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First hands free wet orgasm
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Hi,

    I want to ask a question about progressing.

    I've had a hands free wet orgasm yesterday with the helix.
    I was on a 2 hour session as usual and in the end half hour i do nipple play to intense it some more.
    Because i'm not there yet were i have dry Os all the time i'm affraid this event will set me back.

    So is it harmless to have those or must i stop with the nipple play until i'm in super O land?

    It felt good but was so dissapointed that it wasn't prostate fluid or a dry O instead of semen that flowd out.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Valliant,

    First, 30 to 35% of your semen is comprised of prostate fluid. With respect to being distressed about having an ejaculation instead of a Super O, just know that there are many guys who have always wanted a hands free ejaculation and couldn't make it happen. I can understand that it's not what you are after, but just know what happened for you is an achievement of sorts. In regards to your concerns about having these kinds of orgasms to the exclusion of the Super O, I have to ask, was this a one time occurrence or are you having hands free ejaculations consistently now? If this was only a one timer, I wouldn't be too concerned about it at this point, there's a good possibility that it may be different the next time anyway.

    Proceed with an open mind and see where it takes you. If you're finding that you are having these kinds of orgasms consistently with nipple play, then it may be necessary to back off with it a bit if you're interested in pursuing the non-ejaculatory path.

    BF Mayfield
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Thank you for the advice,

    This was my first,it happened yesterday with the helix.
    My previous sessions got more intense by the day,now i get good feelings upon insertion.
    I still not having the feeling of a holy body experience,as some members say that a warm feeling goes from the prostate outwards to all the body.
    For me it centers around the prostate and perinium and sometimes a few contractions.

    I always have an open mind,no expectations and i have never givin up although it's taken years to come to this point i feel good the minute i insert the aneros.The progasm ice i use the most,but have simular expiriences with the helix and eupho,don't use the peridise for now.

    My goal is to have a full body orgasm and i think i'm not far from it,that is why i was afraid that this wet orgasm would set me back.
  • I say Congrats! Brian is right about many guys wishing they could have a wet one.
    I wish I could or would. I love the super-o's but every now and then it would be nice to have a wet one.
    So unless you are having them all or most of the time, I say you are very lucky. So enjoy it!
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Thanks Carolinaguy,

    I think that the nipple play triggerd me into a wet orgasm,just need to find a balance so that i don't have these all the time.
    But maybe it was a one time thing,i will find out tonight with the ice progasm.

    Keep you posted on the progress.
  • Before using the Aneros, I was working to have a hands free, wet orgasm. This was paired with a desire to be able to "will" myself erect. I had a couple of hands free wet orgasms over the 18 months I was practicing before I discovered the Aneros. But even before the Aneros I found my focus beginning to shift to pleasure centers/sources other than the penis. I sought to raise this erotic feeling through the body, but all the time I sought the holy grail of hands free orgasm.

    Enter the Aneros (pun intended). I now see the traditional orgasm as a short-circuiting of the energy. About four days ago I had my first hands free, wet orgasm with the Aneros. Yes, it felt great and I enjoyed it very much, but I could really experience how it allowed the energy to escape. This happened after I started doing nipple stim. In the sessions since I have used nipple stim, but I avoid bringing the pleasure to the penis. I instead pay attention to how it affects "lower" pleasure centers. I also pay attention to nipple pleasure as its own thing, unrelated to how it affects prostate (or penis) pleasure.

    I think the "rewiring" metaphor is very useful. I was formerly wired to think of a penile orgasm as the only kind of orgasm. I thought that in seeking a multiple-orgasm capability I would be producing multiple penile orgasms. I now see that orgasms can be centered in a variety of locations. I am explicitly experimenting with rewiring my mind and body to transcend my limited thinking.

    Does my hands free orgasm represent progress? Yes and no. That I can raise my erotic energy to the point of ejaculation without touching my penis is a kind of progress. But for me, I can see that it is a trap that I could fall into. Wired as I was to seek ejaculation, such an orgasm strengthens that wiring.
  • I started having hands free wet orgasm several sessions ago and honestly it enhances the super o's I am enjoying prior to the wet orgasm. When I am finished I feel complete satisfaction and euphoria.

    I wouldn't look at it as a setback as long as you are still experiencing the prostate joy just accept it as a bonus. I need to also add I have the wet orgasms without any additional stimulation except the helix.
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Well my session yesterday with the ice progasm went well without a wet orgasm.
    I did some nipple play but not as vigorous,hope this is spelled correct,as before.
    My series of sessions realy did me progress so much faster in the last half year.

