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Do women have more parts that can be pleased?
  • Judging from this read women have he equivalent of every male sexual part plus more.

    Guess once again women win. Even if it is a slight edge it is never in the man's favor. On top of that men initiate more than half the time, do more than half the physical work,give more oral sex and spend more time on their partner's body during foreplay than she spends on his. Not to mention men spend more time giving oral sex.
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/some-serious-questions-11240/
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Two years ago I would have said yes, unequivocally!

    I knew not of my nips and for over 50 years had assumed that only female nips were erogenous. Although my Prostate had an 'itch' I knew little of satisfying it's cravings. I knew not of my belly, of my fingertips, of my palms, of the soles of my feet, of my ear lobes, of my many acupressure points. Although Mantak Chia's writings are introducing me to my Chakras, I've only started to master two with many miles to go.

    The pleasure points are many -- so little time to turn each one on.
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    @MyTurn:For a man there is NO WAY of knowing what a woman feels so any comparison is futile, although I would say they are generally prettier than men
  • [QUOTE=rook;95069]Two years ago I would have said yes, unequivocally!

    I knew not of my nips and for over 50 years had assumed that only female nips were erogenous. Although my Prostate had an 'itch' I knew little of satisfying it's cravings. I knew not of my belly, of my fingertips, of my palms, of the soles of my feet, of my ear lobes, of my many acupressure points. Although Mantak Chia's writings are introducing me to my Chakras, I've only started to master two with many miles to go.

    The pleasure points are many -- so little time to turn each one on.

    Yea but it seems as if in bed women spend less time on men's bodies than vice versa. It is in fact encouraged because women have difficulty orgasming. So therefore they deserve more pleasure is the thinking.
  • Korkelz
    Posts: 294
    [QUOTE=newtoforum;95025]Judging from this read women have he equivalent of every male sexual part plus more.

    Guess once again women win. Even if it is a slight edge it is never in the man's favor. On top of that men initiate more than half the time, do more than half the physical work,give more oral sex and spend more time on their partner's body during foreplay than she spends on his. Not to mention men spend more time giving oral sex.
    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/some-serious-questions-11240/

    A bunch of crap. I don't want this stuff getting men depressed. We need to discover how lucky we are. Yes women have the advantage that they don't ejaculate in normal circumstances, but that's where the advantages end. I don't want to write a long-winded explanation to counter all of this depression you're spreading around. Just know that on your journey to the Super O you will be satisfied with being a man more than you ever thought possible.
  • impimp
    Posts: 72
    Korkelz, I second your floor motion. All those in favor say "Aye", all those opposed say "Nay"!
  • [QUOTE=Korkelz;95088]A bunch of crap. I don't want this stuff getting men depressed. We need to discover how lucky we are. Yes women have the advantage that they don't ejaculate in normal circumstances, but that's where the advantages end. I don't want to write a long-winded explanation to counter all of this depression you're spreading around. Just know that on your journey to the Super O you will be satisfied with being a man more than you ever thought possible.


    Yet at the end of the day women still have it better. I will never have a woman cater to me more than vice versa. i will never have a woman give me multiple orgasms. I will have to do it alone.

    And I just found out about cul-de-sac orgasms for which there is no male equivalent.
  • cyrezcyrez
    Posts: 109
    Why so blue, mr newguy? And why do you keep asking depressing hypothetical questions about women in a forum composed 99.99% of men, how the heck should we know?
  • [QUOTE=cyrez;95097]Why so blue, mr newguy? And why do you keep asking depressing hypothetical questions about women in a forum composed 99.99% of men, how the heck should we know?

    Just depressed that sex is more about women than men. And that men cant have multiple orgasms during sex the way a woman can. you know where you just let your partner do all the work to bring you to multiple orgasms.
  • cyrezcyrez
    Posts: 109
    Well, believe or not, a women can't have multiple orgasms when stimulating their clit, they have to learn this ability, just as they have to learn to have g-spot orgasm, When a girl is new on the area, they have as much sensation in their vagina as their elbow kinda, it's called 'rewiring'...

    We can learn all this too,...and with aneros and knowledge and training you will be fully satisfied

    Practice makes perfect...
  • [QUOTE=cyrez;95104]Well, believe or not, a women can't have multiple orgasms when stimulating their clit, they have to learn this ability, just as they have to learn to have g-spot orgasm, When a girl is new on the area, they have as much sensation in their vagina as their elbow kinda, it's called 'rewiring'...

