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The Law Of Attraction & Aneros
  • Nat
    Posts: 90
    Because I have been dealing with a lot of stressful situations lately, I have began to educate myself on the ways of our thought process, and how through simple meditation (as in just a a few minutes a day), we can begin to channel the things that we want. While I have seen only simple results so far, I am confident that this form of motivation will lead to big things. I am in the process of creating my own "I Want" bible, and am confident that those things I list will come my way.

    For those of you who arent familiar, the law of attraction states that if you think something is going to happen, or should happen, that you will get that result. Researchers in this area claim that your thoughts are that of a magnet, and that the universe shifts in returning to you the thoughts that you put out.

    Not to bore you guys with how this is going to relate to my life, I started to apply this process to Aneros use. At this point, I have only applied it for a few sessions. However, it has lead me to interesting results. So I figured, why not.. I should share my new approach and results.

    First, I started to tell myself that I will feel as much sexual pleasure as I can, because I want to feel it. That these sensations will come my way because I want them to, and that only great things will happen to me. In this thought process, I would go and insert my selected model (in each session so far, it has been the Peridise). Then I would go and watch a bit of porn. In the past, watching porn has given me the ability to be sexually aroused. However, in these situations, it instead made me feel more relaxed and open. After about 15 minutes of this (and some touching), I moved to my bed for the actual session. In the past, as well as here, I dont have sessions longer than an hour. And because I worry about relaxing, I almost always keep my eyes closed. These sessions were no different. However, I felt as though I became fully relaxed in just a few minutes.

    While in the session, I literally feel that I am rejecting the things the others have told me about Aneros. Other users have told me that I should focus on sexual images, when I do none of that. I have been told to just let things happen, and not to force the idea of "I will" for that session. But here I would close my eyes clear my mind and only think of a few select things. These things include the following :

    - Think that I will have as much sexual pleasure as my body will allow. I focus on thinking that while I might not have an O, that this will in one form or another my best session yet.

    - I allow for myself to feel the sensations that come my way, find a way to evaluate those sensations to other feelings, and let them flow through me. Even if I dont think a feeling is pleasurable, I think as though it is, so that I try to find some quality in it that I like.

    - As I feel fit, I do light and heavy contractions. I hold those contraction enough to try to get consistent sensations. And have consistent deep breathing.


    Now.. here are my interesting results...


    The most noticeable sensation is a tickling sensation, that feels more like your skin going numb. This isnt a full body thing, or even part of your body. Instead, its little pulses throughout your body. For example, in my session last night, I had it a lot in my left arm, my lower stomach, and my knees. As the session got longer, I felt it in my chin, lips, and nose. While this isnt pleasurable, its enjoyable in some forms. Of everything that I have felt in my sessions over the last years, this was the most consistent. I think it helped keep me more focused, rather than providing pleasure. In each of these sessions there was even a common theme. While breathing, the more I did so, the more I can feel the simple motions in my stomach expanding. I would feel these motions as I would breath in, then as I would breath out I would get that same ticklish numb feeling, but as a circle sorrounding my belly button. The best way to explain it is, as I fully exhale, this sensation presses down on that area.

    These sensations have even come to me a bit in my sleep, without an Aneros inserted. This is leading me to believe that throughout the last few days, regardless of my daily sessions before bed and ejaculations, that my sexual arousal is staying at a higher level than usual. Interesting enough, I had a moment in my session last night, where this ticklish feel tightened up my whole body, while also providing a heavy rubbing movement in my ass. This intense pleasure only lasted about 5 seconds, but is the most pleasurable feeling I have had since the beginning of my Aneros use. This rubbing feeling inside my ass would return in very light sensations, but never would build.

    Interestingly enough, I would go through these sessions with pleasure, but not want to ejaculate. Sure, I did have wants to touch my penis (and I did), but it wasnt until the end of the session, when I fully want myself to ejaculate, in which I did. But what amazed me most was, unlike usual, I was able to switch positions and open my eyes without losing focus or sensations. Towards the end of my sessions, I even started to feel a stinging in my penis head. A sensation that continued even minutes after ejaculation.

    This all has lead to a lot of great progess in a very short period of time, and I think a different approach to Aneros.

    Any thoughts?
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Nat, :)

    I've often wondered about this approach. And have experimented with it here and there. But not often or regularly enough to likely see any results. I personally like the idea, but I suspect that there are some here who might think that it conflicts with having no expectations of the session. There is something that feels right to me about the idea of allowing yourself to experience as much pleasure as possible from the Aneros session. But I think the trick for people is to be able to do it and still be detached from expectations.

    Love_is
  • artformartform
    Posts: 1,488
    Hi Nat and Love_is!!

