352/

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 817
    CA;

    I'm not sure you need a lot of experience to appreciate Aneros Vice. Although it took me a month of practice to Super-O with Vice, it was pleasurable from Day One.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • airbagairbag
    Posts: 116
    There's shortage of information on aneros use in couples. It seems they keep it to themselves. This is especially visible when it comes to videos. There are plenty of guys recording themselves, but not a single aneros couple video. We need pioneers :-).
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    CA,

    I am certain that a majority of my libido increase is due to prostate massage and the subsequent rewiring. My improved health is also a major factor. And, my wife and I are closer as we get older.

    Brian