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  • mrbater
    Posts: 43
    Hello again
    I hoped I might be able to ask another couple of questions similar to a post of mine yesterday. If its poor form to post twice on a similar subject please forgive me but I obviously didn’t make my questions precise enough and I would love the benefit of experienced users.
    Firstly, I have only had the opportunity to use my MGX on 3 or 4 occasions so far without much result but yesterday I had my very first orgasm while sitting in front of my computer. I had been checking out some porn on the web for about 15 minutes before insertion and was in a moderate state of arousal.

    1) The whole experience was terrific with a slower build up to orgasm than regular masturbation. Even though it was quite intense, the whole experience probably only took 5 or 6 minutes from start to finish.
    2) When I inserted the MGX I felt what seemed like a much stronger contact with my prostate than usual and a much more intense sensation. This feeling was accompanied by what seemed to be a need to urinate but when I tried to urinate, I wasn’t able to do so. Is it usual to feel the need to urinate or is this a sensation created by prostate stimulation?
    3) Is it possible that the increased sensation was caused by a full bladder pushing my prostate into a position that more easily came into contact with my MGX? I ask this because I have NEVER experienced prostate stimulation and the level of pleasure like that before.
    4) When I returned to my computer and sat down, I almost instinctively felt the need to rock on the chair to increase stimulation. After doing so I immediately felt pleasure centered in my anus and groin. The pleasure continued to grow until I finally reached orgasm. I DID EJACULATE what I think was a small amount of semen however. Can an ejaculatory orgasm be part if rewiring?

    I ask these questions because maybe I need to wait until I need to urinate to have my next Aneros session. I can’t tell if my need to pee was real or the result of stimulation.

    I would really appreciate some feedback here if possible.
    Thanks
    MB
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hello again mrbater!

    No problem!

    With only 3 or 4 sessions, you are ahead of the curve!

    1. From your last post, I thought it was a totally dry orgasm; I have had similar orgasms, where I had a longer than normal orgasm and sometimes
    there's a mixture of a little cum and some pre-cum! (making it thinner in consistency) The term "Hybrid Orgasm" is currently being used for this.

    2. It sounds like your body was already waiting for the Aneros and an orgasm and when you inserted, it just took off!
    (I have even had a Super-O, where I inserted and immediately started orgasming!)

    3. Also, it is very common to have the feeling of impending urination, when starting an Aneros session. Also, the bladder IS in fairly close proximity to the prostate . . .
    I don't worry about it and haven't pissed myself yet??? LOL! (IMHO, don't do anything, unless you are actually starting to pee and keep a couple
    of towels under you.) Don't sweat the small stuff!

    4. I definitely think this is part of your re-wiring process! I wouldn't wait for a full bladder at all, I would try 2 or 3 sessions a week,
    if possible and just kick-back and breathe!

    You are on the path to a "totally" dry orgasm and they will probably be multiple orgasms, too!

    Later, Hlaser99
  • mrbater
    Posts: 43
    Hello Hlaser99
    Thank you for taking the time to reply to me again.

    I understand completely your reply and I'm excited by the consequences of my chair experience.
    I was so enthralled by the experience, albeit fairly short, that it keeps occupying my mind. It seems about every 20 minutes or so I think of it and want to reproduce the pleasure with another session.

    I tried again the following day and while I experienced the same initial stages of pleasure I experienced the day before, they would subside (frustratingly) before the big event. This happened 3 or 4 times before I lost all self control and finished myself off manually (not nearly as intense). What I did notice though, when I began stroking my almost flacid penis, was the huge amount of seminal fluid that had been expelled from my cock. I was swimming in it. I have always had a propensity to early pre-cum but this was at a different level. Anyway, I'll just keep trying.

    You suggested I continue with 3 sessions a week but that could be difficult for me. Whilst I've been happily married for 38 years to a wonderful women in every way EXCEPT having an open mind of things sexual, I could never discuss my Aneros use with her. She's seems to have lost a lot of interest in lovemaking and we often go for months without sexual activity. Obviously I've kept on masturbating regularly and I suspect she does too but infrequently.