    Everything you report in your results is great Nat and excellent signs that you are on a productive track. I am so happy for you.

    Your experience and shift to a positive, relaxed, affirmative, attitude Nat is key to being open to what your body/mind will do, and is the necessary balance/complement to the No Expectations, as in so specific expectations, while welcoming whatever appears as you anticipate generally the best in feelings, sexual and otherwise from this practice.

    IMHO, you are feeling the pulsations of your mitochondria in groupings in various parts of your body, as they are rehearsing the synchronized pulsating resoNATing energies building for all kinds of orgasmic possibilities to come. IMHO also, you may observe a gradual decline in the need to masturbate at the end of your sessions as your rewiring progresses as it is doing now! All of this triggered by your prostate with those early delights in your ass. Then it becomes your choice, rather than a need.

    Excellent results from an excellent development of the appropriate method for you Nat, and as Love-is indicates, so well described and generously shared for others' benefit here too Nat. Thank you and more congratulations!!!

    relax again every time and carry on with joy and pride

    artform
  • Nat
    Posts: 90
    [QUOTE=Love_is;85440]Hello Nat, :)

    I've often wondered about this approach. And have experimented with it here and there. But not often or regularly enough to likely see any results. I personally like the idea, but I suspect that there are some here who might think that it conflicts with having no expectations of the session. There is something that feels right to me about the idea of allowing yourself to experience as much pleasure as possible from the Aneros session. But I think the trick for people is to be able to do it and still be detached from expectations.

    Love_is

    Thats what I found different about this approach. While I know in Rumels recording. the voice states that that particular session is going to be one of the best yet, I have always figured that you are not supposed to hype yourself up during a session. But what is more conflicting is, you are also in the process of allowing yourself to be more open to possibility. So I guess the question is, when does the thought of openness to a session cross over from your wants for a great session? Because my relaxing has been only a few minutes lately, Im not sure my body is having enough time to create a difference between the two.

    Maybe its just a simple blurp that I had, that will further my rewiring. Even though after over 2 years of consistent use, its hard for me to accept that Im still only rewiring. I think if I take a few days rest from Aneros, switch models, maybe Ill have a better idea. My Peridise session last night as well was consistent, except without that 5 second intense pleasure and the belly button pressure. This time, at one point I moved my hand up to my chest (I was on my back), touched my nipples, and put my hand back to my side. The second I put my hand back down, it got extremely numb, and felt as though it was 5 times its actual size

    Is there any point in advanced user sessions, that this numb feeling turns into intense pleasure?
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
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    Nat,

    Congratulations on turning another corner! You are seeing effects from your self 'rewiring'. You have made the most significant shift where it matters the most – In Your Mind! What you are now thinking is very much in line with what Buddha said hundreds of years ago - “All that we are is the result of what we have thought. The mind is everything. What we think, we become.”

    I am delighted to see your post filled with such positive attitude and affirmations. Gone are the complaints about the Aneros not providing any stimulation or your body not responding in a manner you may have expected it to. You are stating your willingness to be open to whatever sensations come your way regardless of the subtlety or intensity. This is a very powerful awareness you are beginning to build.

    Applying positive, affirmative thoughts to yourself is a powerful programming technique. Exercising your intent and desire is not the same as having expectations. If you go back and read the HypnAerosession subliminal messages thread you will see they are very much about exercising intent. Heightening your arousal is critical to success with your Aneros, intent and desire are critical components to creating arousal. I am not clear about your meaning for the term “hype”, nor do I see any conflict between being open to having a great session and wanting a great session. The problem many men have is their 'expectation' of having a great session, this is where frustration kicks in. The frustration may then lead to negative thoughts and the negative thoughts to further disappointments. "HypnAerosession" is intended to counteract some of that negativity and those expectations with which many users begin their journeys.

    I am pleased to see you making more progress, keep thinking the positive thoughts!
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Nat,

    I must also congratulate you Nat, you really have come a long way! This change in mindset WILL produce positive results for you (it seems as it has already). On the sensation of pressure in around your navel, this is a very good sign! As a matter of fact it is almost a signature event in my case. I might suggest that you focus on it next time around and see if you don't feel it intensifying, sinking deeper into your abdomen.....then into your rectum. You may even start to perceive an electric tickling sensation in your prostate and penis simultaneously thereafter, and then....

    Remember, stay affirmative but force nothing. Artform's reference about "resoNATing" reminds me of something that I posted several years ago where I likened the process of finding our own erotic resonance to producing tone from a brandy snifter. I'm sure that you've seen this trick before....where somebody rotates their finger tip over the lip of a piece of crystal? Too much or too little pressure and there is no tone at all. The amount of pressure required is unique to the individual. Finding your own resonance is a similar process, it is something that one must almost tune into. But rest assured that once you do, you'll be listening to the music of the spheres!

