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Grape Seed oil: Good or Meh?
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    Hi I've been following for about a year now and I had a question. I'm still in the beggining of my journey, only having some minor involuntary spasms, some tingling, euphoria, throbbing erections that go away all to quick, and almost dry O's, and I'm thinking it might be the lube. I started out using Astro Glide and Wet, but they both gave me the purging sensations, more recently I tried Coconut oil, with better (more comfy) results but I don't really like the texture too much, a bit tacky. The other day I was cooking and found that grape seed oil has a really slick feeling to it and remembered it was mentioned in a post I had read here. That night I was real amped up to try it out, but, I decided to do research first and fund that some people have reactions to it. My question is (as stupid as it might sound):

    I've eaten it in food before with no reaction, would that mean that I'm in the clear? Or is it different going in they other end because it's so sensitive and fragile? OR...does the cooking change something about the chemistry that would take away the allergen?

    If you read my other posts (I think there are only two) you can tell I'm a worrier. I just want to make sure before I try it and end up with a swollen ass and have to explain it to my lady and a doc. I'm nervous by nature, but the Aneros has taught me to calm my nerves and relax..a bit.

    Can anyone that has used it, maybe give me some pros and cons, or tips?
  • I use Grapeseed oil, sometimes mixed with olive oil. Works great.
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    Thanks waverider, for being the only person out of, so far 166 or so people that read my post to reply, lol! Well I guess I'll give that a shot. Here is another round of questions:

    1) Do you pre-lube?
    2) About how much do you use?
    3) Does it last for an hour session?
    4) Have you made it to the milestone yet?

    Thanks in advance! :cool:
  • Whilst I haven't yet had the opportunity to use an Aneros, yet: still pondering first acquisition; let me drop my 2Cents' worth on Grape Oil. I've visited a couple of SPs for Tantric Massage, & they have used Grape Oil for that game-finishing HappyEnding! Talk about gliiding! They slip in so smooth, I don't even need to shower off afterwards, it seems to .... just be absorbed... ??
    Just had a session with my fave SP this afternoon, although she hasn't quite got the hang of ProstateMassage, she's learning; & if the Aneros can work anything like her long fingers, I just can't wait! (just want to undestand how billing shows on CreditCrad .. don't want to 'give he game away' to SigOther!!)

    Hopefully, I'll be able to share my Aneros Experience with you chaps in a coupl'a Days .....

    Has anyone tried to keep it in, & do a day's work in the office?
  • jocco
    Posts: 90
    I've never tried grapeseed oil before- I'm a KY man all the way. But in response to your other questions, I fill up my syringe with 2mls of lube and pump it way up there- then I fully cover the aneros with it (KY is thick, so there's a good amount on the aneros). Any more and I usually get that sensation of having to go #2... although keep in mind I'm not a big guy and perhaps my rectum is not that big. In any case, it lasts for hours- longest session I've had was about 4 hours (fell asleep with it in!)...
  • I stopped getting to crazy about the lube scenario when I figured out how to have a super O. There is a lot of discussion here about lube, lube techniques, lube safety etc etc. I like Grapeseed oil for a couple of reasons. First off, it's a great lube; it's silky and slick, lasts a long time, and it's cheap at the supermarket! I have a jug of it that I use to refill my little lube bottle that was formerly filled with massage oil (that ws mostly grapeseed oil anyways). The little bottle has a nice no drip pump, so that makes it pretty convenient. For aneros or other butt plug/dildo play, I just squirt a few pumps onto it, and put a little bit on my butt hole and then have some fun. If I know I'm going to be going for a long time, I might mix the grapeseed opil with something thicker like shea butter or Vaselene or Albolene oil in a pinch. Natural is better (at least I assume so), but when I do that, I put the thick stuff down first, and then I put the oil on over it.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    Although I'm generally drawn to more viscous types of lubes, I've used many natural oils over the years as well. Grapeseed oil is very slick, practically odorless (vs. olive oil) and is readily available. While I'd stop short of calling it benign (only because some people will react to anything), it has an established history of low reactivity, which explains its widespread use in the cosmetics industry and as a massage oil. In my sessions I did find that there was absorption and that reapplication was required. In so far as the amount, I'd say apply to taste, however I used about 5 cc's as a prelube followed by a liberal coating on the Aneros.

