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  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Just ordered the progasm I hope the extra 1/2 inch is what I'm looking for. Just can't seem to reach the spot with my helix.
  • cyrezcyrez
    Posts: 109
    I wish you the best of luck, the progasm sure is something special. really hugs the whole area, leaving nothing unattended. Make sure you read up on some of the previous progasm thread on tips how to get the progasm inserted and seated right
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    I want to have the tug of war that I have read about with my mussels. I think the 1/2 inch more might do that "I hope".
  • Yes, I think the Progasm is nice. In one experience I had about two years ago, I was using the Progasm and it seemed to push my body into the bed. It felt like I could not move (no control).
  • VoyagerVoyager
    Posts: 200
    Good luck with your Progasm.
    It has done a lot for me over the last few months.
    It hits the spot first time and stays there.
    Had a good session involving the Progasm, Helix, MGX and Peridise yesterday.
    It can be an anchor(not easy to move around with)
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    [QUOTE=cyrez;95357]I wish you the best of luck, the progasm sure is something special. really hugs the whole area, leaving nothing unattended. Make sure you read up on some of the previous progasm thread on tips how to get the progasm inserted and seated right
    I can't find anything on progasm insertion what's the trick? I want the first time to be a good one!!
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Thanks: love_is.
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Ok I just got my red progasm and used it for 2 hours!!! It went right it no prob but i didn't get anything out of it. :(
    Any good tips would be much help on my way to the big "O"!!!
    thanks all
  • Try this: with each contraction (make the medium to fast) make yourself feel "sexy". By this I mean each contraction should make you feel more and more aroused and orgasmic. Even if you don't feel that way pretend that you do. You may me surprised at the results after about a minute or so.

    As Always what works for me may not work for others, but it is work a shot.

    Oh yeah ...A good technique to use is to "mentally" tell yourself that you are becoming more aroused...let yourself loose control and it should become real.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Time and practice ssw1. It can take time for your body to re-wire and for your prostate to awaken and be sensitive. But that is likely only achieved through regular sessions (practice).
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    I just had my 2nd try with my progasm. I got it all the way in and I felt my 2nd sphincter open and pulled the progasm past it. But when I releast my contraction and started my next one it felt tender and hurt. Is this a normal reaction for the first time? I was getting some good p waves up to that point but when I felt the pain it stoped. Has this happend to anyone before?
  • Hey, ssw1, good going...you're on your way. Yes, that big toy can sometimes cause a little reaction from you sphincter muscles. No doubt. But, you'll soon become accustomed to the larger size.

    A couple of suggestions:
    1. After inserting your Progasm lie on the bed and do nothing. No contractions, no thrusting, simply insert it and lie still on your back...legs stretched out. Do NOTHING. Remember, you're trying to teach your body a new skill. And you're "listening" for feedback from your heretofore unawakened prostate. Just lie there and totally relax.

    2. Practice relaxation. Here is a technique I use. While lying stretched out start by relaxing your feet. Let them "hang" from your ankles. Relax your toes, feel like your feet are floating. Next relax your lower legs...just let them completely go. Then your upper legs...no massage, no touching, just extend your relaxation up...relax your butt, let your glutes go flabby! Then your back, your arms, hands and fingers. Finally your neck and head...just let them sink into your pillow. Think of nothing, especially the fact that you're anus is plugged!

    3. Just try to maintain this total relaxation for 15 minutes. Your body WILL respond to the Aneros.

    4. If you feel "nothing" after 30 minutes or so of this technique, remove your Progasm and call it a day. Don't start contractions or whatever. This is NOT a failure, this rewiring training! You may not have known your prostate was being stimulated, you're not rewired yet, but YOUR PROSTATE WILL. Every session is absolutely valuable in your progressive learning experience. There is no failure here...your body is learning and you need to learn to listen to it...and remember the first messages can be very subtle.

    5. If, no, WHEN, you start to feel feedback from your prostate, Just BE STILL. Practice what I call level control. NEVER try to amplify a subtle feeling...you'll only kill it....just relax and it'll grow all by itself.

    Man, you're just starting out. I know the guys have told you to be patient, but you really do! Try this advice...and for you other guys out there in a similar situation...try this method. I've been talking about it for several years now, and I'm convinced from the results of others, that this really works for many. Rome wasn't built in a day, and almost nobody who ultimately achieves success with Aneors builds his response quickly either. But ask The_Bishop or other grinders if the wait was worth while! It Is!