    Stay with it!

    BF Mayfield
  • dtmsmith
    Posts: 219
    Perhaps this is not directly related, but I'll add the comment anyways...
    In my recent Aneros and Aneros-less sessions, I have been able to start p-waves within a minute or two of getting settled. It "feels" to me like I am "putting" the feelings there with my mind. It's almost as if I think that they will happen and they do. I've been wondering...
    -Have I just figured out how to use my mind to control some part of my anatomy to create these feelings?
    -Or, am I just convincing myself that the feelings will happen and then, because of this, they do?

    Whatever it is, it does work.

    And then, every time I do this, I can't help but wonder if I could have done it if I had never put an Aneros up my butt :-). I'm sure the answer is no but it still amazes me that this piece of plastic has caused such a dramatic change in how my body works.
  • Nat
    Posts: 90
    Well dtmsmith... maybe its best that we dont go there. Imagine the orgasms we would received just on the thought of knowing we can create Super Os by just wanting to have them. lol


    I was reading more material today, and it turns out Rumel is right with his point on expectations. Maybe there is a "good" side to expectations when it comes to Aneros. The reading states "desire connects you with the thing desired, and expectation draws it into your life". So, maybe its safe to say that I wanted to have a pleasurable session (the desire), which created expectation, and it happened.

    Interesting.. Im not really into tricking myself into thinking something is good when its not. But this is an interesting subject to explore.
  • Hi, Nat. I concur with rumel et.al., that this is a huge forward step for you. So congratulations and keep your positive vibes going.

    Seeing as how rumel had channeled Buddha, I'll amplify his (rumel's) comments regarding expectations, and throw in my favorite crossover bit from the concepts of Zen masters over the centuries.

    The aim of Zen practice is to discover the Buddha-nature within each person, through meditation and mindfulness of daily experiences. The Zen practitioner is encouraged to search within himself for answers and introspective growth leading to enlightenment.

    Consistent with this practice is the "art" if you will, of allowing positive energies ALREADY PRESENT within us to bloom, to manifest themselves. The ZEN of the stone sculptor is to visualize the form of the finished work within a block of stone and then to set it free from the extraneous material surrounding it. The "form" of the finished work is already there, and the sculptors art enables him/her to allow it to manifest so that all can see it.

    Many here have expressed "don't have any expectations" when using your Aneros. I'm not sure this is universally true (not that there are ANY universal truths in our little world) because at this point in my journey, I do expect success, every time. And usually, my sessions are terrific. Perhaps, in the case of a real newbie, discouraging high expectations is good. But in your case, clearly, as a guy with lots and lots of experience, understanding the ZEN view of expectation I think it would be a huge help to you to realize continued progress on your journey. All your future Super O's are already within you, all you have to do is get to the point, wherever/whenever, that they may manifest themselves.

    I really believe this, Nat, and your current mental exercise falls directly in line with it. I think this comes with a built it caution, however, and that is to not let neither the expectations nor the Zen fundamentals DOMINATE your thinking, but yet let it be active in your subconscious mind. Is that a contradiction? I think not.

    Submitting positive ideas, values or desires to your subconscious is a whole new topic, and one that should be explored in greater detail perhaps in a different thread, but I truly believe, Nat, that you're already there, so I submit that if you'll add this ZEN concept to your thinking, and install this experience-enhancing concept that all the capability you desire not only already within you, but absolutely within your reach, you WILL advance.

    You go, man. I'm sending you significant energy, Nat, and I encourage others of you out there who believe in the transfer of positive energy to other "believers" do the same. I know artform and chuckjo will gladly join me, as well.

    C
  • Nat
    Posts: 90
    I have had 2 more interesting sessions using this theory. Both sticking with the Peridise.

    The first started out with similar results to the other. However, after awhile I had the feeling in the back of my mind that something big was coming. While nothing ever did, I started get to p waves, which would very slightly gain intensity. After awhile, I opened my eyes and saw all these white sparkles on the ceiling. I think my problem then was that I focused too much, because my brain was telling me that these sparkles were about to make a picture. After a few minutes, they didnt. My p waves stopped, however I had the most intense ejaculations that I have ever had.

    The second was last night. Same as usual, but now I started to play with my nipples a bit more. This usually brings pleasure, but this time it was more intense. I started to just quickly glaze my finger tips over the nipples, and after a few seconds grab, pull, and then release. About 2 or 3 seconds after release, I would get a tightening throughout my body, that would only last a few seconds. I tried this for a few minutes, but the sensations didnt build. Im wondering if over time this could lead to something else.
  • Nat
    Posts: 90
    I figured to add another aspect to this post. Maybe its all more parts to the wiring process, but it got me thinking.

