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  • Hello everyone…
    I’m thinking about buying the aneros helix for my boyfriend for Valentines Day.. I only recently discovered its existence and have to make a decision soon so please don’t yell at me if my questions have already been answered in other forums!!! Sry I know everyone hates that.
    But yes, after hearing about these super-Os I just cant wait another day without my boy having one….but I cant help being a little intimidated…I mean, for my age I think im pretty sexually adept…but god, from what ive read about the aneros I really cant compete. What im wondering is, you know how once you move on to meth, you never bother with weed again.. Is that what’s going to happen to my boyfriend? I mean after having these super-O’s will regular sex and foreplay with me become dull and unsatisfying to him?
    It honestly scares the shit out of me, I guess in the same way that men are afraid of 10 inch vibrating dildos…but yea, I think my concerns are still valid.
    Even so, I may still consider buying it…it would seem too selfish not to..
    Also I think it would be healthy for him…
    He’s very young (23) but because of stress and smoking and more stress he can have trouble staying hard on some occasions.. sometimes he isn’t able to cum either… I once went down on him for more than an hour and still he didn’t cum! o_o
    That was tiring.
    And its not even a skill thing either, so don’t go there… I know what im doing.
    I think whatever the problem is, it’s physical.
    He also cums much less than anyone I’ve been with…
    Although, he’s also the oldest man ive ever been with, and I suppose just the fact that he’s not a horny teenager anymore might explain most of it….I dunno!
    But anyway what im getting around to is that ive never heard of those kind of problems with men so young, and im wondering if the aneros would still benefit him in the way it does with older men.
    Its not that im looking for a performance booster, he satisfies me fine, its just I can tell his bouts of ED can bring him down, no pun intended, and I worry that his orgasms, and everything leading up to them, aren’t as good as they could be if he were healthier.
    Well, that’s my story, respond if you wish, and if anyone’s interested I’ll continue to post about my boyfriends first experiences with the aneros

    Weeee im soo excited ^___^
    I’m gonna make him cum so hard

    And congratulations to all you men who are discovering such pleasure from this device, im so happy for you.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
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    (this post was edited 2007-02-12 22:46:02)

    oh Elenore,

    I think I can speak for a great many men in here when I say that I can only wish that I had discovered the Aneros when I was in my twenties! Heck, I might have discovered a cure for the common cold or come up with my own answer to Unified Field Theory ! LOL. All kidding aside, discovering the Super O is a tremendously empowering thing, no matter WHEN it occurs for you. I think it’s terrific that you want your boyfriend to have this experience, and no, there is NO cause for apprehension here. Although the exploration may require some solo time on his part, the Super O itself is not exclusionary. On the contrary, once his abilities become more developed this will undoubtedly enrich your relationship with one another enormously. Just remember, that this does not occur overnight, and that most commonly patience and openness are required to proceed with the Super O. Unlike an ejaculatory orgasm, this is NOT an automatic response (for most men)…rather it is a learned one.

    This forum contains a wealth of information, so take some time and read through some of the posts here, it will be time well spent. For starters, you might want to check through my two permanent “sticky” threads above, B’s BEST OF BEELINE and B’s Key’s to the Backdoor to Ecstasy. Between the two of them you’ll get a fair overview on what to expect. If you have any questions after that, you may post to this or any other thread or if you wish you can contact the forum members individually for more clarification (if their email address is listed).

