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*What is your session atmosphere?
  • View Poll Results: *What is your session atmosphere? How to "set the mood?" Choose all that apply. Voters: 7

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    Lights out. 31 442.86%

    Music on. 17 242.86%

    Eyes closed. 32 457.14%

    Naked. 44 628.57%

    No one else home. 23 328.57%

    Shower first. 18 257.14%

    More than one Aneros. 11 157.14%

    On the bed. 44 628.57%

  • brine
    Posts: 224
    Atmosphere makes the session.
  • I said music on, infact I have been using the hypnaerosession the past 2 weeks :)
  • Naked, on bed, Hypnaerosession playing, nobody home, all cleaned up "down there," daytime, shades up, (screw 'em... privacy of my own home, and all that...), eagerly anticipating what may follow. Problem: standard fantasizing leads to thigh/butt/belly muscle tension and pelvic grinding, as in leading to a standard O (habit?); relax/breathe/mushin (no-mind) is pleasant, but leads nowhere, at least so far. Sitting on the fence at the moment, alternating.
  • Quiet with soft music. cell phone off.. clean sheets, soft towels. warmed lube. warmed aneros. taking some time before to clean up... enjoying the "foreplay" of the prep. It all works.. and then just letting it happen. I always take my time. after all, you want it to last so take your time..
  • [QUOTE=steveg2611;95054]Quiet with soft music. cell phone off.. clean sheets, soft towels. warmed lube. warmed aneros. taking some time before to clean up... enjoying the "foreplay" of the prep. It all works.. and then just letting it happen. I always take my time. after all, you want it to last so take your time..

    well put steve the foreplay of the prep and even the anticipation is erotic and arousing just knowing a session lies ahead causes my genitals to respond along with my mind and i often moisten up before my penis has a chance to fully expand and erect ...

    good sex of any kind is in my experience always heightened by anticipation ... we have a bidet and when i hear my wife's footsteps upstairs followed by the unique subtle sound of the bidet's plumbing - so different from the sink/lavatory or shower - my dick and its appendages respond and my libido rises

    ... wanting it to last is why we are all on this quest which i find an expansion of tantric sex and tantric edging and masturbation

    it will be a few hours before i get laid tonight and an hour or two more before my progasm teases its way through my sphincter and into my anus and rectum butt my whole being is in the process of being ready for it

    just signing in to aneros.com causes some sort of internal and external twitching as well!

    - rip
  • The_BishopThe_Bishop
    Posts: 810
    - no one home
    - hypnaerosession
    - naked
    - weed
    - lights off
    - eyes closed
    - in bed
  • PareidoliaPareidolia
    Posts: 74
    The atmosphere I aim for is somewhat solemn and ritualistic.
    Eyes closed, Lights out: I take great care to prevent external impulses. I close the door to the room, roll down the blinds. During the session I even wear a blindfold to promote passivity and mental visualisation.
    Music on: Phone on airplane mode, its music player on Hypnaerosession with earbuds. 'nuff said :)
    No one else home: A given.
    Shower first: If I feel like it, sometimes.
    More than one Aneros: Rarely (First Progasm, then Eupho was a winner though, I'd recommend it!)
    On the bed: Always
    Naked: Part of the ritual, I strip completely, then lay out my complete collection on the bed, make my choice, then store the rest again. I apply (pre)lube, insert the tool of choice and slip into a special set of pajamas. I lie down and start the CD...
  • RipTheJacker
    Posts: 240
    [QUOTE=Pareidolia;97621]The atmosphere I aim for is somewhat solemn and ritualistic.
    Eyes closed, Lights out: I take great care to prevent external impulses. I close the door to the room, roll down the blinds. During the session I even wear a blindfold to promote passivity and mental visualisation.
    Music on: Phone on airplane mode, its music player on Hypnaerosession with earbuds. 'nuff said :)
    No one else home: A given.
    Shower first: If I feel like it, sometimes.
    More than one Aneros: Rarely (First Progasm, then Eupho was a winner though, I'd recommend it!)
    On the bed: Always
    Naked: Part of the ritual, I strip completely, then lay out my complete collection on the bed, make my choice, then store the rest again. I apply (pre)lube, insert the tool of choice and slip into a special set of pajamas. I lie down and start the CD...

    pareidolia - agree that the scene should promote passivity and mental visualization butt i choose not to fight the daylight if it's daytime nor do i wear blindfolds although i do want to try it as it well may serve two contrary functions both of which appeal to me ==> (a) instead of visually watching the response of my body parts - nipples chest/respirations abdomen pelvis penis balls and scrotum - i can concentrate on the sensations of my arousal and response ...

    and (b) if i shift my focus from my sensory nervous system to my mental/spiritual response i may well achieve a higher/deeper meditative state possibly faster or more "intense" - the latter not a real good choice of words

    ... i'm a progasm guy myself and have just the one - how old a dude are you? - assume yer a brit? ("visualiSation")

    why do you wear pajamas?