    I've considered inserting my MGX occasionally before going to bed without her knowing and seeing how it goes but I'm afraid that, if a Super O did occur she would be freaked by my contortions etc. I notice that B Mayfield doesn't reccomend using the Aneros while sleeping due to the small risk of internal injury but I always sleep on my back and never toss and turn for some reason. Do you think I could try this or would my fear of freaking my wife out with possible Super O contractions etc be a real possibility?

    Thanks so much again
    Mr Bater
  • BoPBoP
    Posts: 96
    Hey Mrbater.

    My opinion is that in order to start orgasming with aneros you need to be mentally ready as well as physically. Having any kind of fear is a bad idea when trying to relax. When orgasming with aneros you might want to move, moan, shake bend or do what ever to express the pleasure you are feeling, this makes it feel even better, for me at least. You can also have experience where you do not move at all. It depends.
    In my personal experience I only practice in 100% safe and positive environment, I suggest same to you.
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hey MB!

    Good point, BoP!

    I DO understand about your wife . . . as I was married to a woman for 24 years that very closed to sexual experimentation of any kind and had turned rather cold and distant
    and refused help for this condition! (I have been single again for over 10 years now, and enjoying my complete freedom!)

    Brian and I are both advocates of not sleeping with the Aneros inserted! Also, you would wake the next a.m. with anal drainage on the sheets . . . how do you explain this???

    If you DO decide to try this, I would put a folded towel inder you to catch the drips and I wouldn't actually sleep! I would relax and breathe and try not to be stressed by your SO???

    Are you sure that it is out of the question to have a heart to heart with her explaining that you want to keep your marriage in tact, but DO have sexual needs as a Man . . .

    Well, good luck with this part!

    Later, Hlaser99
  • mrbater
    Posts: 43
    Hello again Hlaser99
    Once again thanks for the benefit of your wisdom.
    Another question if I may.
    I decided to modify my MGX by removing the tail as per example A in the poll here.
    From memory you changed yours this way too.
    I removed the tail with snips and began sanding everything down to smooth out the rough edges and I have noticed what appears to be small air bubbles in the plastic.
    I keep sanding deeper but they still remain there. No matter how agressively I sand they remain. I'm at the point of being a bit concerned about removing any more and reducing the stability of the P-tab.
    I'm worried that the bubbles will house bacteria and could cause infection.
    Any ideas?
    Thanks again
    MrBater
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,254
    mrbater,

    The bubbles that you have discovered are mentioned in the WIKI – see http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Advanced_Skills#Head_and_Stem although no solution for resolving the problem is cited.
    The best solution I can suggest is using an epoxy adhesive/filler suitable for acetal plastic material, applied into the exposed voids and then sanded smooth. Since the portion of your massager you have done the modification to remains outside the body during use, there shouldn’t be any concern about contact/contamination of the epoxy material with internal bodily membranes. This filler should allow you to clean your toy normally.
  • mrbater
    Posts: 43
    Thanks Rumel
    Hmmm! I sort of hope that I might have done that.
    I used Supaglue to fill the bubbles. It's a bit rough but I intend to sand it down smooth as you said.
    I hope it works because I really don't want to fork out for another Aneros just yet.
    If anyone else has struck this problem and has a fix we'd all like to hear.
    Cheers
    MrBater
  • BoPBoP
    Posts: 96
    I have never done anything to aneros in terms of modifications but I would try heating up the tip a bit so it becomes soft or melts a little then you should be able to seal all the bobbles and polish it. I never did this, but would assume it should work, it's plastic. Decision is yours. Another solution is to find rubber or else to put over it.
  • Old WolfOld Wolf
    Posts: 114
    BoP said:

    ... but I would try heating up the tip a bit so it becomes soft or melts a little then you should be able to seal all the bobbles and polish it. I never did this, but would assume it should work, it's plastic. Decision is yours. Another solution is to find rubber or else to put over it.



    I would absolutely advise against this. The temperature at which plastic flows is very close to the temperature at which it ignites. At best you may destroy your Aneros, at worst you could get very, very seriously burnt. Think napalm...

    Old Wolf