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  • GeistGeist
    Posts: 41
    I'm in a bit of a fix with regards to my sessions lately. Upon insertion of either the Helix or Progasm, I'm immediately being stimulated.This initial stimulation causes me to reflexively contract hard a number of times during the first few minutes of use.

    Trying to fight these reflexive contractions is nigh-impossible for me, and no matter how hard I try to avoid it, I can't!

    I'm sure this phenomenon is having a negative affect on my sessions -- the strong contractions are likely killing any subtle sensations and effectively shutting down and build-up.

    Once things settle down, my sessions are not particularly noteworthy, though still enjoyable. No orgasms. It's been this way for quite a while, and I'm just curious if this is something anyone else might have experienced.

    Maybe it's the lube (KY Jelly, glycerin effect?)? I'm at a bit of a loss as to how I can move on from this!
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hi Geist!

    Don't worry about it!

    Your body will settle down a little, when it gets used to the insertion of a foreign probe into it. I used to do the same thing! No problem, you are just excited about ALL the possibilities . . . This is a good thing!

    As I usually suggest: "Relax, breath and observe the process."

    Just notice the tiniest good feelings, these can be considered like fledgling orgasms waiting to build up enough strength to take flight!

    And when they do take flight, trust me, you WILL really like it!!!

    Relax and Enjoy the Journey, you are on the correct path!

    Later, Hlaser
  • GeistGeist
    Posts: 41
    Hey hlaser. The problem is that this sensation is relatively new... I've been at it for something like four months now, and only in the last few sessions have I started experiencing this. So, bearing this in mind, I don't think it's a case of the 'foreign object' syndrome

    It's like the Aneros is hitting all the right spots, but way too quickly? I can't relax, and these strong reflex contractions are induced, which I believe is kinda killing my sessions (and progress).

    I think it might be the lube... I wouldn't mind trying something new, and more benign (glycerin free would be nice), but can't seem to find anything.

    Oh well, back to fighting these reflexes. At least it's giving my self-control a workout.
  • I just use a water based lube - like that Glide brand, currently I am using something called Liquid Silk. Try clearing out with a douce a bit, and put a couple of droppers, or syringes of a good water based lube (not toot thin like water - but not too thick like a harder gel). Also lube the Aneros with the same stuff.

    These contractions may be part of the process...perhaps you should see where they take you. Give yourself time in your sessions. You may be really sensitive, but that may just make you enjoy it more as you get used to it later.
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,357
    i too have hard contractions when i get going. you seem to be equating this excitement with problems in your session. but maybe they aren't a problem, and you'll find your way out of this rut without having to correct it. so i say, let the contractions do their thing.