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My Aneros experience and questions (help me get the Super-O)
  • Mr. BinksMr. Binks
    Posts: 5
    I've had the MGX model for about 5 months now. For the past few months, I have been experiencing the "involuntaries." Here's how a typical session goes:

    Almost immediately after insertion, the device will start moving in and out on its own (or at least pivoting, going deep than shallow). It does this very slowly. It seems to kind of "knick" my prostate, but never really settles right against it.

    This kind of stops on its own, and then I will experience any of a great variety of involuntary contractions. Sometimes the ring of my anus twitches. Other times I get smooth, rolling contractions up and down my rectum. These experiences are usually pleasurable, sometimes mildly and sometimes greatly, but never really result in anything I would call an orgasm.

    Recently, though, something new happened. The Aneros seemed to settle into a deeper place than normal, directly and fully against my prostate. Then I experienced some jerky contractions. It didn't seem to move much, it was just kind of jostled and vibrated by these contractions. It was immensely pleasurable, a hot burning ember of pleasure inside me, and eventually the contractions became ridiculously hard. It literally felt like someone was roughly fucking me with the device. I had a feeling like, "Whoa, something big is happening...something major is coming up" but then it just kind of stopped.

    The Aneros is a prostate stimulator, so I wonder why it so rarely seems to actually be substantially in contact with my prostate. Most of the situations described above, the various involuntaries, it will sometimes seem to rub against the prostate but it's hit or miss, and most of the time it just doesn't seem like it's deep enough to make contact.

    I do enjoy the Aneros; it's almost always pleasurable, and sometimes blissful. But I know I haven't experienced the Super-O yet.

    Any suggestions are welcome. I usually lie on my side, sometimes with a knee pulled to my chest, sometimes not. I don't get much happening on my back. I do my best to keep the perineum tab in the right spot (once I'm aroused I can tell where the spot is).
  • BoPBoP
    Posts: 96
    Hey Mr.Binks. I am new to the forum myself and only recently started getting orgasms out of it, but what you describe is that which many feel and with no surprise I felt same way. The way I look at getting that orgasm is to first of all get to know your body and feel completely comfortable with the idea of using the toy. Sometimes you think you are ok but reality is there is some uncomfortable feeling deep inside that you might not even notice until you start looking.
    Sit down and think, how do you feel about it, do you have any shame or guilt? try to change your way of looking at this. This is the mental side and I believe it plays a huge role.

    I suggested in my first post to explore your anus without aneros, prior to your session.
    here is the post:

    Your body is uniqe and there is no secret technique that will get you to orgasm, just try to enjoy yourself aneros is all about that.

    Hope this helps.
  • skeeter_gskeeter_g
    Posts: 240
    Hi Mr Binks Welcome!!

    It is a possible that the MGX just does not fit you body properly, you may need to try another model.

    It does sound like you are on the right track for an O according to the information in your latest session, but don't push the feeling once you get close, or you may actually push it away.

    Position is personal preference, and you will find what works best for you. I personally like being on my back, and almost always use that position.

    Do your best to relax, and don't let any other thoughts interfere except the pleasure you are feeling.
    It may help to fantasize about something also.

    Stay with it, it will come, it definitely sounds like you are getting close :)
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi Mr. Binks,

    Your quote:

    "Whoa, something big is happening...something major is coming up" but then it just kind of stopped.

    made me laugh out loud. If I had a dime for every time that thought went through my head, I would be a wealthy man indeed! And, what a mood killer! At least for me, when that thought popped in, the feelings almost always went away. The whole thing can be such a mind game. What I have learned is that when those thoughts pop up, I try to think about the fact that if nothing more intense than this happens, I will feel pretty good about this session. You relax and enjoy where you are and most certain something even more intense will creep in.

    Good luck and continue to have some fun.
  • Mr. BinksMr. Binks
    Posts: 5
    Well, I think I had one last night (Super-O).

    I did try warming up with a finger. I also used more lube than normal.

    Anyway, it didn't take too long. After about 10 minutes, the device suddenly moved deeper and seemingly very deliberately, positioned itself against my prostate. I started having some contractions, and had that thought, "Whoa, what's happening, this is big!" But I just let it go, I think out of apathy, ironically. I was like, OK, this is cool, but it's probably nothing special.

    Not long after the pleasure from my prostate started getting quite intense, causing me to gasp, verbalize, etc. Then it got almost overwhelming, and I felt the "ocean waves" I've seen described...A feeling of pleasurable coolness washing over my skin everywhere, every 5 seconds or so. My body was shaking some and I just let go. The contractions continued for probably two minutes, along with the waves. I just kept thinking, "God, this is wonderful, amazing, how long will it last? Don't stop!"

    It settled down a lot, but didn't really "stop". My prostate was ultra sensitive, and soon some more contractions started again. It was less intense the second time, my mind wasn't up in the stratosphere, but it was just as good in a way. I was clear-headed and just enjoyed the contractions, which seemed to continue for 5-10 minutes, extremely pleasurable.

    The Aneros is quite a special thing. ;)
  • BoPBoP
    Posts: 96
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Good for you Mr. Binks!