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Trying not to get frustrated... :-)
  • Hi All...Just got my first aneros and been experimenting...however, I have tried it several times but honestly feel little more than the sensation of penetration...yes, the pressure is there, yes I am contracting as suggested...I am pretty confident I am positioning and lubing properly and I have given it ample time...I have tried different positions, etc and am beginnig to wonder if some guys just do not respond to this...any thoughts or encouragement is appreciated... :-) AE
  • AshlenAshlen
    Posts: 149
    You're pretty much in the same boat I was, some people just seem to take longer to get results from the Aneros, it took me about 3-4 weeks before I started to get noticible pleasure, and even then it took more time for the pleasure to become more profound.

    The only real advice I can offer besides reading the forums and blogs, is just relax and enjoy your sessions, and try to take a day or two off between sessions so you don't wear yourself out. Don't expect to have an orgasm so soon, but rather enjoy any pleasure you get from the penetration sensation you say you are experiencing. Perhaps throw on some erotic videos to kick things up a notch.

    I hope things start working for you soon :)
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi American Explorer,

    When you say:

    and I have given it ample time

    How long exactly is that?

    And welcome, you are among friends here.

  • I'm a noob as well, about 3 months or so. My sessions have varied. For a while I felt like I took one step forward and two back. But lately they've been a major leap forward. I guess you just have to give it time and let it happen.

    If your not having any results then you may want to see that the tab is hitting you right or that your getting good insertion. Checking the insertion really helped me out a great deal and I did have to modify the tab placement as well.

    Also, try to control and structure your contractions instead of having it slam in and out wildly. I try to maintain a slight muscle tension at all times. It's like hand masturbation. It's all about tecnique.