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Fantasizing during aneros use
  • hulahula
    Posts: 212
    One thing that I have noticed about Aneros use after owning an MGX is that I don't fantasize during use, as opposed to traditional, penile masturbation in which I would fantasize to climax. I sometimes use imagery, but it is of a very sensual, very general, vague but not necessarily erotic nature. For example, I find I can increase the intensity of my Aneros experience if I visualize my prostate is in the shape of a blue bird with wings.

    In a sense, I view the Aneros as more of a spiritual total relaxation experience than as a sexual, erotic, genital focused activity. For example, I usually do best with my eyes closed. I would not, I don't think, find it improved by watching porn. Wondering if others have any thoughts on the difference between genital masturbation and using an aneros.
  • I don't fantasize when using the aneros eighter.
    I like to visualize my hands cupping and massaging my prostate.
    There have been a lot of posts about this, some visualize fingers, some visualize a force moving in and out of the anus (not a penis).

    It is interesting that if I think about or watch erotica I get distracted. So I agree it feels more like a spiritual total relaxation experience.
  • rumelrumel
    Posts: 2,257
    hula, Hitachi Magic,
    I'm with you both on this topic. I believe that erotic arousal before an Aneros session is certainly beneficial to 'jump start' response, but erotic fantasy during a session is distracting, I can't maintain mental focus on the sensations emanating from around my prostate while also trying to fantasize. I do employ a visualization technique wherein I close my eyes, I put myself in the center of a soft spongy cocoon floating in a womblike environment and as I manipulate the Aneros it gently strokes me into a blissful state with soft warm waves of pleasure. It certainly seems like a spiritual state. I am also experiencing a strange dichotomy, namely I feel a certain tension level being maintained in my body, especially in my diaphram, and simultaneously a sense of peace and tranquility (while within my little cocoon). Weird, but in a good way. Then after letting the orgasm pass, my body feels relaxed and supple, yet mentally I feel energized.
  • hulahula
    Posts: 212
    thanks for the replies, hitachi and rumel!
  • Edit
    Posts: 0
    Fantasies seem to come and go with the units. When I've had them it's been a bit strange for me. As a straight guy it threw me the first time when in the middle of an active super O both legs raised up in the air as if opening for entrance and then my mind took it the rest of the way. I was getting it driven into me by another guy!!!! Normally my wife is involved with some part of my session but not home for this one! Not sure how to explain that position :roll:
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hi Guys . . .

    Cool thread!

    I sometimes do some fantasy or check out the porn of the day or whatever, prior to a session. But now I don't really need the stimulation, cause I am feeling or can feel P-waves or O's most of the time and the thought of a session turns me on!

    During a session, I do visualize being taken, by my self, or sometimes a very loving force takes me and I open myself up to it! I have even visualized my own cock, fucking my prostate; with every wave and throb I am experiencing, I thrust my cock into it! (the thrusting moves the Aneros quite well too!) If I feel like crying out, I do so! I find it very liberating...

    Mostly I just relax, breath, visualize and observe . . . as I allow it to happen to me! Being open to every good feeling is a plus...

    Later, Hlaser
  • Ken50
    Posts: 24
    Hi never really realized it until this thread but I don't fantasize during an aneros session. I usually look at some porn prior to a session in order to enhance the arousal. During an actual session, the feeling of the aneros against the prostate is just so damn good that this is all I am able to center on.
    Regards,
    Ken