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  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    one of the first signs of my rewiring was the awarness of my nipples. Prior to using the aneros, I didn't pay much attention to my nipples. The aneros changed all that and I became aware of what a hot spot they were for me. Every session involves continous nipple play.
    After a year or so, the pleasure from my nipples seemed to die down some. I would still get pleasure from stroking them, but it didn't seem to be as intense as it was when I first started. Now it has been over two years and suddenly my nips are back with a vengance. So much so, that if my wife gives them a tweaking when we are having sex, I will loose all control and usually ejaculate within 30 seconds or so. It's almost unfair, at a time when I am trying to control my ejaculations, I have no control when she does that.
    Do you think this is a sign of continued rewiring? I feel that could be the one thing to finally push me over the edge into the land of super O
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello thhn, :)

    I have no idea if this is a sign. But one observation I can share with you is that I have noticed that much like pleasure sensations in Aneros sessions vary and go up and down during various times. I've found my nipple sensitivity to also vary over time. I've had similar lulls in nipple sensitivity, only with it to return to high intensity again later on.

    Looks like you'll have to save nipple play for only fore play when having sex with your wife. That's cool though that it excites you enough that you are able to ejaculate so quickly. Now if you can only apply that excitement to Aneros sessions...

    Love_is
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    although I use the aneros while having sex with my wife, it has never been really just about the aneros. While her finger massage may bring me much pleasure, I have never been close to orgasm from that. I get much closer with the aneros.
    My plan is to have an aneros session with my wife doing the stroking and nipple play. I am going to talk her though exactly what I want and not make the aneros about intercourse together but just about me having a session.
    I can stroke my nipples and bring myself much pleasure, but nothing in comparison to when my wife does it to me. I guess it would be like tickeling yourself.... much more effective if someone else does it. I'm very anxious to give this a whirl
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    thnn,

    I have long been a proponent of nipple stimulation with and without the Aneros (my oldest threads have references to it). Nipple play is new to many men and some find that they must "awaken" themselves in this regard before they can perceive pleasure from it. Clearly you have done so. I would strongly encourage you to incorporate it into your Aneros sessions, it may indeed be a factor in pushing you over the top. Nipple stimulation can be extremely arousing if one is sensitive to it. In my own case I'm able to have Super O's at will from nipple stimulation alone. For me, the sensation registers not only on my chest but in my prostate as well.

    Seeing as your wife is with the program, ask her if she'd be up to stimulating your nipples orally. As you pointed out, there is often something more intense about having this provided by a partner. Part of it is that it creates an element of unpredictability...where you're not sure of what's coming next. Secondly, it allows you to focus on the sensation alone without any concern to the task of stimulating. Be certain to tell her to vary the stroke of her tongue over time. Nipples respond best to dynamic stimulation. Static (unchanging) stimulation can actually produce de-sensitization. Remember, sucking and nibbling can be a part of this as well. If your wife is a sensitive and perceptive partner she should follow your lead, for instance, as your arousal peaks she will want to upgrade the intensity of the stimulation, i.e quicker tongue or more nibbling.

    Cheers,

    BF Mayfield
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    for me there is a direct line from the nipples to the prostrate. one flick and it's as I am flicking my prostrate, not my nipples. nipple play will generally bring on a hard on, which does not happen much just from the aneros..... I know, that part doesn't matter.
    would you suggest holding off on nipple stimulation until things are really rocking and rolling with the aneros...ie: saving it for the heat of the moment, or would you suggest using nipple play to get the ball rolling? I know with the hypn session, nipple play is not introduced until well into the session.
  • atm853
    Posts: 51
    I have to agree with you thhn, there is definitely a direct link with the prostate and the nipples, I just created a post on here and I believe to have had my first super O thanks to the nipples and relaxation.

    I strongly agree that you just go with whatever turns you on the most, if you feel like your body wants more nipple, do it and vise versa. I hope you enjoy your yourself. P.s I personally find it best to use the back of the nail as it glides over my shirt, its so soft and really sends quivers down there :D