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women like it slow
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,195
    as you all know, i have taken to using male-multiple-orgasm (MMO), with and without the aneros, as a crazy way to explore female sexuality latent within me. it is extremely cool to feel sex and orgasm the way women (i presume) feel it.

    one interesting thing i noticed in myself is that "women like it slow." how many of you have heard that from your wives, girlfriends, etc? "Take it slow, honey, with lots of foreplay. It takes me time to get hot."

    when i have sex as a male, boom, i get hard, and i am ready to go. even in adulthood, i can whack off in a minute or two. or, with sex, i am ready to penetrate and hump pronto.

    but, when i am in the female sexuality zone, i appreciate, and need, the slow build up. i think that a newbie aneros error is to expect male levels of acceleration. for example, i like to touch myself all over, like a guy would to arouse his woman, and work erotically on my nips and breasts. then i like to imagine being fingered for a long while, to orgasm, before i am ready to even think about (imagining) being penetrated.

    if we can all learn about ourselves and our women from MMO, wouldn't that be great.

    darwin
  • pnomanpnoman
    Posts: 145
    I agree with the "take it slow" mentality. One can never rush a session! As far as getting in touch with our feminine side, I am somehow reminded of the 'tossed salad man' describing his ass as a man-pussy...

    YouTube - tossed salad man
  • hulahula
    Posts: 212
    There have been times when I have performed oral sex on my wife while at the same time stimulating her g-spot, when she just responds with unbelievable sighs of pleasure. I have found that during some of my best Aneros sessions, my response mimics hers at these times.
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    [QUOTE=darwin;93336]as you all know, i have taken to using male-multiple-orgasm (MMO), with and without the aneros, as a crazy way to explore female sexuality latent within me. it is extremely cool to feel sex and orgasm the way women (i presume) feel it.

    one interesting thing i noticed in myself is that "women like it slow." how many of you have heard that from your wives, girlfriends, etc? "Take it slow, honey, with lots of foreplay. It takes me time to get hot."

    when i have sex as a male, boom, i get hard, and i am ready to go. even in adulthood, i can whack off in a minute or two. or, with sex, i am ready to penetrate and hump pronto.

    but, when i am in the female sexuality zone, i appreciate, and need, the slow build up. i think that a newbie aneros error is to expect male levels of acceleration. for example, i like to touch myself all over, like a guy would to arouse his woman, and work erotically on my nips and breasts. then i like to imagine being fingered for a long while, to orgasm, before i am ready to even think about (imagining) being penetrated.

    if we can all learn about ourselves and our women from MMO, wouldn't that be great.

    darwin

    I will agree with that... I am finding that I tell my wife to slow down these days
  • [QUOTE=pnoman;93338]

    YouTube - tossed salad man

    Classic!!!
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Folks, :)

    Another facet of this, is discovering in myself that unlike the male penile centered approach, the right time for an Aneros session is not anytime. I've had to learn to really listen to my body as to when it is truly aroused or accepting of trying a session. This reminds me of when women tell you they are "not in the mood" for sex. So perhaps this mirrors what women experience as far as when and how they are aroused for sex. I know that when I get prostate tingles, I try to take advantage of what my body is telling me and have a session. Rather than have a session with no prompting from my body.

    Love_is
  • I have always felt like my sexuality was strongly female in that I discovered my nipples when I was 19, while still a virgin, and they have been a part of virtually every sexual act I have had with a woman. With one exception, they loved my sensitive nipples. I consider these higly erogenous nipples a gift, because I think I can better experience what a woman feels and how to pleasure her. When I make love to my wife, whose nipples are not as sensitive as my own, I feel like she is often too quick to begin sucking my penis (even though she plays with my nipples while she does it.) Like the eager guy who is more interested in pussy than breasts! So, like a woman, I, too, like it slow.

    Since I discovered multiple orgasm--and multizone orgasm (nipples, breasts, belly)--a few years ago, I feel that my sexuality is very female, or at least gender-neutal, and I love that!
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,253
    Wuerstchen,

    Hmmm, perhaps your wife needs to take note of the words to this song and apply it to you!:rolleyes::)

    [video=youtube;a8KgQU5G-J0]
    [CENTER]Actually we could all learn to apply it to ourselves and our play partners![/CENTER]
  • LOL! Yes, that's it exactly, even with autoeroticism!
  • [QUOTE=hula;93339]There have been times when I have performed oral sex on my wife while at the same time stimulating her g-spot, when she just responds with unbelievable sighs of pleasure. I have found that during some of my best Aneros sessions, my response mimics hers at these times.

    How sad is it though that she can't give you that pleasure. It must be done solo.