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When you feel a session is over and a dud, are you always right?
  • MyTurn
    Posts: 447
    Hi,

    I would love to explain in detail, but I don't have much time.

    In sessions, sometimes, even 20 minutes in, after a slight arousal and a few vague nice sensations with the Aneros in, lately, it seems that I know when a session is OVER. When pleasure will not increase.

    A few months ago, this would happen after say, an hour, and a lot of involuntary contractions. I thought I was on the path to getting somewhere with this Aneros, finally. Then I had a wet dream, and had to build back up arousal over a few weeks. Since then, my sessions have all been duds.

    Have you ever had a session that felt like a dud, but you stuck with it, and it became "successful"?
  • Red_Man
    Posts: 36
    My answer would be definitely yes! Unless there is an obstacle that you can't overcome such as time restraints, soreness, etc. I think it is always possible to regroup and start anew. For me, I try to self evaluate the reason for non-success and if I have a pretty good idea and firmly believe that I can overcome the obstacle, I will try. If not, I go ahead a bail for another session later on. Just my two cents...
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Whether you believe you can do a thing or not, you are right.
    Henry Ford

    Hi MyTurn, :)

    Sessions have gone both ways for me in these circumstances you are talking about. It just depends. I don't know if what the causes it to go one way or the other is any more than our beliefs, or if there is something more to it. I guess it just depends if you have the time, motivation, and energy to keep trying or not.

    Love_is
  • tokertoker
    Posts: 128
    when i feel a session is not going to work it wont your body probably is not up for it even if you are i just beat off and clean up and go to sleep
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    I can usually tell within a few minutes if a session is going anywhere. I have never had a dud session turn into anything. If I don't feel the session is going to be good, I usually end early unless I have the luxury of free time, then I would enjoy the session for whatever it was
  • ArcticWolvesArcticWolves
    Posts: 286
    To be honest, maybe you are not giving yourself enough time and giving up to pre-maturely. You have mentioned you have gotten contractions and involuntaries and that is great progress. Do NOT ever stop during these. Your body needs to experience these waves.

    These waves you are feeling are similar to that of a female building up to her orgasm in waves. These waves will come and go. Love them for what the are and nothing more.

    One hour of this stage is not uncommon. Call me crazy but I have gone passed 2 even 3 hours in my sessions sometimes at the beginning when I was inexperienced and had my most success by not giving up to soon. You are almost there and oh so close. Do not deprive your body from this magnificent pleasure. Keep going and do not throw in the towel just yet. ;)
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    Back to your wet dreams... Think of your wet dreams as getting rid of the excess sperm you create and hold. Think of yourself as a cum bucket and you have so much cum your body just gets rid of the overflow. This does not necessarily mean you are empty, unaroused, and therefore have nothing to work with. No think of it as I have so much sperm in my body that it has no idea what to do with all of it.

    The wet dream does not need to be a thing to hold you back into thinking you cannot play with your aneros or have to build back up arousal again. You do not need to build back up arousal for a week (that takes a lot of will-power lol); just get in and have a session. It will all build up its own pleasure for you.

    You are only half empty there is much more sperm and arousal in there than you think. No need to be on full again. Half glass is fine. :P :D You are letting the idea of losing sperm through a wet dream hinder you in thinking you have to build up what was lost and you need not worry about this. You are a guy with lots of testosterone. You will always be aroused and turned on given the right stimulus. If you can accept this simple thing and get in the right mindset you will feel ready for aneros sessions (perhaps daily lol). Resist this and you will be fighting with yourself. The aneros is all about "mind tricks." This is one of them. Overcome this barrier first and get ready for the next barrier or challenge it throws at you next.

    Good Luck!