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Sexual Energy = Caffeine Substitute?
  • Ashlen
    Posts: 149
    For years I've been addicted to caffeine, craving it everyday to keep me going, but I've noticed something interesting lately. For the past week I've abstained from ejaculating and have been feeling a lot of sexual energy, but with this new found energy, I've noticed that I am not feeling the craving for caffeine I normally do. I'm not sure if they have a direct connection to each other, but I find it fairly interesting. Has anyone else had this happen?

    Either way, I suppose now is a good time to kick the habit. :P
  • I find it funny you mention this, because I noticed the new sexual energy I was getting after using the aneros felt a lot like a caffiene high. You can even see me make this connection in my tortured by pleasure thread.

    I don't understand it myself but it does seem like they are similar.
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hey Guys!

    Me too!

    First, I love my morning coffee ritual too much to quit all together, but I have cut my consumption to 1/2. I now have a couple of mugs from freshly-ground Starbucks beans and it is almost a very special time each morning for me. I love it!

    When you mention a sexual energy, I sometimes could almost live on it! I get a different kind of sexual energy from having non-ejaculatory orgasms, than the horny energy from not ejaculating for a period of time. (Especially true, when it was a really good session and you are totally and completely satisfied from it! You can feel the energy and a sense of well-being and it usually makes me smile and maybe laugh from the feeling! Wonderful!

    Nice stuff to think about and ponder!

    Later, Hlaser
  • marmot
    Posts: 80
    The same thing has happened to me. About the time I started using the Aneros and having MMO's I decreased my coffee from 5 cups to one, yet I remained high from sexual energy. I don't think not ejaculating makes much difference. If I do ejaculate I can have MMO's right afterwards and get the sexual energy back. The other day I edged for an hour without ejaculating, and that ended up like an overdose of caffeine the rest of the day. I was planning to have sex when I went to bed but got a migraine from the buzz and ended up feeling blah and unrelieved. I think I'll stick with MMO's!

    Marmot
  • Ashlen
    Posts: 149
    Unfortunatelly I haven't been able to achieve MMOs yet, so I'm not sure if I can get the energy level back afterward. I did notice that after I allowed myself to ejaculate today (after a full week I needed relief), I got hit by a strong urge for caffeine. So I think there is a definite connection between the two.

    I guess if one wants to give up the stuff, just crank up the sexual energy when you feel a craving. :P