    My next goal is to have the full body experience where you guys say the feeling goes outwards to all of your body, that must be awsome.
    Although i go in every session with an open mind,my problem i think for me is total relaxation to have this kind of orgasm.
    This has been an amazing journey so far.
  • tokertoker
    Posts: 128
    i have wet super o's almost every session it took about a year to get there at first i just had dry o's and p waves my first proper super o happened when i bought my second model the progasm ice i had a particularly good session with helix felt like i wanted more so switched up to progasm after 20 mins and almost immediately i felt like i was coming but it was my prostate that was throbing and burning not my cock i then let out a load moan and had full body orgasm and released a lot of fluid i say fluid as it was wet and slimy but did not look or feel like semen it lasted ages and just when i was coming down it happened again exactly the same . ever since on most sessions it generally happens the same although usually only one super o any model even peredise my libido is up my cock is bigger and harder and i feel healthier my wife is happy to say the least so i would not worry and even suggest you activley encourage this i know others may disagree but i say if it feels good go with it we are all different
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Thanks Toker,

    We are indeed all different,some have succes from the go and then there are people like me.
    It's taken years to come to the point where i'm now,as i said before my next step is the full body feeling.
    That sound just an awesome feeling to have.
    Still,always going into a session with no expectations.
  • thecritta
    Posts: 154
    [QUOTE=valliant;94188]Hi,

    I want to ask a question about progressing.

    I've had a hands free wet orgasm yesterday with the helix.
    I was on a 2 hour session as usual and in the end half hour i do nipple play to intense it some more.
    Because i'm not there yet were i have dry Os all the time i'm affraid this event will set me back.

    So is it harmless to have those or must i stop with the nipple play until i'm in super O land?

    It felt good but was so dissapointed that it wasn't prostate fluid or a dry O instead of semen that flowd out.

    Hi there valliant i have been long time user on this forum for quiet a few years now and i have been having hands free orgasms almost after every single session i do this by lying on my stomach with the aneros inserted i use all the different models as i have almost the entire set, i enjoy the stimulation from lying on my stomach with my penis touching the bed i believe it helps me to have better dry "O" as i have been having them for over two years now and let me say that sometimes i can use aneros for up to like 3 straight hours lying on the bed going in and out of state of arousal having multiple dry orgasms over and over again of varying intensities and let me tell you those dry 'O' are like nothing else on this earth they are just pure magic and bliss but then towards the end of the session i usually blow my load sometimes i expect it and sometimes i dont trust me it feels really good i preffer it wouldnt happen i wish i could just ly on the bed with my penis pressing against the sheets and the mattress and usually i grind force the head of the aneros harder into my prostate to make it feel even more better and i usually make slight moaning noises very quiet talk like i will say something like "Oh shit yeah" "and sometimes i will make a noise like "ohhhhhhhhhh" or "uhhhhhhhhhhhhh yeah" when it gets really
    really intense and i starting having dry O's but unfortunatly i dont believe i have had a super O yet.

    I just have just two question for you what position where you lying in when you had this ahnd free wet O?
    Where you stimulating your penis in anway like lying on the bed with you dick rubbing up against the mattress?

    Anyway cheers good luck take care mate thecritta

    :):););)
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Hi there thecritta,

    I was on the sofa on my back,legs together and a little upwards because my legs rested on the side or end of the sofa.
    Don't know if sofa is an english word,coutch but don't know if spelling is correct.
    My penis was not touching anything nor did i stimulate it,i never do.
    What triggered it was my nipple stimulation,i was a bit to eager in that session.

    I have a question for you aswell,
    is your penis under your belly when you have those sessions or do you point towards your feet so there is no pression on it?
  • thecritta
    Posts: 154
    [QUOTE=valliant;94386]Hi there thecritta,

    I was on the sofa on my back,legs together and a little upwards because my legs rested on the side or end of the sofa.
    Don't know if sofa is an english word,coutch but don't know if spelling is correct.
    My penis was not touching anything nor did i stimulate it,i never do.
    What triggered it was my nipple stimulation,i was a bit to eager in that session.

    I have a question for you aswell,
    is your penis under your belly when you have those sessions or do you point towards your feet so there is no pression on it?

    It is under my bell it is my preffered method of stimulation probably not the best way to use aneros but whenever it try it on my side it just feels a though there is something missing.
  • The problem for me is that I only get wet orgasms by using the progasm. The nice feelings are there for sure. After the wet orgasm all the erotic energy is gone.. I need some advice to get over the point of no return (wet orgasm!)

    My goal is to have a dry orgasm!
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Hi goudenpijl,

    Well if you have other models maybe you should leave the progasm alone for a while.
    That way you don't get into a session knowing you gonna have a wet orgasm and just relax and enjoy the impulses you get.