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Using the Aneros when having intercourse?
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    I plan on mainly using my Aneros (for now) when I have sex with my wife. I haven't done so yet because I have some genuine concerns. For those here who do so routinely I do have a few questions.

    1. Before use, do you still do a full rectal cleansing and then apply an adequate amount of lubrication into your anal canal and on to the Aneros prior to insertion?

    2. Have you ever had any problems with excess lubricant running out of your anus during sex and possibly into your partners vagina and cause her to get some type of an infection?

    3. What is the best way to use the Aneros for heterosexual intercourse for both you and your partner? Her on top and or doggie style but not the missionary position?

    Thanks in advance for any and all help and suggestions on this subject. :-)
  • VoyagerVoyager
    Posts: 200
    Hello RogerT.
    We normally start intercourse without the Aneros.
    She normally comes before me.
    If I feel that my erection is starting to wilt I then insert my Helix.
    I do not bother cleaning out as the moment would be gone.
    I use vasaline as a lube.
    Vasaline will not run out as I only use a small amount.
    Prostate contact, erection boosted, back to work.

    I find the Helix stays in place during the subsequent orgasm.
    I once ejected my MGX during orgasm so I do not use it with the wife anymore.

    If you are worried about lube running out I suggest your wife be a Cowgirl.(She on top)
    This way gravity will make any lube end up on the bed as water normally will not flow uphill.
    I hope this helps you.
  • slimjm
    Posts: 497
    Hey, RogerT. I've not often used my Aneros during intercourse, but when I did I used my Helix I'd cut the tail off of some time ago (less hanging out of you and in the way by doing that) and I lubed minimally, a little Vaseline to the anus (KY irritates me there) and just a light coating of KY to the tool. I inserted before sex (she's not interested in the Aneros or how it's used though I've introduced it to her as something that helps my prostate health and improves sexual performance) and than we went at it like usual. I don't enema and don't lube any more than the above even for regular Aneros sessions and never have leakage issues and with the tail off the Helix about any position she wants is workable. Hope this helps.
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    Thanks for the replies. I would love to hear from more folks too. Also, after having sex, we like to spoon to each other and sometimes take a nap. Has anyone here left the Aneros in after sex and then had dry orgasms or even a super one? Just wondering here. :-)
  • RT ,
    I am a newbie and dont have to much to offer for advice but I will say this.

    I have a very open minded GF and she wants to experience the aneros experience with me.

    I am thinking of having me insert and relax ...then have her come in the room and play with herself while i watch .... the intent is for me to have a dry orgasm first and for her to get all worked up.

    Then I plan on getting on the bottom and letting her get on top ...she squirts in this position and i think me being extra hard will help ...

    I will let you know how this pans out as we are planning this for Sunday
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    We first bought a Helix just for intercourse. Then, downsized to an SGX for more mobility. Now I use either a tailless SGX or the larger Peridise. Each has it's own "virtues."

    Yes on thicker lube. I'm not a fan of petro-lubes and have found Crisco works great. ... enjoy.
  • rickg
    Posts: 94
    I have done missionary with the Helix in and it does help with erection. I have tried missionary with the Prograsm and it tended to slip out.
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    I have the Aneros MGX. How does one safely remove the handle while leaving the perineum massager on the device?
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    [QUOTE=RogerT;92177]I have the Aneros MGX. How does one safely remove the handle while leaving the perineum massager on the device?

    Piece of cake:

    http://www.aneros.com/forum/f6/*how-much-handle-tail-did-you-cut-off-pics-11917/ -- (pictures are on post #1)

    File, saw, wire cutters. File smooth, then sand until smooth using 1200 or 1400 grit finish then polish with automotive compounding paste or jeweler's rouge. Enjoy!
  • slimjm
    Posts: 497
    Hey RogerT. As to leaving it in after sex, I would think it would be hard to have dry prostate orgasms in the early refractory period following traditional orgasm and ejaculation. However, I have had some of my best super-O's the day following traditional sex, so abstaining several days after traditional sex is not always necessary for dry orgasms to be successful. Also, when my wife and I have sex, I satisfy her but don't necessarily come to orgasm and ejaculation myself and several times like that after she's gone to sleep I have lain in bed really relaxed and gone on to have wonderful dry orgasms with my Aneros left in.
  • gm501
    Posts: 87
    I would love to try intercourse with my wife with my Helix or Eupho inserted. But she knows nothing about my toys and would probably freak if she found out. I'm just wondering if I could do this without her knowing. I'd probably have to lop off the handle, so that when she tickles my ass she won't accidentally find something hanging out of my butt. But I haven't had the nerve to try it yet.
  • So this morning while my gf was in the shower I lubed up and slipped in my progasm.
    She knew I was doing this ...
    I took a few mins to relax and breath
    She came is and we started kissing and I got very aroused
    I layed her down and got in a 69 position , me on top ..we did this for 10-15 mins ....felt a lot nbetter then normal and I would contract my muscles while she sucked away
    I couldn't take any more and had her climb on top of me and she immediately noticed that I was much harder then normal
    She rode me until she squirted all over me and I came very very hard ....
    Was truly the next level of intercourse ...
    And for the guys that think that their wives would think its weird , my gf thinks its amazing ...fyi I use toys on her as well
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    Thanks again for all of the replies. I trimmed off the handle and polished it up good. I convinced my wife to try it today when we make love. I'll let you know how I make out with the Aneros in me. Super T here I cum!
  • ForUs
    Posts: 15
    This is something I have given some thought to as well. :D We're planning on using shea butter (hubby keeps some on hand for massage) and I'm concerned about leakage. I was thinking that if the condom method were used it could be the best of both worlds, as the inevitable leakage would be clean, from inside the condom. We could just have it prepared ahead of time, and a little extra jojoba oil (that we already use for all other lube) and away we'd go!
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    Well we used the Aneros over the weekend. That morning I had used my BathMate in the shower so I was already pumped up quite good. I inserted the Aneros after cleansing my rectum and was all ready to go. We made love for quite a while and I was quite sensitive and enjoying it immensely. After my wife orgasmed I decided to go all the way to full ejaculatory orgasm. When I did cum, it was quite strong but rather than feeling an explosive release it felt like something was stuck holding me back from maximum pleasure. I've had this happen rarely in the past before I got the Aneros and I could never figure out why. Overall it was great, but not sure when we'll try it again. Anyone else have a similar experience?
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    [QUOTE=RogerT;92313]......When I did cum, it was quite strong but rather than feeling an explosive release it felt like something was stuck holding me back from maximum pleasure. I've had this happen rarely in the past before I got the Aneros and I could never figure out why. Overall it was great, but not sure when we'll try it again. Anyone else have a similar experience?