    BF Mayfield



    p.s. Grapeseed oil is one of the "good" oils in nutritional terms high in unsaturated (~80%) and monosaturated (~17%) fats.
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    Wow, thanks you guys. I have been waiting since my last post for a session because I was being a bit nervous about the reaction issue and finally got some reassuring responses. To be honest, I don't know why I'm still "iffey", but I put a bit on the tip if my finger and rubbed it around down there to wait and see if anything reacts...Well, it's been ten minutes only and my butt cheeks feel warm, my thighs are slightly shaking and my whole midsection feels a bit warm. On any other day having such a severe anxiety disorder as I do, I would some how morph it in my head as bad signs, but I actually think I'm ready to thrown in the towel and give it a try. Wish me luck! Just had the thought of involuntaries and started to get some! I'll let you know how my session went! Maybe I'll reach a new level of the journey! :D
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    So it's been about thirty minutes since I left my last response. I said I was getting some good feelings and it was time for a round. Well, I never made it, I started looking at porn and really got into this one chicks tits and totally spaced out. Next thing I know, my ass cheeks are tingling, my PC muscle was contracting, my heart was racing and my stomach felt really warm. No Super O or anything, I don't think I had a dry O, but I have read about Anal O's and I think I almost had one...then it felt so good I think I forced it and it went away. Well, I'm still on the brink as I write this. I can feel a tickling feeling from my the tip of my dick that is vibrating through to my anus, my legs keep twitching and my ass feels a bit clenched and I know I'm not doing it. It's exciting writing while I feel this...Oh wow! Time to start my session!!!!!!!!! NOW!!!!
  • [QUOTE=Refound Libido;100768]Whilst I haven't yet had the opportunity to use an Aneros, yet: still pondering first acquisition; let me drop my 2Cents' worth on Grape Oil. I've visited a couple of SPs for Tantric Massage, & they have used Grape Oil for that game-finishing HappyEnding! Talk about gliiding! They slip in so smooth, I don't even need to shower off afterwards, it seems to .... just be absorbed... ??
    Just had a session with my fave SP this afternoon, although she hasn't quite got the hang of ProstateMassage, she's learning; & if the Aneros can work anything like her long fingers, I just can't wait! (just want to undestand how billing shows on CreditCrad .. don't want to 'give he game away' to SigOther!!)

    Hopefully, I'll be able to share my Aneros Experience with you chaps in a coupl'a Days .....

    Has anyone tried to keep it in, & do a day's work in the office?

    This is sidetracking a bit, but where do you find these massage people?! Are these legal? And in the US?

    As for grape-seed oil, I haven't used it personally but I recall a video where this guy was teaching how to make a woman squirt and he highly recommended it. EDIT: here it is- How to make her squirt - xHamster.com
  • twlltintwlltin
    Posts: 569
    One little problem: it leaks out. Also make sure you've got the bulk of it out of you before you next pass wind, otherwise you'll be changing your underwear sooner than you expected.
  • Grapeseed oil. Never even heard of it.
    Mind you I'd imagine they are very uncommon in the allergy department.
    Heard of peanut oil and they are becoming quite common in allergies, even lethal.
    As far as I know, I'm not allergic to anything, apart from hardwork. :(
    If you get a sore butt from using it then stop using it, let it heal, then use another lube.
    Mind you, I don't give a crap about my health, as long as I've enough booze an tobacco,
    I'm as happy as a pig in shit... :)
    Or should that be as happy as Larry ?(who's Larry?)
    Or as happy as a sandboy?
    Now I do know this.
    In Victorian pubs a young lad would deliver sand for the floors of rough pubs,
    and thereby not having to go up chimney's as in the Waterbabies book.
    Sadly most places in the world now,
    ashtrays are for spitting out grapeseeds.. :(
    Good luck on your hobby.
    Mick...