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First Post- Looking For Some Encouragement
  • Hello Everyone,

    I've been coming to this Forum for a couple years, but this is my first post. I was emboldened by my last aneros session and wanted to take the next step into this wonderful, supportive community. First a little background. I'm committed to the path of attaining the super-o, knowing that it can be a long and arduous journey. I bought my first aneros, the MGX about a year and a half ago. I was a relative newbie to anal play, having just used a finger now and then during masturbation and once stimulating myself (to ejaculation?) with my finger via prostate massage. I used the MGX about twice a week for a few months, then with less frequency, maybe once or twice a month for about a year, whenever I had sufficient time (my girlfriend doesn't know I'm into this, but I do plan on including her at some point). I used KY jelly and did all the recommended steps, showers, relaxation, rhythmic contractions. I did experience some pleasure, definitely extra precum, and when/if I finished off with a super T it was definitely nice, but I know there's so much more in store.

    Cut to, this March/April, I bought myself an Aneros Vice. After figuring out how to get it in and get used to it, I definitely like it. The vice definitely takes up more real estate, but I find it moves less than the MGX, but I love the texture and that I can lie flat and sit with it. I started of using Vasaline covered in olive oil, but I've been using a light coating of Vaseline covered in KY jelly which seems to work better for me. That gives me 2-3 hours of good lube. I prelude with natural coconut oil and KY. I want my body to rewire, so I try not to simulate my penis (no easy feat!). I've tried the vibe settings, but I don't want that to interfere with rewiring, so I mostly leave the vibe inserted, but off or I'll keep in halfway. All in all I've gotten some pleasure, but definitely nothing to write home about. Until my last session...

    I had been noticing that my nipple were much more sensitive than they had been (part of the rewiring?) and I could give myself an erection by rubbing them. So I started with a 20 minute meditation, just deep breathing, then a relaxing shower where I tweaked my nipples and was feeling aroused. I put in the Vice and layed in bed for 20 minutes. Then I practiced deep breathing synced with rhythmic contractions using the PC muscles in various positions. On my back, on my side, on all fours doggie style. With my precum I continued stimulating my nipples and breathing. I was very careful not to touch my penis, even though I so wanted to. After about 2 hours, I watched the recent Japenese pegging video that was posted here recently, where the man ejaculated by being pegged. That kind of got me really aroused and my fatigued legs stated shaking. I don't know if I helped it along or not, probably somewhere in between involuntary and voluntary contractions, but I was flailing about the bed like a fish out of water. First of all, this is extremely tiring, I was sweating like crazy, but it also started to feel really good. I wonder if in the flopping around, my penis was being inadvertently stimulated. Then I started rubbing my balls and my nipples and I got the feeling like I was going to bust, although it was building with such a slow deliciousness, I loved it. Oh yeah, did I mention I had abstained from masturbating for at least a week before! Anyway, I was afraid I would ejaculate from touching my testicles, because it really felt like I was going to come, and I'm really committed to attaining a dry-o, so I stopped. Eventually I couldn't regain the shaking, or the building impending orgasm feeling, so I stopped. But I felt energized, like I had achieved something. I didn't end with a super T. That was last week and I still haven't rubbed one out, even though I so want to, even at this moment. I feel like I'm constantly turned on, too, not with an erection, but my penis feels "plump" and I ooze precum from time to time throughout the day. I'm gonna try again tonight, but as I only have about an hour, not enough time for a full session, I may use the MGX. I figure if I had off on the ejaculation, something's bound to happen (although maybe a wet dream).

    What do you guys think? Is playing with your balls an impediment to the rewiring process? I can't help but wonder what would have happened if I didn't stop touching them. I made myself cum once when I was 14 by tickling my balls with a pair of silk boxers, so I just assume I would have ejaculated. Anyhow, sorry if it's TMI and sorry for the length. I'm really excited to finally be contributing to this fine forum.

    Thanks,

    BostonBigKid
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 818
    Hello, BBK.

    Welcome to the Forum!

    Sounds like you're making great progress. As I think you know, most guys here will tell you that to speed the Aneros process you should be hands-off the entire genital area, which will focus you entirely on the prostate sensations. Apparently, nipple play is OK since that seems to hook up directly to the prostate feelings somehow.

    I've been at this game for 7 months. At no point did I abstain from ejaculating during conventional sex, solo or partnered. That didn't impede my progress any. Of course, your experience may differ.

    Best Regards,

    Dave
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    Hi BostonBigKid,

    Welcome to the Aneros Forums, [QUOTE=BostonBigKid;99067]... I started rubbing my balls and my nipples and I got the feeling like I was going to bust, although it was building with such a slow deliciousness, I loved it. ... Anyway, I was afraid I would ejaculate from touching my testicles, because it really felt like I was going to come, and I'm really committed to attaining a dry-o, so I stopped. Eventually I couldn't regain the shaking, or the building impending orgasm feeling, so I stopped.You slammed on the brakes here, my suggestion would be to continue the process of arousal to see where it leads. Dry-O's can feel every bit like the onset of a traditional ejaculatory orgasm but if you halt the process you may never know.I'm gonna try again tonight, but as I only have about an hour, not enough time for a full session, I may use the MGX. I figure if I had off on the ejaculation, something's bound to happen (although maybe a wet dream).Trying to have a session under a fixed time constraint may be counterproductive, remember you can not coerce your body to respond according to a clock, it has its own time schedule. Having an open-ended time slot for an Anerosession is likely to produce a better session.Is playing with your balls an impediment to the rewiring process? I can't help but wonder what would have happened if I didn't stop touching them. ... so I just assume I would have ejaculated.Touching yourself to build arousal and develop your innate sensuality is definitely not an impediment to the rewiring process. Letting go of assumptions/expectations allows you to fully enjoy this adventurous journey, those assumptions/expectations are just blockages/limits to what is really possible for you. So what if you do ejaculate as a result of this particular technique? You will have learned something, it will have been pleasurable and you can then try some other technique in the next session. The primary area to avoid touching is your penis as that is usually a firmly ingrained pleasure path which leads to the ejaculatory response. Please read the Penis, NOT! thread by 'Cockadoodle' and 'rook's thread Whole Body/Whole Mind - the mental side for a little insight.
  • Thanks, guys, I'll take your wisdom. Rumel, I think my settings are fixed, and as soon as the admin fixes it so they don't think I'm a minor, I'll flesh out my profile a bit. I'd love a PM with any more tips you may have. Thanks, again, I'm off for a session...
  • Jason M
    Posts: 24
    Well I have orgasms anytime I want hope this helps the key for me was breathe & contract for a while get your arousal up to a good level then I relaxed my whole body then legs started shaking when that happens go with it let it take control don't control it from there It got more intense till I was In OMG mode so keys are breathe contract relax & listen to your body your body knows best btw I used progasm Ice any questions just ask
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    Welcome to the forum BostonBigKid, what took ya so long? ;)
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,484
    Welcome BostonBigKid!! :D :D

    Wait a minute! "Join Date: December 1969"!!!? :D Anyway, never TMI here! Don't sanction your balls!

    I now wear my Titan stainless steel cock/package ring every night to elevate and stimulate my balls! Adding some wonderful glorious rewiring for me currently!!

    all the best finding all the things that enhance all

    artform