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Semi-noob here, could use some advice
  • logiklogik
    Posts: 11
    Hey guys...I've been using my aneros every week a couple times for the past 3 or 4 months in conjunction with the Hypnerossession and while the sensations i get are AMAZING...the problem I have is the urge to just rub one out in the middle of my sessions and of course...this is counter productive...every time I use my aneros I get around 35-50 minutes into the cds and while playing with myself (nipples, balls, inner thighs, ass) I inadvertently rub my penis and even the slightest touch to my penis after 40 minutes of session time makes me explode with lust and I cant control myself and just finish it off either with my fleshlight or with my hand...Of course this ALSO feels amazing as the aneros is still in my ass against my prostate...

    Now my question is do you guys have any tips so I can avoid this? Besides the obvious just dont touch yourself...but thats harder said that done...no pun intended...I am thinking of ordering a set of Supple Nipps for myself so I can try to go totally hands free and see if that helps...I've read a few posts about them here and they seem to be a solid choice...I guess its basically self control...but if there is any advice I can get at all about what I can do I would greatly appreciate it...Thanks in advance!

    EDIT: I'm not looking for an answer to make me Super-O...I know that will only come with time and patience...but any advice that helps me get there is also appreciated :)
  • VoyagerVoyager
    Posts: 200
    Hi logik.
    Yes I sometimes find myself in that situation.
    Your old friend is crying out to be touched.
    It can be a very intense feeling.

    Somebody wrote about putting a hairband around
    their penis and sac.
    Some gentle pressure would fool the system.
    I have not tried it but I think I will.
    I will have a look for the hairband post and repost it when I have time.

    Perhaps putting your parts into a sock might have the same effect.
    Many things to try, so little time.
    Enjoy
  • [QUOTE=logik;88000]Hey guys...I've been using my aneros every week a couple times for the past 3 or 4 months in conjunction with the Hypnerossession and while the sensations i get are AMAZING...the problem I have is the urge to just rub one out in the middle of my sessions and of course...this is counter productive...every time I use my aneros I get around 35-50 minutes into the cds and while playing with myself (nipples, balls, inner thighs, ass) I inadvertently rub my penis and even the slightest touch to my penis after 40 minutes of session time makes me explode with lust and I cant control myself and just finish it off either with my fleshlight or with my hand...Of course this ALSO feels amazing as the aneros is still in my ass against my prostate...

    Now my question is do you guys have any tips so I can avoid this? Besides the obvious just dont touch yourself...but thats harder said that done...no pun intended...I am thinking of ordering a set of Supple Nipps for myself so I can try to go totally hands free and see if that helps...I've read a few posts about them here and they seem to be a solid choice...I guess its basically self control...but if there is any advice I can get at all about what I can do I would greatly appreciate it...Thanks in advance!

    EDIT: I'm not looking for an answer to make me Super-O...I know that will only come with time and patience...but any advice that helps me get there is also appreciated :)

    I always put on boxing gloves during my sessions so I can't even if I wanted to. Go visit the local sporting goods store and get a pair.
  • impimp
    Posts: 72
    Dude,

    Wear a CHASTITY BELT ! :rolleyes:
  • logiklogik
    Posts: 11
    [QUOTE=Voyager;88002]Hi logik.
    Yes I sometimes find myself in that situation.
    Your old friend is crying out to be touched.
    It can be a very intense feeling.

    Somebody wrote about putting a hairband around
    their penis and sac.
    Some gentle pressure would fool the system.
    I have not tried it but I think I will.
    I will have a look for the hairband post and repost it when I have time.

    Perhaps putting your parts into a sock might have the same effect.
    Many things to try, so little time.
    Enjoy

    I was thinking about that actually...I have some hairbands that one of my friends left here...might try what you suggested...Hopefully its not to tight heh...

    [QUOTE=healthyprostate;88003]I always put on boxing gloves during my sessions so I can't even if I wanted to. Go visit the local sporting goods store and get a pair.

    LOL thats quite a suggestion...Unfortunately I dont exactly have the money to spend on boxing gloves...Maybe I'll try putting some socks on my hands...at least that way I cant grab my cock...

    [QUOTE=imp;88007]Dude,

    Wear a CHASTITY BELT ! :rolleyes:

    Hah! Like I said above...I dont really have the money to go buying all sorts of stuff...Was hoping for advice more along the lines of positions and such...Keep the suggestions coming though guys! I appreciate it a lot!
  • VoyagerVoyager
    Posts: 200
    I had a look in the wife's make up station but there was no hairband to be seen.
    Instead I looked in my sock drawer.
    The sock works !
    It deadens the feeling of your penis or ball's touching yourself or the bed covers.
    Things were starting to get interesting then there was an unexpected
    phone call and I had to abort the session and go out.
    I will try the sock technique again on my next attempt that is for sure.
    Anyone else.

    I know AW uses socks but only in pairs but that is another story.
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello logik, :)

    I find for myself, that the will power to not touch your penis, and/or ejaculate during an Aneros session comes with time, practice, and experience. There's a certain mind set of understanding that you are forgoing the ejaculation to try and find a higher and longer lasting state of pleasure through the super-O and everything leading up to it. Also, I find erections are much more likely to occur if I am tensing and not deep breathing. So once I consciously recognize what my body state is in, I relax again, take deep breathes, and it usually goes away. There is sort of a progression of understanding and experience steps that seem to occur in this journey. As prior to, and in the beginning of my Aneros journey, I wouldn't have believed it was possible for me to not masturbate daily. Now I typically go one, two, or three week ejaculation abstinence routines with little effort or frustration. Your mileage may vary though. :D

    Love_is
  • rookrook
    Posts: 1,603
    Assume a pretzel posture:

    -- Left hand does a male deer exercise -- 80 circles in each direction. (Doubling up to two sets is OK.)

    -- Right hand is for left nipple. Don't leave it unattended.

    -- Tongue works the roof of the mouth.

    -- Right toenail stims the left arch.

    Breathe and focus each of those actions toward your prostate.

    Cheers ... rook

    P.S. If I were motivated to JO, boxing gloves wouldn't help unless lined with sandpaper!!
  • logiklogik
    Posts: 11
    Thanks for the advice guys! I've been really busy for the last 5 weeks or so and as such havent been able to use my aneros...but I am going to have a session tonight! :) I'll try out the deer exercise/posture that rook mentioned and hope for the best! :) And yes rook...if i want to cum...i dont think there is anything that can stop me short of tying my hands down
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672

    And yes rook...if i want to cum...i dont think there is anything that can stop me short of tying my hands down

    Hold a cheese grater in each hand? Ouch! LOL