    Good luck man, but don't, don't, don't push the rope.
  • Yes, don't rush or push it...it took some time for me to get comfortable with the Progasm. Join the Progasm users group for more....
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    I maintained total relaxation for 15 minutes just like cockadoodle seid and I just had my first twitch!!! I held my first contraction and my penis became erect and my muscles started to spasm back and forth I held it for at least 2 min. But as soon as I releast the contraction I lost it :(
    But it was very good thanks cockadoodle
  • [QUOTE=ssw1;95487] But as soon as I releast the contraction I lost it :(
    But it was very good thanks cockadoodle

    Don't ever worry about keeping an erection. Just go with the feeling. Let the Progasm do the work. I'm also one who does not do contractions until the "full" feeling is to much and I have a pool on my stomach. You sound like your at the beginning where I was. I envy that start again. Slow and steady she goes!! Have fun!!
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    The erection came on it's own I never had that happen. :)
  • taran
    Posts: 13
    I love the progasm. I get strong orgasms whether I'm on my back or my stomach. My only problem is the thing sometimes slips out during my session. Am I the only one that experiences slippage with the progasm? Could I be using too much lube? I never experience this with any other model.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    ssw1,
    As I mentioned in my evaluation of this model in the Aneros Products Reviewed Sticky(#36), when it comes to contractions bear in mind that Progasm does not require a great level of effort. Because of it's size one can (and should) use far more subtle contractions than you would with your Helix. You will find that these subtle contractions yield greater results. The initial sensations maybe themselves be subtle but will build over time if you nurture them properly (introducing more low level stimulation). As you awaken your body to this kind of stimulation the sensation will build like a resonant vibration and soon thereafter a Super O will be upon you. The awakening may occur suddenly or gradually over time. Be patient and open to the process, enjoy everything that comes your way...you will be rewarded! As far as the erection goes, although it is not strictly required for a Super O, I've always taken this as a good omen. It is clear sign of arousal in response to anal and prostate stimulation. (I have the same response to it as well)

    Cheers,

    BF Mayfield
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    [QUOTE=taran;95512]I love the progasm. I get strong orgasms whether I'm on my back or my stomach. My only problem is the thing sometimes slips out during my session. Am I the only one that experiences slippage with the progasm? Could I be using too much lube? I never experience this with any other model.

    Taran,

    No you are not alone. Many users have reported a similar occurrence during Progasm sessions. I have long believed that this was due to the greater girth of this model. The Progasm is in essence more responsive to rectal contractions as it is in closer proximity to the rectal walls. You will remember that rectal contractions are the outward moving contractions, they maybe voluntary or involuntary. The involuntary type tend to occur most commonly during a Super O (or a Super T), but may also happen at points leading up to it.

    BF Mayfield
  • Same as ssw1 i just had my 2nd session with progasm (my first aneros). The size felt great, and the contractions felt like my prostate was being licked by big and heavy tongue.

    However, as a gay man and seasoned ass player, I felt there was not enough forward push (or i just wanted more) from progasm. Should i look forward for more aggressive models such as Helix or Maximus?
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    [QUOTE=blackhole;95577]Same as ssw1 i just had my 2nd session with progasm (my first aneros). The size felt great, and the contractions felt like my prostate was being licked by big and heavy tongue.

    However, as a gay man and seasoned ass player, I felt there was not enough forward push (or i just wanted more) from progasm. Should i look forward for more aggressive models such as Helix or Maximus?

    I bot the sublime set and really liked the helix the best but I needed more!!! So I have had 4 sessions with the progasm and wow!! I think the progasm is the best so far. I now am finally geting the good feelings all over my whole body that I have herd about on this sight. I never had that with my helix and I have had 100 or so trys with it so I would say give it some time it's worth it. I am now in love with my progasm!!!
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Excellent ssw1! Glad to hear you're finally getting something out of your Aneros sessions. :D

    Hello Blackhole,

    And welcome to the Aneros forums. :) Give yourself time, at least a month or two with your Progasm before considering a different model. Even as a seasoned ass player, it may take a while for your prostate to awaken and the re-wiring to occur. It's different for each guy. Expecting it to cause crazy huge orgasms in the first two sessions is highly unlikely. And also those expectations can very well set you up for failure anyways. Just keep practicing on a regular basis with no expectations of the results, and you will see a change.

    Love_is
  • Yesterday after some rigorous session with my bf (it was v-day), still felt horny and hadn't ejaculated, i began play session with progasm.

