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Second Week and Need Some Input
  • I ordered my Progasm a few weeks ago and have had a dozen sessions and even worn it for hours while working on my computer (Surprized you can sit comfortably). So far it is a pleasant sensation but despite following all the advice I have had nothing remotely related to an orgasm. Now I have been into anal for some many years and the Progasm it quite a bit smaller than my favorite vibrating plug. I have had fantastic orgasms when my wife has used her strap-on and several times alone with the plug (without penile stimulation - but wet and fantastic!!). My question is, since I am used to a much larger device am I wasting time pursuing the NEO? Also, when I have been wearing the progasm and masturbating (alone or with my wife) it actually seems to shorten and diminish my orgasm. Any advice would be helpful.
  • Ashlen
    Posts: 149
    I honestly don't think that being use to larger devices would stop you from being able to use the Progasm, a lot of people here who are into anal play make good use of the other models like Helix and Eupho which are quite smaller than the Progasm, so I don't think size really matters. However, if you aren't using enough lube, especially with the Progasm, that could be a problem.

    You say you've been using it for 2 weeks? I wouldn't get too discouraged, it can take some time for users to get results, some users get fast results, but in my case it took around 2+ months for me to finally feel like I am making real progress. I'm not sure if this was because my prostate needed to become more sensitive or something like that, or if I was too obsessed with details and didn't just enjoy the pleasurable sensations my models were giving me.

    Only thing I can suggest is try not to worry about achieving the NEO, but rather enjoy the pleasure you are feeling when you use it, the NEOs will come in time. I honestly thought I wasn't capable of achieving them either since my progress was so slow, but I believe now that anyone can given enough time and patience.
  • F0rnF0rn
    Posts: 14
    I agree with Ashlen. The Progasm, which can produce some amazing feelings, has never been a 'leave in' for me. I typically use my modded handle helix for that exercise, and the results can be explosive. That said, I have just passed the 1 year mark for aneros use and I am of the opinion that this whole journey is based on strengthening of the musclulature (abs and pelvic) and training the mind to pick up on the subtle feelings (at first) to the aneros.

    My advice is to keep at it and to keep the following in mind. This is not your typical physical orgasm. Talk to your wife and explore how she is brought to orgasm. This experience, for me at least, is about realizing the potential of a mind orgasm (mindgasm) - and from talking to my wife it seems rather similar to what she experiences through her orgasms :)

    Cheers!
  • Ashlen
    Posts: 149
    F0rn said:

    That said, I have just passed the 1 year mark for aneros use and I am of the opinion that this whole journey is based on strengthening of the musclulature (abs and pelvic) and training the mind to pick up on the subtle feelings (at first) to the aneros.



    You know, that makes a lot of sense to me. The last three weeks I've really been working out at the gym and home, where as before I basically didn't. My results have been increasing dramatically the last week and a half, which could be because of the strengthening of related muscles and weight loss. Of course it could be a coincidence, who knows.