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Positive Peridise Playing
  • buttercup
    Posts: 44
    Just when I had decided to shelve the Peridise for awhile due to no results and hubby's upcoming surgery causing enough strain around here, the things go and start working for us, lol.

    Friday night I had no intention of doing anything sexual since Saturday night is usually our "Big Night", but I did put in a suppository (very unusual for me) because my hemmorhoids were bothering me; that got me to thinking about the medical applications of the Peridise and I finally decided that I might as well give it a go. I inserted the biggest one and did contractions for about 20 minutes to no avail, but since the head was nestled quite nicely just where I like the head of my hubby's penis to be I wondered what would happen if I came with it in, so I rolled onto my stomach and began masturbating. This is not my usual postion and it quickly became tiresome so I flipped onto my back and brought myself to a quick climax, again with no noticeable aid from the Peridise. However, when I was done and took my hand away my body decided that, nope, you aren't done yet, and the aftershocks continued for about another full minute, even though I wasn't touching myself nor could I feel any actual movement from the Peridise. It was pretty interesting.

    Saturday night I told hubby about my experience, but he's been having even more trouble than I have with hemmorhoids so I wasn't surprised when we made love without the Peridise; I was surprised though when he pulled them out just before I was about to go down on him. Something I'd read in another post had made me think that even though it seemed like we were using a lot of lube we actually weren't using enough, nor were we getting up high enough in him, so we adjusted how we did it and obviously that was what was needed because it sure did the trick! After taking him in my mouth for only a few seconds he suddenly became rigid and made sort of a gasp, then began making sounds I'd never heard him make before and moving around more than he usually does. I was afraid he would come too quickly so I backed off on the stimulation and tried some of the things I've read here-stroking the perineum where I know he likes it, rubbing the base of his penis at the top and between the penis and his balls-and his response to each was quite...enthusiastic. Then there was a short period where things seemed to calm down a bit so I took him back in my mouth and very quickly everything started up again, which got me so excited that I finished him off, although I did it by rhythmically squeezing the base of his penis way down low and lightly sucking the head, which normally would never have worked. There was waaaay more come than usual and his climax seemed to last longer than it usually does, and he said later that he actually was able to feel the Peridise moving in him for the first time (although not a lot).

    I know this isn't exactly the proscribed way to start out with Aneros products, but I was sure that if I could find a way (any way) to get these things to work hubby would enjoy them tremendously; the problem was that he had told me he wasn't going to explore using them without me and he seemed to have some inhibitions that we needed to overcome, so I didn't care HOW we succeeded at first just so long as we did it somehow. Now I'm looking forward to further explorations tonight and/or tomorrow before he has to go back to work. :D
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    buttercup,

    I am glad to hear that you are starting to feel some re-wiring effects yourself and that hubby is beginning to get some inkling of future tingling as well.
    You touched on an aspect of the re-wiring process that I believe is important for all new users. Namely to be mentally open to trying different approaches. You said “I know this isn't exactly the proscribed way to start out with Aneros products, but I was sure that if I could find a way (any way) to get these things to work hubby would enjoy them tremendously; the problem was that he had told me he wasn't going to explore using them without me and he seemed to have some inhibitions that we needed to overcome, so I didn't care HOW we succeeded at first just so long as we did it somehow. Now I'm looking forward to further explorations …”
    I think that is an excellent attitude to have. I believe it is very important that one not be constricted by pre-conceived notions of a particular protocol to be employed when you are learning to enjoy these new toys. I believe the printed directions should only be considered your starting point for the learning expedition. They are not a MapQuest printout for your journey.

    Thanks for the update on your journey.