    ... and do you ever leak from yer ass anything butt lube?

    don't mean to grill you butt i'm a disciple here not a mentor yet LOL

    i just turned 50 married with kids new to anything anal before the past 6 months and i've been meditating and also experiencing prolonged and multiple orgasms and edging for years - butt aneros has opened a whole new world

    ... hope you don't mind the PM

    - rip

    p.s. what's up with yer signature?
  • PareidoliaPareidolia
    Posts: 74
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97626]pareidolia - agree that the scene should promote passivity and mental visualization butt i choose not to fight the daylight if it's daytime nor do i wear blindfolds although i do want to try it as it well may serve two contrary functions both of which appeal to me ==> (a) instead of visually watching the response of my body parts - nipples chest/respirations abdomen pelvis penis balls and scrotum - i can concentrate on the sensations of my arousal and response ... and (b) if i shift my focus from my sensory nervous system to my mental/spiritual response i may well achieve a higher/deeper meditative state possibly faster or more "intense" - the latter not a real good choice of words
    I have almost all of my sessions late in the evening, then there is no daylight to fight :rolleyes: I think it's all about making a point to myself (and my subconscious?) to be passive and to let go. Normally my mind is always churning, even the appearance of my bedroom can be distracting for me.
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97626]
    ... i'm a progasm guy myself and have just the one - how old a dude are you? - assume yer a brit? ("visualiSation")

    Good choice :P I pick the Progasm most of the time. Think of me as a spoiled brat, I have a tendency to build complete collections, and fortunately I can somewhat afford that.
    I am 22 years old, and not British, but geographically close *wink* *wink*
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97626]
    why do you wear pajamas?

    In my early days I discovered I could get cold easily, but I got tangled in the sheets. Wearing pajamas didn't distract me as much. It became a part of the ritual then.
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97626]
    ... and do you ever leak from yer ass anything butt lube?

    I have not had any serious problem with leaking. I only use K-Y...
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97626]
    don't mean to grill you butt i'm a disciple here not a mentor yet LOL

    I like a good grill when there's no meat involved :) It doesn't matter to me, we all have our stories to tell.
    [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;97626]
    i just turned 50 married with kids new to anything anal before the past 6 months and i've been meditating and also experiencing prolonged and multiple orgasms and edging for years - butt aneros has opened a whole new world
    ... hope you don't mind the PM
    p.s. what's up with yer signature?

    Yes, it has certainly opened a new world. I wouldn't be as healthy (mentally and physically) as I am now without the rediscovery (this year) of the discovery (2007).
    If you have sent me a PM something must have gone wrong, I have received nothing.
    Think of my signature as a magical spell. It is the Y combinator in the language Scheme with a function to print "LOVE " applied to it. When evaluated, it will repeat printing "LOVE " eternally through anonymous recursion :)

    Cheers...
  • RipTheJacker
    Posts: 240


    Yes, it has certainly opened a new world. I wouldn't be as healthy (mentally and physically) as I am now without the rediscovery (this year) of the discovery (2007).
    If you have sent me a PM something must have gone wrong, I have received nothing.
    Think of my signature as a magical spell. It is the Y combinator in the language Scheme with a function to print "LOVE " applied to it. When evaluated, it will repeat printing "LOVE " eternally through anonymous recursion :)

    Cheers...



    no doubt meditative prowess is definitely a key to a healthy mind ...

    even religious people (i'm not a big proponent of religion) can benefit from meditating on the wisdom of words in their tradition - e.g., the psalms of david

    ... instead of focusing on the bullshit of their organization's doctrines

    - rip (hope i'm not offending)
  • STARR831
    Posts: 69
    Early morning delivers the best sessions --- much more alert and rested. Of late, I've been priming the pump with some gentle external prostate massage, nip stim and firm holding of scrotum and testicles all at once. Favorate model remains the eupho but will also use peridise, mgx and helix. Slow insertion while in fetal position on side. As a Christian guy, each session is a silent praise session! Recently shaved perineum, scrotum and penis which has added amazing sensations and superior external contact. When aneros is a part of lovemaking with my wife, the atmosphere is electrified on both our parts ---- causing the secretions to flow abundantly!
  • brine
    Posts: 224
    STARR,

    Great stuff to hear. I understand the praise thing. I'm a Christian too and look upon this journey as a HUGE blessing from God. He has made us in a wonderful way - it is fantastic to discover all the "wonder."

    I too shave (all over, including the areas you mentioned) and I also love the sensations, especially when a breeze flows through the room. AND, sex with my wife has become astounding!

    Continue enjoying all the great stuff coming your way.

    Brian