    Yup. I eventually produce more semen from edging to Super-T or following a lot of 'arousal cycling' toward orgasm during foreplay, if I'm packing a larger Aneros like Maximus, MGX or Helix. However, when I ejaculate with those tools I retain about half my load until I remove the tool. Then the balance 'burps out' in one pulse or may just flow out in a disappointing drool. I blame this on an enlarged prostate (40-50 gm). It might also be an overly tense anal canal. Nevertheless, both my wife and I prefer a complete unload.

    Solution for me is to use a tailless SGX or 22mm Peridise. The Peridise is unique in that it provides a sort of 'back stop' feeling during thrusting. Either of those tools provide an unobstructed path for me to cum and shoot the whole load.

    Late edit: Even though I'm 6' in height I get some prostate contact with the SGX. Remember too that most guys won't get any significant prostate contact from the Peridise -- however it has it's own set of 'rewards' !!! :-)

    hth and remember that ymmv.

    @Roger T -- BathMate ??
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    Rook - Thanks for the reply. I'm using the MGX currently as it came with the Starter Kit. Should I get the Eupho for use in intercourse? I've heard others say this one works quite well for that based on its size and shape. I would love to get the Progasm some day just to see how it feels to have such a large tool inside.

    As for the BathMate, you can find it at Bathmate Europe - Penis Enlargement made easy! It's a water based penis pump you use in the tub or shower. I use it mainly to gain girth and too greatly heighten my sensitivity and arousal levels. It's well worth the money believe me. They have a great forum at Matters of Size just for the BathMate (BathMate Forum). Check it out. :-)
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Tks for the BathMate info. My old pump is leaking vacuum and I'll welcome the BathMate as a replacement.

    If you value steady prostate contact during posture changes and the size isn't an annoyance MGX is a great choice. Eupho and Helix are sensitive to posture and position changes. If you want more bulk, Maximus or Progasm are be good choices.
  • tokertoker
    Posts: 128
    i find that aneros interferes in some way with achieving an erection and dont use it during sex my wife is cool with the aneros i just dont get hard when its in it could be psychological but im sure its in some way physical and im not alone plenty of guys here on the forum have the same issue its not a problem for solo use though
  • HelixerHelixer
    Posts: 566
    I concur with toker. If you have to have sex with the wife/s.o..... You either plug and play first to get the same effects as having an Aneros in though obviously much less accident prone.

    OR just the plain vanilla type of sex you were having before you bought the Aneros, but with more sexual stamina/libido than you had previously.

    Having to have the Aneros in during sex seems like a pain in the ass and perhaps even a messy affair!
  • RogerT
    Posts: 79
    Just had Round 2 last night with the Aneros. It was just awesome this time! This time I didn't cleanse my rectum right before sex (had done so a few hours earlier after a large BM). We had a lot of foreplay and I was ultra sensitive to the touch and reveling in all of the the feelings. After bringing her to orgasm, she stayed on top and I just exploded with an extremely strong orgasm. It was wonderful and I love her for letting me use the Aneros again. I don't plan on using it all the time, only once in a while for special sessions. :-)
  • rickg
    Posts: 94
    I put the Helix in last night for about 30 minutes and just relaxed with some dry Os then wife came and I topped her with it still in. It was a great Orgasm. Helped with the erection which I appreciate. :-)
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Hey guys congratulations, nicely done and welcome to the club!!

    rook
  • slimjm
    Posts: 497
    Agree, rickg. The best super-T's I've had with my wife came after I'd had my Helix in awhile and gotten some dry-O's coming, then had sex with her. Awesomely prolonged and intense ejaculatory orgasm that way like RogerT describes.