    After an hour or so, felt the real urge to cum, i began to play with my dick.
    Reached "orgasm", and exploded.. but to my surprise the sensation was subtler than usual orgasm. The ejaculation force was weaker than usual, and most of it just oozed down.
    What shocked me (and scared me and the same time): what was being ejaculated out was quite numerous clear liquid much similar to pre-cum (but i never thought that i have this amount of pre-cum). I definitely didn't see trace of sperm on it.

    My dick was sore but the horni-ness still remains afterward.
    Wow!
  • Coolness man, I love how that pre tastes too! Welcome to Aneros too!
  • glad i'm not the only guy who is totally turned on by male precum ...

    my own has always turned me on

    ... but have to admit seeing it on another guy's glans penis - either in a pic or flick or in real life - can almost take my breath away

    it's the picture of purity and masculine arousal - it's sweet clarity and it oozes not just from the erect but semi-erect penis makes the mastery of my progasm so important to me

    - or should i say "learning to allow my progasm to master me?"

    - rip
  • Poetry Rip! Nice!
  • [QUOTE=RipTheJacker;95669]

    - or should i say "learning to allow my progasm to master me?"

    - rip

    Spot on!! I just let it do what it likes!
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Ok I waited 3 days without ejaculation and used the progasm " it didnt help" :(
    I'll try tomarrow . Had a good go the 2nd time and waiting for that again!!!
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Ok so no luck anymore with the progasm. I had a good session the 2nd time I used it now I lost all good feelings from it. I am using my helix first for the first hour than I switching to the progasm for another hour or two. I havent ejaculated for about 10 days so I'm ready to explode. Any tips? Should I stop use for awhile? I have my sessions every other day.
  • Try this

    Breath in and contract your Aneros "in", but when you breath out make a pushing movement, until you feel a slight push from your muscles

    repeat this cycle

    This technique also works.
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    I tryed that too. When I did the 5 min. Relaxation trick on my 2nd try with the progasm is when I hit new hi's!!! I never got that with my helix. But after all that " Back To nothing". :(
  • Had my progasm about 4-1/2 months and started out with a dead ass - new to all things anal as far as my own butt ...

    hot water soapfoam wash and soak for relaxation slow and gentle finger teasing allowing my sphincter to be more receptive - mastered the insertion/penetration bit and eventually learned to perceive pleasure as it enters although I continue to take it slow and easy as though I'm making love to my butthole

    ... butt still never any pleasure from pressure on the prostate - initially unpleasant then improving to the point of merely distracting

    Then WHAM this past Saturday AM wakened about 2:30 or 3am alert and horny took a piss sat down on the bidet washed soaked and teased and slipped the lubed progasm into position went back to bed alternately wakeful and drowsy then progasm began moving inside sending waves of prostatic pleasure penis oozing precum pooling in my navel hardon jumping fuckin' felt stoned - had toked a little Friday night but over 8 hours previously - jeezus it went on and on like a masturbation edge but it was all deep inside i could feel the progasm moving deliciously against my prostate it was fuckin' heaven ...

    no discreet mini-o's p-gasms just a fuckin' total high like going 35mph down a long long slope on my cannondale (a rare experience - no hills in FL) skydiving or riding a wave hangin' on its crest for a long ride bucking in the bed not outta control but humping up had to touch myself some then i blew a HOT searing ecstatic load after almost an hour cummin' down slowly slumbered again like a baby rested butt still aroused at 8am

    ... needless to say it was a high point in my life and i'm finding my prostate a source of [B]pleasure[/B] butt gotta be highly aroused to be in that place

    - rip
  • Wow, Rip, great description man! Makes me horny thinking of my Progasm sitting in the drawer & will get with your program in the morning...I find morning best too...I especially love the early am feelings too...did you still have it in when you woke? I have been wondering about leaving the Progasm in for a time
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Nice I'll have to try that sounds sweet!!! Thanks
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Has anyone tryed a Viagra for more blood flow and arousal when using the progasm?
  • [QUOTE=taran;95512]I love the progasm. I get strong orgasms whether I'm on my back or my stomach. My only problem is the thing sometimes slips out during my session. Am I the only one that experiences slippage with the progasm? Could I be using too much lube? I never experience this with any other model.
    Yes taran, I find that can happen.I find it's when I start to orgasm,usually the anal orgasm,rather than the prostate orgasm that causes my anal muscles to contract and push so intensly that it sometimes trys to force the progasm out.
  • [QUOTE=ssw1;95949]Has anyone tryed a Viagra for more blood flow and arousal when using the progasm?
    No ssw1,never used viagra,did it work for you? Hope you are getting the results now with your progasm.
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    No haven't tryed that yet!! I herd that it helps.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    [QUOTE=ssw1;95949]Has anyone tryed a Viagra for more blood flow and arousal when using the progasm?

