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Can't seem to stop
    Posts: 70
    The dry orgasms are so addictive - they feel sooooo good. I can't stop and I am very sore internally. After a few days ago when I "broke through" and began having the dry Os I have been unable to stop. I ride the massager until I get sore and I have to get off. Thirty minutes later my prostate is begging for more and I have to get back on. My anal wall and my prostate are battling each other for who has priority. Damn..... I can't believe so many orgasms are possible. And they feel so good. I guess I am writing this for you guys that have not got there yet. It took me 1-1/2 years. Stay with it. You won't believe how it feels.

    I also think in order to give my anal wall a break I am going to have to have traditional orgasm but this will bring it all to a stop for a few days and I really don't want to. I am considering applying Lydocaine to the massager to numb the anal wall so I can get back on it. (Not really but the thought did cross my mind.)

    Damn. Who would have thought? Thank you Aneros.
  • skeeter_gskeeter_g
    Posts: 240
    Congratulations !!...It really is addictive for sure.... but, let your poor butt and prostate rest a bit :) The O's will be there when your butt and prostate are rested. Heck, you had the patients for 1 1/2 years, you can do it.

    if you continue you may make it worse, then you may have to take additional time off from the pleasure to let it all heal, it does not sound like you want to do that!

    If I were you, and it is only my opinion, I would give yourself a traditional orgasm like you mentioned.

    Personally, if I do not have a traditional orgasm after a few sessions, then my prostate drives me nuts wanting the pleasure, day and night. I think you will also find that you may recover faster now from a traditional orgasm once you have the ability to have dry O's. I know that is true for me.

    Much pleasure to you!! :D
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,335

    STOP!!!! do not cause yourself pain. this is delicate tissue. you will regret overdoing it.

    when you say "riding" are you putting pressure on the massager? if so, that is not good.

    one alternative to explore if you are sore: aneros-less mmo.

  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hi JIH,

    I am definitely with Darwin on this!

    I would try to come down off your sexual hornies (with a traditional ejac) and give it a rest for a while! Then, in the future, I would put a day in-between sessions, when possible, to let the tissues heal and it makes for a better session too . . .

    I would also look into some ointment or suppository that has healing properties and get those sore tissues healed! (also: "FIBER" - "Nothing worse than constipation with a sore ass! - OUCH!" LOL!)

    ALL this being said: CONGRATULATIONS on your big accomplishment and your long-awaited break-through!!!

    Enjoy your Journey!

    Later, Hlaser99
  • evil-zombieevil-zombie
    Posts: 172
    man ..i went bought 7 or 8 times in first four days ..give it a rest...its addicting yes...but moderate a lil
  • Big GuyBig Guy
    Posts: 22
    Yes, indeedy ;-). I've had my progasm for only a week and half, and I have to confess to have fallen prey to "convert zeal", myself :lol: . Apparently moderation is the key, (especially starting out :-)), and I'm taking a few days off to let things normalize, and recharge :-) . I was glad to see that I wasn't the only one to go a little overboard the first couple of weeks... here's to all the sore bottoms out there, and to a quick turn around, (so to speak... ;-))!
  • Every time I go 3-5 days continuous, I end up having to stop for awhile. My ass can get pretty sore, as it is right now. I think every other day might be something that is sustainable.
    Posts: 70
    I broke the handle off my Progasm. Notice I said handle. It used to be the K-Tab but I heated it and bent it up because it irritated me. It became a handle. It worked great for a while - a lot of dry Os. Well, thanks for the advice. I am going to take a day or two off. I need a new Progasm.