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  • legacelegace
    Posts: 129
    My aneros arrived yesterday, i purchased both the mgx and beginner peredise set. I put a little bit of Vaseline and coconut oil on the smaller peredise ,then put it into a condom. i froze a marble size piece of coconut oil and insert it into my anus, i applied some oil to the outside of the condom and then inserted the head into my anus. The package said not to push it in, but rather use your muscles. NO luck, it wouldnt go in all the way, i got half of it in at the most. I tried for about 15 minutes then gave up, was getting scared that maybe the oil would dry out and i wouldnt be able to get it out.

    There wasn't any real pain, but it didnt feel good. SO what do i do guys?, not enough oil ? I`m scared once i get it in that its gonna be hard to get out, thats why i used the condom. Atleast the inside of the condom will keep lubed .
  • If your muscles didn't suck it in once it was partway in, you probably want to go ahead and push it the rest of the way in. Once it's fully inserted is when you don't want to push it any more.

    Is it possible that you had some poo in there that was keeping it from going in the rest of the way? At the risk of sounding gross, I usually check with a finger to make sure I'm clean in there before inserting an Aneros. For me this has really helped in letting me know when I'm good to go on a session, although be warned that you can end up with some poo on your finger. Occasionally I'll find that I'm clean except for some fairly solid little turds in there, in which case I carefully dig them out over the toilet. It was pretty gross at first but now I'm pretty used to it (I still make sure to wash my hands thoroughly afterwards. XD) It can be worth it because having anything in there is usually a dead giveaway that I won't have a good session.
  • thhnthhn
    Posts: 426
    One of the big things you need to do is relax. I don't see how you could do that if you are concerned that you couldn't get it out?
    It would seem that you are quite apprehensive about having the aneros in you butt.
    I know there are guys who like the condom method but for me I don't get why? I never liked one when fucking and wouldn't use one if I didn't have to
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,134

    While it is true that many of the Aneros models are self-inserting, it is not necessarily the case for the Peridise. The reason the larger devices self-insert is that the bodies of the massagers are disproportionate to their bases..... large sections that tapers down to a much smaller sections. When you insert a standard Aneros, you initially distend your anal sphincter which puts pressure on the outside of the device. This force causes the Aneros to move to an area of lesser resistance via the tapered portion. The overall effect is an inward motion. The Peridise is not radically tapered and in addition it is not very wide either so there is a far smaller degree of pressure on the outside of the device once it's inserted. I've always found the Peridise required a little help to seat properly.

    I would not recommend using a condom with the Peridise. The reason is that this model performs most effectively as a result of very subtle anal contractions. No matter how much lubrication you use, the presence of the condom will hamper mobility greatly. In so far as your concern about losing the Peridise up inside of your rectum goes, the handle at the base of the unit will prevent it from traveling completely inside your anal canal. I should also mention that in the years since this product was introduced I have not heard of a single account of something like this happening.

    I would strongly suggest that you familiarize yourself with MGX to begin with. Becoming acclimated with MGX will help you develop some technique and muscle tone that will be of great benefit to you in your future sessions with the Peridise. While the Peridise can be used by beginners, historically it been the more advanced users that seem to have gotten the greatest benefit out of it soonest.

    BF Mayfield
  • legacelegace
    Posts: 129
    thanks for the responses.

    i`m not scared that i will lose the aneros inside my butt. I`m scared that i wont be able to pull it out, as in the lube dries out or my anus "wont let go"

    lol, dont know if i`m up for the mgx right not. I`ll just get use to the peredise ,will help me get over the worries i have.

    Think your right about the condom.
  • makelimakeli
    Posts: 14
    of course manimage
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,134
    You may want to consider changing your lubrication strategy as well. While oils don't technically "dry out" , they can be absorbed. As I'm sure you know by now, there are many ways for you to go. Just for grins, you may want to try a water-based alternative. Yes they do dry out, but they can be reconstituted with a little water or by adding more lube. Furthermore, you can mitigate the dehydration factor by pre-lubing with a small amount (6 cc's of so) of lube applied directly into your anus (children's medicine dropper works great!). With regard to removal, if the unit is well lubricated it will be more slippery to the touch, but it will also slip out easier as well. Best technique on that, pinch the base of the Peridise between your fingers (using the inside of your forefinger and a middle finger, as if you were making the "V for victory sign"). Engage inside edge of handle, and pull outward....just like pulling a corkscrew out of a bottle of wine.

    BF Mayfield
  • legacelegace
    Posts: 129
    i`ll give it a try without a condom...AS for the lube, i`m using coconut oil b/c of the concerns many people have with stuff being absorbed by the body. its the only lube i feel comfortable with. I do the pre-lube , probly put alot more then i need. I cool the oil down in a cylinder form untill its stiff enough to insert.

    So i should go against the directions and actually push the aneros in? carefully of course.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,807
    Hey Legace,

    Most of us 'nit-pickers' who express lube concerns think in terms of how our bodies might respond to it after hundreds (100's) of sessions and several years. -- we value our health and are in this for the long haul.

    As long as any lube is slippery, slimy, greasy or oily and without seriously toxic ingredients I'm interested. If there's favorable mention by someone in this Forum, I'll give it a try without any reservations.

    Suggest take a deep breath, lube up, relax and enjoy.

    Blessings and best wishes with that MGX. B.F.Mayfield's suggestion about using the MGX first then adding the Peridise to your game later on sounds like a great plan.