    In the last few sessions I have had better results. However, I have my session, ejaculate, and then go to sleep. While I dont have Aneros like sensations afterwards, it seems that I get a lot of anal thumping, and a slight bit of twitching, but without the pleasure sensations. Last night I had it to the extreme. I tried going to sleep, but couldnt. And when I finally did, I was awakened by a jolt through my body, just as I would have in a session. Again.. the thumping continued, and went back to sleep. I woke up again at about 5am, with this strong erge to want to ejaculate. I did, went to bed and that was that.

    I have had this thumping and such afterwards, in the past 2 or 3 sessions. This is now the second time I have gotten up to ejaculate in the middle of the night. I know there is nothing wrong with this, but it got me thinking about the effects that Aneros might have. Aneros works possibility in keeping an active prostate, some have said that Peridise helps with hemmeroids. But now my question is.. Are these sensations and sexual energy a result from an individual session, or from overall Aneros use? Is it possible (even more so since we have a lot of much older members) that Aneros helps heighten your overall sex drive?
  • Love_isLove_is
    Posts: 1,672
    Hello Nat, :)

    I'll have a go at your questions. Keep in mind I have yet to experience super-O's, but do have pleasurable Aneros sessions.

    Are these sensations and sexual energy a result from an individual session, or from overall Aneros use?

    I suspect from overall Aneros usage. As I've found that the longer I discontinue Aneros use, the less of these sensations and sexual energy occur. And vice-versa.

    Is it possible (even more so since we have a lot of much older members) that Aneros helps heighten your overall sex drive?

    I also suspect this to be the case. In my own experience throughout my Aneros journey I've learned to a finer degree what sort of imaging and fantasizing arouses me. As these Aneros sessions seem to really require a guy to find a way to get aroused within the session. And also I have become more comfortable with those things. Like they are not taboo. Just exciting! That's my two cents. :)

    Love_is
  • enigma
    Posts: 90
    Nat,

    I definitely have a higher sex drive with Aneros use, I'm 59, and would say my wife and I are having the best sex in 32 years of marriage.
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    Nat:
    I really didn't think about that fact, but would have to agree that aneros use does increase sex drive. I have been a user for two years, and looking back I can plainly see that this would be about the same time my intrest in sex took a big step forward, at a time in my life when it would probably go the other way. (I'm 55)
    Not just an intrest in sex in general, but an intrest in quality sex that has little to do with ejaculation. I've been married for 30 years and would have to say that our sex life is the best it has ever been.
  • Billy11
    Posts: 280
    [QUOTE=dtmsmith;85483]
    In my recent Aneros and Aneros-less sessions, I have been able to start p-waves within a minute or two of getting settled. It "feels" to me like I am "putting" the feelings there with my mind. It's almost as if I think that they will happen and they do. I've been wondering...
    -Have I just figured out how to use my mind to control some part of my anatomy to create these feelings?
    -Or, am I just convincing myself that the feelings will happen and then, because of this, they do?

    And then, every time I do this, I can't help but wonder if I could have done it if I had never put an Aneros up my butt :-). I'm sure the answer is no but it still amazes me that this piece of plastic has caused such a dramatic change in how my body works.

    I believe a part of it is an energetic awakening. The aneros helps one to become aware of these energies thus giving you the ability to feel this energy even without the aneros. With meditation/ aneroless sessions, you can learn to manipulate this energy and have some form of control over it. So basically you've learned body and energy awareness.
    I think if you had learned how to work with body awareness before ever using an aneros that you could had learned how to experience what you now experience in your aneroless sessions.
    Truth is most people could give a crap about mediation and body awareness and things. People are more fixated on sexual pleasure. But the aneros kind of gives you both. Sexual pleasure through body awareness. So it's pretty sweet that a sexual device such as the aneros is converting people from just thinking of ways to pleasure themselves to a deeper level of body awareness which in turn brings a deeper level of sexual pleasure.
  • Billy11
    Posts: 280
    [QUOTE=Nat;85487]Well dtmsmith... maybe its best that we dont go there. Imagine the orgasms we would received just on the thought of knowing we can create Super Os by just wanting to have them. lol


    May sound funny to you now but what dtmsmith is saying isn't really unattainable. The aneros is just training wheels. Once you learn how to mentally conjure up your sexual energies and control them and mentally induce your MMO's, you'll see the aneros as what it is. A learning device.
    Don't get me wrong though. Nothing wrong with still using an aneros even after you've learned to achieve MMO's without it. After all. They were originally developed for prostate health. Plus just like tugging one out, it's fun to use a foreign device every now and then.