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advice please:orgasm with progasm inside
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Hello,

    I'm reading the wiki and it says that you're not gonna achieve a super O you could always finish masturbating with the aneros inside.
    I thought it was bad to do that because it wouldn't help the rewiring process.
    I'm not there yet but my sessions getting more intense,so thats just a matter of time.
    So if it's not gonna hurt the rewiring i like to finish like that then to go to sleep aroused.

    If someone could explain please,is it good or bad for achieving dry orgasms.

    Thanks,
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    valliant said:

    Hello,

    I'm reading the wiki and it says that you're not gonna achieve a super O you could always finish masturbating with the aneros inside.
    I thought it was bad to do that because it wouldn't help the rewiring process.
    I'm not there yet but my sessions getting more intense,so thats just a matter of time.
    So if it's not gonna hurt the rewiring i like to finish like that then to go to sleep aroused.

    If someone could explain please,is it good or bad for achieving dry orgasms.

    Thanks,



    Hi Valliant!

    In my humble opinion, there is a point of diminishing return where abstaining from traditional ejaculation is concerned!

    A certain level of horniness is desirable to have a higher than normal "excitement level". (this is helpful for both re-wiring and achieving that first Dry Orgasm)
    I feel, however, that going longer than a week or so is not that helpful (diminished return) You get So mentally obsessed, etc. you loose your focus!

    I will just tell you what I do, to give you an idea of what I mean by this:

    I usually ejaculate once or twice a week. If you are concerned about the re-wiring and excitement level, etc., why not try once a week???
    (for me, after an Aneros session is fine, I often do this myself)

    This is just my personal feelings on this, mind you!

    Later, Hlaser99
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    Hi hlaser99,

    Well i'm not holding up my semen,i do normal masturbating one or two times a week,but that wasn't my question.
    My question was doing so with the progasm still inside as written on wiki,i thought it would be harmfull of the rewiring process to do so with the aneros inside,if not i would prefer doing so with the aneros because it's more intense.
    I'm just affraid of harming my process for achieving the dry orgasms and the super O.
  • Onthepath
    Posts: 105
    Hi Valliant,

    It's fine to masturbate or engage in intercourse with the Aneros inserted. However, this is not something you want to do all the time since you will be conditioning your body to always "wait" for the penile stimulation to finish you off. I'd recommend that you give priority to Aneros-only sessions and sprinkle in a few masturbation sessions for fun and variety.

    Basically, you will need to decide beforehand what sort of session you want to have and try to stick with it. If you want to experience dry orgasms, then avoid any penile stimulation for that session. As you gain more experience, you may be able to acheive both dry orgasms or a Super O and decide to end the session with masturbation or intercourse.

    Also, whether you ejaculate with the Aneros inserted or not, you will still experience the refractory period where your arousal will drop. The Aneros can just help to intensify the orgasm as you've noticed but won't prevent the refractory period. If you want to stay aroused, don't end the session by ejaculating.

    There are no hard and fast rules. Just try to enjoy each session for any pleasure it brings and try not to set any expectations.

    Hope this helps,

    Onthepath
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,254
    valliant,

    We human beings are creatures of habit. Any practice that we find particularly pleasurable can be quickly programmed into our psyches and thus become a new habit. The usage of Aneros devices is pleasurable, habit forming and even addictive. If you build repetitive association of Aneros use with intensely pleasurable ejaculatory orgasms, then you are forming a habit which will probably impede your progress toward achieving a Super-O.
    My advice to you would be to refrain from doing that on a regular basis, or at all, until you are sufficiently rewired from achieving Super-O ability.
    I agree with what Hlaser99 said about diminishing returns from abstinence. “Cleaning the pipes” out on a regular basis is healthy and enjoyable fun, just disassociate the Aneros use from normal masturbation and I think your “re-wiring” will be unimpeded.
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    ok,
    thanks guy's for the info.
    I will stick with the aneros progasm sessions for my journey for the big O and do the ejaculation on other sessions without it.