    We can learn all this too,...and with aneros and knowledge and training you will be fully satisfied

    Practice makes perfect...

    True. But a woman can still lay back and have multiple orgasms that her partner provides her. A man can't do the same.
  • cyrezcyrez
    Posts: 109
    [QUOTE=newtoforum;95106]True. But a woman can still lay back and have multiple orgasms that her partner provides her. A man can't do the same.

    With aneros he can just lay back and enjoy the multiple orgasms that the partner (aneros) is providing for him. You don't have to do a thing, just relax and enjoy. And there is techniques to learn to be multiorgasmic in traditional sex, called KSMO, key sound multiple orgasm trigger, check out www.multiples.com
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    [QUOTE=newtoforum;95106]True. But a woman can still lay back and have multiple orgasms that her partner provides her. A man can't do the same.

    With respect to the possibility of a man providing a [I]woman[/I] with multiple orgasms...etc. I've never agreed with the proposition that one person strictly provides another person an orgasm to begin with . Be it woman to man, man to woman, woman to woman or man to man. To my way of thinking a person can be stimulated but in the end one allows themselves to be aroused, and an orgasm is a result of that allowance. In this way an orgasm is really something that one gives to themselves! This is particularly the case with female orgasms and the male Super O. When it comes to ejaculation, it can be said that many men have an almost instantaneous response to stimulation, almost like an orgasm button was pushed. For such individuals and in such cases I could more readily see an orgasm being given. For all others I would put it like this......my orgasm is my own...it can be shared (and in the best of relationships it is shared) but it's not something that some else gives to me.

    I will avoid commenting on the other points that you raised as I think they're off topic for this forum. My advice to you is to stop getting hung up on what you don't have and celebrate what you do. This forum is dedicated to a tremendously powerful and mostly undiscovered potential that men have. It's all about affirming male sexuality! By my count you've got 4 threads going now that discuss your depression over the supposed inequities of men vs. women. If you're looking for people to commiserate with on the shortcomings of being a man in our society, then you've come to the wrong place...seriously, there's a celebration going on here!

    That stuff doesn't belong here.




    BF Mayfield
  • [QUOTE=B Mayfield;95113]With respect to the possibility of a man providing a [I]woman[/I] with multiple orgasms...etc. I've never agreed with the proposition that one person strictly provides another person an orgasm to begin with . Be it woman to man, man to woman, woman to woman or man to man. To my way of thinking a person can be stimulated but in the end one allows themselves to be aroused, and an orgasm is a result of that allowance. In this way an orgasm is really something that one gives to themselves! This is particularly the case with female orgasms and the male Super O. When it comes to ejaculation, it can be said that many men have an almost instantaneous response to stimulation, almost like an orgasm button was pushed. For such individuals and in such cases I could more readily see an orgasm being given. For all others I would put it like this......my orgasm is my own...it can be shared (and in the best of relationships it is shared) but it's not something that some else gives to me.

    I will avoid commenting on the other points that you raised as I think they're off topic for this forum. My advice to you is to stop getting hung up on what you don't have and celebrate what you do. This forum is dedicated to a tremendously powerful and mostly undiscovered potential that men have. It's all about affirming male sexuality! By my count you've got 4 threads going now that discuss your depression over the supposed inequities of men vs. women. If you're looking for people to commiserate with on the shortcomings of being a man in our society, then you've come to the wrong place...seriously, there's a celebration going on here!

    That stuff doesn't belong here.




    BF Mayfield

    very well put BF I love being a man and I wouldnt have it any other way I love it even more now im using the aneros, im just taking my time and enjoying it :) so true we are here to celebrate the hidden powers of a man and its also nice to share our hidden abilities and share pleasure with woman so its true neither gender are ahead its not a game its just fun
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Helixer, newtoforums is not me. I had to see a psychologist to deal with my OCD surrounding comparing female vs male sexual pleasure. I am not 100% over it, but I am better. What also helped is the hope that a man can hope to attain a prostate and multiple orgasm. The possibility alone helped calm some of my anxiety (sounds weird, but this stuff made me anxious - OCD).

    But I totally understand where newtoforums is in his head coz I was there in 2008. I am slightly better now.

