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Which Fleshlight
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    My journey has reached unto heights and into niches that I had not expected 15 months ago. While not 'rock solid rewired' (I'm still Aneros dependent every four days or so.) I've reached a point where I am no longer in a 'semen conservation' mode. If anything, sex or masturbation the day before a session seems to make for faster/easier arousal, good self-confidence and a more stable session with regard to smoothness and certainty of orgasmic development. Now loosened up, I feel trustworthy with my own penis and plan to cast off the mental chastity belt.

    November will be soon upon us and the frequency of queries (nagging) for my choice of birthday present(s) is quite intense. Have asked for a Fleshlight. But, have asked her to delay the purchase until I settle on a sleeve. (wish is to avoid becoming the toybox junkie that I became during my Aneros travels.)

    Looking for a sleeve well-suited for extended edging sessions and neophyte tantra out in the 30-45 minute range. My quick hand wank is about 50 strokes and I would like to double or triple that. The Aneros Journey has improved my edging discipline butt it's got a long way to go. Peridise (when I finally tame that damn little shrew), might be along on some FL rides. SGX would be the alternative.

    Based on the Fleshlight Forum, STU or WW seem to be the most likely for the short-list. And, several Aneros Forum members have mentioned having an STU. Both the SB & Vortex appear counter to my objectives. As I understand it, the clear sleeve has been discontinued.

    I've done a cursory search of the Aneros Forum back to 2004 and came up with some notable threads:

    Ol' buster: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/quick-update-ol-buster-14704/

    Darwin's thread: http://www.aneros.com/forum/f5/fleshlight-non-virgin-11130/

    FleshJoe's thread was interesting but his URL links led only to defunct websites or pages with different themes.

    Vital stats (TMI):
    -- Circed.
    -- Fibrotic length loss and girth-gain has me 'over-square' at 5-5/8" by 5-3/4" (there are ways to avoid this guys -- I was a slow learner.)
    -- Quick hand wank: 50 strokes
    -- Trimix/Quadmix will be my med of choice for FL
    -- Initial lube will be ID Glide -- got almost two pints of this stuff.

    All tips, pointers, experiences and suggestions (save for hanging it up) will be deeply appreciated !

    Anyone using Trimix or Caverject with a Fleshlite? If so, which sleeve and, have you ever bled ?

    Tks in advance. rook.
  • Tremelo
    Posts: 141
    I've got most of 'em, and most prominently, "I believe in the Wonder Weave." And yes, I've used it to drastically extend my edging. (As I mentioned recently in another thread, I got to the point where I could ooze a quarter of a load, wonderfully blissfully, without the kick that causes the refractory period, an internal knowledge/familiarity that paid off substantially when my Aneros came along.)

    I don't have the STU. I've found the Ultra-Tight far too tight to be any fun. The "ribbed" sleeve has done much LESS for me than I expected. I would (and DO) favor the Vortex for a surprising reason. It's not so great handheld, but embedded within a large pillow tha I can "cuddle," the Vortex is as close as I can get to the sensations of *really* fucking. The internal roominess is just right for faking that experience.

    Btw, ID offers a "Pleasure" variety that is as near as I've ever found to "vagina in a bottle." Really awesome and extraordinary.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Many tks Tremelo,
    Your descriptions helped me sort through the marketing pitch for each of these. ... rook
  • BDF
    Posts: 13
    I bought a different make, called the Big Honcho. It works great on me, and it is not creepily marketed as a replica part of a porn actor's anatomy. Humping a replica of a vagina and knowing who it was modelled after creeps me out because I want to think about my wife's body and personality. Does Fleshlight make one that is not porn-related?
  • Tremelo
    Posts: 141
    Sure, I always buy their "stealth" models, which don't resemble anatomy.
  • BDF
    Posts: 13
    Do you have a link to that model? I ripped my cheap Big Honcho a new one. It lasted like two weeks for half the price of a Fleshlight. I should have just shelled out the extra cash to begin with. Live and learn. It is hard being large.
  • Lotus or Forbidden Texture are by far the best. Forbidden is unbelievable more so than the STU. This is coming from a guy that has 7 different fleshlights with different textures for each. Lotus and Vortex does feel as close to the real thing as possible while forbidden just pushes you over the edge to see how much stamina you really do have. WOOWW!
  • VoyagerVoyager
    Posts: 200
    Rook,
    I am sorry that I read this thread.
    I have just been looking on the Fleshlight site.
    Now my mind is in a whirl.

    The wife is away and I need some company.
    The Fleshlight looks safer than going down the town.

    Looks like another toy is on the way.
    Better build a bigger toybox.
    Now I have your dilemma.
    Which one ?
    Happy hunting.
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    [QUOTE=Voyager;91152]Rook,
    I am sorry that I read this thread.
    I have just been looking on the Fleshlight site.
    Now my mind is in a whirl.

    The wife is away and I need some company.
    The Fleshlight looks safer than going down the town.

    Looks like another toy is on the way.
    Better build a bigger toybox.
    Now I have your dilemma.
    Which one ?
    Happy hunting.

    Sorry for making you sorry. No blatant intent was
    intended that might raise your prurient interests
    since everything we post shud be strictly intellectual : lol :

    @topic

    Agree, I've no need for a clone of someone I've not
    "known" Generics are fine for me.

    the FLG sleeves are the ones with starlet names.
    The site illustrates those separately as Fleshlight girls.

    I'm new to sleeves and the thing I think they've missed
    was providing for placement and relocation of
    an artificial cervix.

    Hmmm, and then there's a chance that the designers
    have no clue what a cervix feels like.
  • CA25CA25
    Posts: 46
    If you want an additional opinion, we have the "original" model FL Vulva and highly recommend it or the model of your choice. Previously I noted the following on another post:

    In addition to solo use, my gf has used a recently purchased Fleshlight on me as part of our foreplay (while watching pornos or looking at erotic magazines) or when she wants me to fantasize about being with another woman. Typically our use of the FL during foreplay is to facilitate bringing me close to an orgasm several times; in order to build up the amount of semen produced for my eventual orgasm when we are having sex (we are both really turned on by copious amounts of ejaculate when I come, especially her.)


    My gf has also surprisingly enjoyed watching me use it on my own in front of her, and it is great for solo use when she is away from home. The sensations provided are really amazing; it brings masturbation much closer to the feeling of real penetration. And since the sensations are so real it is ideal for practicing orgasm control; and when you do go for it, it does provide amazing sensations during orgasm also.

    We talked about getting a Fleshlight for some time. We were a bit skeptical at first, but in the end she figured her vibrators are "male substitute" toys, so why not try a "female substitute" toy for me. What eventually pushed us to purchase it was a reference to couples use of FL in a great book titled Mastering Multiple Position Sex by Eric Garrison. There is a chapter about couples using sex toys in front of each other, and with/on each other.

    It was totally worth checking out. I have read that the newer models give different sensations. We are really pleased with the basic model and have had such great experiences will probably branch out to another model at some point. It is a bit awkward looking, bulky, ugly, etc... but totally worth getting one. If you guys have an open mind about these things you and your wife will have a great time together using it.