    Yup, Viagra + Progasm is a bit of a bulk 'overload' for me with Progasm. For pleasure/orgasm sessions I don't like the erection that Viagra triggers (I'm one of the 14% of guys who erects spontaneously from Viagra). I prefer to range between mild chubby and flaccid.

    However, I like to super-T with the larger Perdise or Tempo to finish a massage therapy session. A small dose (20-25mg) of Viagra three or four hours in advance of the session does plump the crus and increases the nice anal and penis bulb sensations from the Peridise. I swap out Maximus and Helix for massage and Max plays OK with Viagra for me during bph therapy.

    Tks for this post. I get a lot of perineum sensation from Vice and had wanted to experience that with some Viagra or Levitra had forgotten -- good reminder!

    tks rook
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,253
    ssw1,

    The subject of Aneros use and E.D. drugs (Viagra, Cialis, Levitra, etc.) has been discussed in several threads before, see - http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/viagra-cialis-aneros-11894/ , http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/aneros-rises-viagra-falls-13233/ , http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/interested-trying-viagra-14058/ , http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/viagra-w-aneros-13764/ , http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/narcotic-other-enhancements-10589/ , http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/horny-goat-weed-vs-viagra-12421/ .

    Anecdotal evidence is of mixed opinion regarding these drugs effects toward enhancing one's arousal and Aneros experience. However, you should be aware of the potential side effects these drugs may also induce, including a rare, but serious, risk of vision impairment - Some side effects occur that are specific to the brand of medication. For example, slight blurriness of vision in both eyes happens in about 1 in 200 men who use Viagra. Usually men who experience this describe a bluish tinge in their vision. This problem is unique to Viagra and rarely occurs with Levitra or Cialis.

    But there is a different and more serious vision problem that is not unique to Viagra. It can occur with any of the three PDE-5 inhibitors. The condition is called non-arteritic ischemic optic neuropathy (NAION).

    The symptom to watch out for is a sudden partial or complete loss of vision in one eye, more often happening in the morning when the man first wakes up. This is medical emergency that requires immediate evaluation.

    Any man who has these symptoms while using a PDE-5 inhibitor must not take any drug from this class again. That means no Viagra, no Cialis, no Levitra. Unfortunately, I'm that one guy in 200 who has a problem with these drugs, IMHO there are other natural, herbal compounds you could use which would be safer in the long run. Unless you really have a need to use any of these drugs, I would recommend against their use in an effort to enhance your Aneros practice.
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Does the vision come back I hope?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,253
    ssw1,

    From the limited reading I have done, it appears that the vision impairment/loss is permanent with only a small fraction of those afflicted showing improvement over time. This Wikipedia article and this medical article will help you understand the condition of ischemic optic neuropathy.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Hence the reason they have been maintained as prescription medications since their introduction over a decade ago.

    An M.D. (or D.O.) usually reviews medical and family history as well as other medications prior to choosing one of these meds.
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    I just got a bottle of pure olive oil. I'm going to try some with my progasm to see if it's better than my normal lube!!! I'll post my findings.
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Ok I injected 1/2 oz of olive oil and it wasn't enuff so I crapped the 1/2 oz then re injected 1 1/2 oz "that did the trick" it moved like it never had before with no iretation like KY or Astro!!! So I was able to hold it in and enjoy the ride. :)
  • tpsky
    Posts: 6
    Yes, I think the Progasm is nice. In one experience I had about two years ago, I was using the Progasm and it seemed to push my body into the bed. It felt like I could not move (no control).
  • ten_s_nutten_s_nut
    Posts: 816
    ssw1;

    I use a fair amount of Olive Oil, too. Never measured it.

    Note that if you're going to keep the Aneros inside you the whole night, a thin coating of Vaseline on the tool covered with Olive Oil will extend the useful lube period versus oil alone. If Vaseline is too "chemical" for you, a vegetable grease like Crisco will work the same way.

    Cheers,

    Dave
  • ssw1
    Posts: 70
    Well I have mixed feelings on lubes. The progasm moves well with the olive oil with no irritation but when I use astro glide I have irritation. But it seems to jump start involuntary muscle spasms and that feels even better. I don't know if that's bad or good.