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Another question from a newbie
  • mrbater
    Posts: 43
    Hello again
    Well I finally got my MGX and I had a bit of a session on Friday night. I did get some strange sensations during the hour or so I had it in but nothing too intense. I enjoyed the feeling of it in place but I ended up finishing myself off manually.

    I don't get too much privacy at home usually but I will have a few days to myself soon when my wife is away. I want to use this time to really get to know my prostate and the Aneros.

    I found when I had the Aneros in the other night that I could move around freely with it in place. Even when I walked into the bathroom to remove it, it stayed completely in place. With so much flexibility of movement with the Aneros, has anyone out there tried actually sleeping with it in place? I thought it might be nice to wake during the night and simply begin the contractions. I also thought the complete relaxation of near sleep may actually help heighten the experience and bring on orgasm.

    I also found, maybe because I'm 62 years old, that my penis remained completely flacid throughought the entire experience. I was sexually stimulated but with a soft cock. When I masturbated at the end, my cock remained soft even when I ejaculated. Is that a by-product of the Aneros?

    Thanks again
    MrBater
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    mrbater,

    Many men have reported the same effect as you are experiencing, a flaccid penis during Aneros usage, myself included. To my knowledge no one has an explanation of why this happens in some men but not in others. With penile stimulation, erections do occur but sometimes not as firmly as without the Aneros. I guess it is just our individual differences. In either case, erect or flaccid, the state of the penis does not seem to have any effect on one's ability to receive pleasure or generate a Super-O experience, so there is no need to have concern about it in that regard. I have not noticed any difference (with the Aneros in or out) in my ability to get an erection with penile stimulation. I have not read any reports indicating any long term adverse effects to erectile function either. You also might want to read the "Rewiring" section in the WIKI - http://wiki.malegspot.com/index.php?title=Understanding_Your_Body .
    As regards to using your Aneros while sleeping, I agree with the manufacturer’s recommendation that you NOT sleep with it in, especially if you tend to toss and turn much, as you could injure yourself by the device getting twisted or torqued during a sudden move or perhaps caught on the bed sheet. That would definitely not be fun and Aneros use is supposed to be a fun and pleasurable experience.
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi mrbater,

    I agree with rumel on the sleeping question. I have tried it and if anything it desenitized the area down there and I had no interest in having a session when I woke up.

    The erection question is always a good one. It has been discussed many times in the forum and I am one of the ones that seldom gets an erection during a session. I have also had the experience of ejaculating with a flaccid penis as well. That one almost freaked me out. If anything that alone will show you that this experience is so non-penis centered.
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hi mrbater, Buster and Rumel!

    Buster and Rumel gave you the straight scoop here!

    I don't have an erection after inserting the Aneros, either! And I have always thought, it must be like you are turning the prostate on and the penis off???

    Maybe this is because of either one or the other hogging the lion's share of the blood supply to the region??? (although, it certainly doesn't turn the nerves in the penis off; I have wonderful feelings all up and down my penis, during a session!) and yes! I do have flaccid penis orgasms too!

    I have always been an advocate of "Not going to sleep with the Aneros in." Although, I do a kind of cat nap during the day with an Aneros in, but can't remember actually falling asleep that way. (feels too good, I guess???)

    Later, ALL!

    Hlaser99
  • thhn
    Posts: 425
    my penis too remains flacid through most of my sessions but usually a couple of times during I will develop a raging hard on that will last several minutes, then goes away. Generally nipple stimulation will bring about an erection. I am finding that I enjoy playing with my nipples through out my sessions. Often that will bring about a p-wave or two
  • macanudo
    Posts: 3
    yeah, i have also experienced dry cum, feels good, I dont get all the way hard but have pre cum and then I will get raging hard on for a while and can come with masterbating at same time. It takes me a while to get it in and then i leave it in for only 15 -20 minutes. I am new at it.
  • mrbater
    Posts: 43
    Hi all
    Thanks for the responses. I still have a long way to go.

    I had my second session the day before yesterday and enjoyed it but no 'O'. Again I finished myself off to ejaculation with a soft cock?

    How many of you have trouble keeping the 'p-Tab' on the perinium? My MGX keeps slipping off to one side or the other even though I tried to keep it dry. Any tips here. Maybe it could have been designed better to actually cup the thing?

    Thanks again
    Tony
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi Mrbater,

    About the issue with the tab slippage, I was concerned with that in the beginning myself. I was concerned about everything! What I found was that wherever the tabs settles is where it should be. The best sensations was with it just to the left of center and it seems to be a natural spot. I say this because this process can be difficult enough without worrying about all of the technical stuff. In the beginning, you tend to be worried about every aspect of the process (lube, breathing, position, do I have the right model, etc.) that the whole process becomes a bit of a chore.

    Once you become Super Orgasmic, you will realize that the technical stuff seldom comes into play. I know that you will hit the right combination that will get you there, but when you get there you will find that the gate wasn't locked.