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virgin anus vs. progasm: the duel
  • so it begins...
    it looks like i'll be receiving my progasm on monday or tuesday. i'm new to the forum but have been a "lurker" for about 2 weeks now. i'm 22 years old and have never had anything in my ass! i went back and forth between the helix and progasm but read to many regrets about others being to small.... so i said what the hell... if it's too big i'll buy a smaller one to warm up on. i'm about 6'1" 185 so i think that will help. i have no problem whatsoever with this concept and am actually looking forward to it. i'm straight, but my girlfriend would be pretty freaked out. i stumbled across aneros by researching male multiple orgasms which lead me to the super-o. it's actually quite unbelievable that this was the time i'd heard of it. i thought it was a scam at first!! it's a shame this sort of thing is so taboo. anyway, it looks like you have a great community here from all walks of life.

    I'll keep you posted with my first experience.... wish me luck!
  • Virg
    Posts: 154
    Hey, mcnasty, it is great you accept this proces w/o hang-ups, and it is a journey like none other...one that should be taken slowly and enjoyed...

    You being 22 and a "virgin", I would suggest you take it easy with the Progasm. Seriously, it is not for the faint of heart, especially if you have not had any "practice". Personally, I would recommend a "training" period of the Helix and MGX first. There is a lot to be learned and enjoyed with those units as you have sessions and develop the muscles and control.

    I suspect that since you have not had any "practice", the Progasm will be more of a "plug" than an "instrument" like the Helix/MGX. The Progasm is larger and will touch more surface area but for that very reason, it moves less than the smaller units. And, without the muscle development and control, there is even less change of making it "go" where "it feels good"...

    It is on it's way and there is no way you are NOT going to try it. I hope it rocks your world but just go slow.

    I hope this is helpful...
  • Geist
    Posts: 41
    Make sure you go slowly during insertion, too, or you could hurt yourself.
  • I'll second that. Go very slowly. If you're not ready for it, it will stretch your anus to the point of pain which will likely kill any good sensations you might have felt.

    There's a certain technique to inserting it. Kind of like a scooping motion. Using plenty of lube is also a must.

    Good luck and have fun.
  • valliant
    Posts: 120
    I'm a newbie in anal play also and i took it real slow,don't force it in just aply little pressure then relax the anus and push again and eventually it will go in without any pain,it's just the head that big the rest is easy.Taking it out is not a problem.
    The progasm is much better for me,don't now why but in my 5 time i had some great feelings,al i need to do is explore more so i can have these great orgasms.
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,196
    about insertion: yes, you could do some minor tearing which would introduce minor pain, which you don't want.

    you might consider your first few sessions just stimulating your asshole with the tip of it, getting your anus used to the idea of giving you the pleasure it is capable of (use a lube that will last in open air). if you go slow that way, after a few sessions it may relax and open, wanting insertion. that will be a lot better than forcing.

    definitely don't force it. the tissue will tear.

    darwin
  • thanks for all the feedback!

    i received it yesterday. the size was about what i expected it to be. at first, i was a bit skeptical that it would fit and was locked up tighter than fort knox. i had it in a condom with astroglide inside and out. with a little bit of time and deep breathing i decided i was as ready as i'd ever be. shockingly, it went in pretty easily. there was no pain... just kept thinking "there's something in my ass".. once the initial surprise faded it was less noticeable. i tried some small contractions that were a bit uncomfortable in the sense that i just wasn't used to it. after that i just sat there with in and tried not to think about it. i didn't really have any sort of sensation. maybe the slightest tingling in my anus but i thought it could be lube. it came out just fine. in fact, i would say it was a more pleasant feeling after i took it out... like that feeling after you have the perfect bowel movement. nothing is sore. i'm glad my first time out of the way. i've ordered some id millennium and wet platinum. (by the way, has anyone tried id velvet? $3-4 an ounce!) i think those will help. i'm in no rush. i'm sure it's great to super-o, but it sounds like many of you have learned a lot on your journey there. any feedback would be appreciated.
  • Geist
    Posts: 41
    Hope your journey goes well, it'll take a lot of patience and getting through those frustrating sessions where it seems like you're going nowhere. It's all about patience, perseverance, and enjoying whatever each session may bring.

    My only concern is that maybe the Progasm isn't an ideal model to 'train' with. But, who knows, it may work out great for you, and I hope it does!
  • hello again... thanks for your responses!
    well after about a month of use i'd say i have had about 20 sessions. right when i received it i used it about twice every three days. i'd say about 7-8 sessions in i felt pleasurable sensations and it kind of spooked me. i haven't had any since. i'd say i've only had about 4 or 5 sessions where i've experienced involuntaries. all of which has lead to nothing. i thought i may have been using it too frequently and decided going to visit my girlfriend would be a nice 6 day break. i used it tonight and felt more control than i had experienced previously. however, i experienced little pleasureable sensation.

    from my reading i attribute this to lack of muscle tone. i am a bit curious as to why i've experienced pleasureable feelings early on but haven't felt it since. maybe i was more relaxed? i think i will continue leaving a day or two inbetween my sessions until my muscles are better toned. i am considering trying a smaller model. i'm not experiencing any pain but i feel i may need something that's more mobile to train the muscles. helix? mgx? i don't know at this point. any advice is appreciated. just trying to remind myself to enjoy the ride!
  • mcnasty said:

    i am a bit curious as to why i've experienced pleasureable feelings early on but haven't felt it since. maybe i was more relaxed? i think i will continue leaving a day or two inbetween my sessions until my muscles are better toned. i am considering trying a smaller model. i'm not experiencing any pain but i feel i may need something that's more mobile to train the muscles. helix? mgx? i don't know at this point. any advice is appreciated. just trying to remind myself to enjoy the ride!



    I'm another one that felt fantastic sensations early on, but they faded after a week or two. I wish I could be more helpful as to why that happened, or what the solution is. You mentioned being scared, which makes me wonder if maybe your body shut the feelings down to protect you. There is a similar thing known over on the KSMO site called "terror at the gates." Before you can experience this pleasure you need to work through what is making you afraid and be willing to feel intense feelings -good OR bad.

    Or I could simply be talking out my ass. :D

    I think it's a good idea to take a break for a day or two between sessions and you're right in trying not to "go for" an orgasm and just enjoy the ride. That's possibly one of my problems. I know it's out there and even though I try not to have that as my goal, when the good feelings increase I find myself "pushing" to make them stronger rather than relaxing and enjoying what I'm feeling.

    I have the Progasm and Helix, and personally prefer the Helix though that could change. I have to go a lot slower with the Progasm, and that's also possibly another part of my problem: I'm trying to rush to the good feelings instead of taking my time.

    Hope that helps.
  • I have a couple suggestions for you...
    1. Get a Helix or MGX. Both offer a different experience and switching between the two, starting out with the Helix then moving to the MGX has produced good results.
    2. Stimulate other areas besides your penis. My nipples have come alive as a result of Aneros use and stimulating them even when not using the Aneros produces great results.
    3. Use Maximus lube. It's does not contain glycerin (sp?) so it doesn't produce a urge to purge. I find a little Vaseline applied to both the inner half-inch of my anus and the bottom of the Aneros before lubing both keeps things fairly slippery throughout longer sessions
    4. Warm both the lube and the Aneros in very warm water before inserting. If their at body temp or slightly above, it helps the relaxation upon insertion.
    5. Lower expectations. Don't push. Just go slow, observe subtle sensations as they occur and enjoy.