    Newtoforums, I totally understand you!!
  • MyTurn The only difference between men and women is it's socially more acceptable for women to let go. Like the screamers in tennis, you don't see any men do that, it has to be a lowpitched grunt or something else that's constrictive(like men don't cry). If you can allow yourself to let go you too can scream like a women and give voice to your enjoyment. I don't believe women are physiologically more wired for pleasure but they're certainly more free to give full expression to it. And perhaps that might open them up to even more pleasure
    What would be the voice of a man living out his feminine side?
  • [QUOTE=B Mayfield;95113]With respect to the possibility of a man providing a [I]woman[/I] with multiple orgasms...etc. I've never agreed with the proposition that one person strictly provides another person an orgasm to begin with . Be it woman to man, man to woman, woman to woman or man to man. To my way of thinking a person can be stimulated but in the end one allows themselves to be aroused, and an orgasm is a result of that allowance. In this way an orgasm is really something that one gives to themselves! This is particularly the case with female orgasms and the male Super O. When it comes to ejaculation, it can be said that many men have an almost instantaneous response to stimulation, almost like an orgasm button was pushed. For such individuals and in such cases I could more readily see an orgasm being given. For all others I would put it like this......my orgasm is my own...it can be shared (and in the best of relationships it is shared) but it's not something that some else gives to me.

    I will avoid commenting on the other points that you raised as I think they're off topic for this forum. My advice to you is to stop getting hung up on what you don't have and celebrate what you do. This forum is dedicated to a tremendously powerful and mostly undiscovered potential that men have. It's all about affirming male sexuality! By my count you've got 4 threads going now that discuss your depression over the supposed inequities of men vs. women. If you're looking for people to commiserate with on the shortcomings of being a man in our society, then you've come to the wrong place...seriously, there's a celebration going on here!

    That stuff doesn't belong here.




    BF Mayfield

    I get what you are saying. Nothing is truly given. The person who is orgasming still has to be in tune with their own body or else it won't work. And they have to learn how to let go and experience that pleasure.

    What I should have said is that the woman can have gspot orgasms wwith the aid of a man's hand or penis. She can be in a receptive position.

    Basically a man can at least assist a woman in having spot orgasms whereas a man can't be assisted. There is no way for a woman's finger to produce super orgasms nor is there any way for him to have prostate orgasms while in cowgirl position. A woman can have a man help. A man must do it solo(unless you count stimulation of the nipples during an aneros session as assistance-it is but it is not really direct assistance).
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    [QUOTE=newtoforum;95198]

    What I should have said is that the woman can have gspot orgasms wwith the aid of a man's hand or penis. She can be in a receptive position.

    Basically a man can at least assist a woman in having spot orgasms whereas a man can't be assisted. There is no way for a woman's finger to produce super orgasms nor is there any way for him to have prostate orgasms while in cowgirl position. A woman can have a man help. A man must do it solo(unless you count stimulation of the nipples during an aneros session as assistance-it is but it is not really direct assistance).

    Can a man be assisted to Super Orgasm by a woman? It depends on the man. Some MMO adepts can produce this response with the least amount of stimulation, alone or with a partner. There are a number of men in this forum who enjoy very rich relationships with women which include sessions filled with mutual multiple orgasmic bliss. Going to this place with a partner and achieving this kind of ecstatic union is what Tantra is all about. Sharing is a wonderful and very powerful thing! So is love. Don't be so quick to dismiss them.

    BF Mayfield
  • [QUOTE=B Mayfield;95213]Can a man be assisted to Super Orgasm by a woman? It depends on the man. Some MMO adepts can produce this response with the least amount of stimulation, alone or with a partner. There are a number of men in this forum who enjoy very rich relationships with women which include sessions filled with mutual multiple orgasmic bliss. Going to this place with a partner and achieving this kind of ecstatic union is what Tantra is all about. Sharing is a wonderful and very powerful thing! So is love. Don't be so quick to dismiss them.

    BF Mayfield

    My question was can a super-o be had using a woman's finger(assuming the man has reqired himself)?
    If not Super O's at least mmo's?

    Also if orgasms are not given and men are not responsible for women's orgasms why do men give more foreplay than they receive(that might not be the case as the guys on here seem to be more in touch with their bodies than the average male but still that is the overall pattern).