    Good luck and happy Valentine's Day to you,


    BF Mayfield
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    Originally Posted By: ohElenore
    Hello everyone…
    I’m thinking about buying the aneros helix for my boyfriend for Valentines Day.. I only recently discovered its existence and have to make a decision soon so please don’t yell at me if my questions have already been answered in other forums!!! Sry I know everyone hates that.
    But yes, after hearing about these super-Os I just cant wait another day without my boy having one….but I cant help being a little intimidated…I mean, for my age I think im pretty sexually adept…but god, from what ive read about the aneros I really cant compete. What im wondering is, you know how once you move on to meth, you never bother with weed again.. Is that what’s going to happen to my boyfriend? I mean after having these super-O’s will regular sex and foreplay with me become dull and unsatisfying to him?
    It honestly scares the shit out of me, I guess in the same way that men are afraid of 10 inch vibrating dildos…but yea, I think my concerns are still valid.
    Even so, I may still consider buying it…it would seem too selfish not to..
    Also I think it would be healthy for him…
    He’s very young (23) but because of stress and smoking and more stress he can have trouble staying hard on some occasions.. sometimes he isn’t able to cum either… I once went down on him for more than an hour and still he didn’t cum! o_o
    That was tiring.
    And its not even a skill thing either, so don’t go there… I know what im doing.
    I think whatever the problem is, it’s physical.
    He also cums much less than anyone I’ve been with…
    Although, he’s also the oldest man ive ever been with, and I suppose just the fact that he’s not a horny teenager anymore might explain most of it….I dunno!
    But anyway what im getting around to is that ive never heard of those kind of problems with men so young, and im wondering if the aneros would still benefit him in the way it does with older men.
    Its not that im looking for a performance booster, he satisfies me fine, its just I can tell his bouts of ED can bring him down, no pun intended, and I worry that his orgasms, and everything leading up to them, aren’t as good as they could be if he were healthier.
    Well, that’s my story, respond if you wish, and if anyone’s interested I’ll continue to post about my boyfriends first experiences with the aneros

    Weeee im soo excited ^___^
    I’m gonna make him cum so hard

    And congratulations to all you men who are discovering such pleasure from this device, im so happy for you.


    I think it is great that you care that much for your boyfriend, but I wonder if he would even consider using an anal device.. have you gotten any indication he might be interested in anal simulation? Also please note that according a survey I've seen on another web site, only about 1/3 experience the Super-O, I haven’t, it's being over 1 Year. The results noted by others and myself varies a fair amount from session to session, but I will say I usually enjoy the arousal, having the best results sleeping with it in. So although it does create pleasure, it has a fair amount of learning curve with the procedures and cleanup details. Your concern about him enjoying it more then you I don’t see that happening because it is so different then regular sex. It is more of a mental thing (guys take for granted). I now really understand how women feel when their orgasms are hindered or lost so easy. Concerning improving his erection, with the aneros it should make him harder, but be warned the it can come out during his ejaculation. I wonder at his age if doing the exercises with the aneros will improve blood flow enough…I would think it may not help. It would seem better to reduce the stress, which in itself can cause the erection problems, cut down on caffeine, take some relaxation pills, and\or walking or squatting exercises. A natural sedative I’ve found is Valerian Root 450 mg, taken 2x a day with meals (can get from Vitamin World). A more expensive alterative is 5-HTP 50mg, about $8 for 45 capsules. Concerning him taking a long time or cumming less, it makes me wonder if his is having ejaculations you don’t know about. It would be harder to press all the right buttons to trip him, but maybe he is just enjoying the arousal, hey most guys would take 1 hour of hot arousal instead of a few seconds of a orgasm.
    In summary, although I would think he would enjoy the aneros, I wonder if trying other alternatives first might help him better, due to his younge age...

    I hope this helps…


  • Originally Posted By: Steam 239

    I think it is great that you care that much for your boyfriend, but I wonder if he would even consider using an anal device.. have you gotten any indication he might be interested in anal simulation? Also please note that according a survey I've seen on another web site, only about 1/3 experience the Super-O, I haven’t, it's being over 1 Year. The results noted by others and myself varies a fair amount from session to session, but I will say I usually enjoy the arousal, having the best results sleeping with it in. So although it does create pleasure, it has a fair amount of learning curve with the procedures and cleanup details. Your concern about him enjoying it more then you I don’t see that happening because it is so different then regular sex. It is more of a mental thing (guys take for granted). I now really understand how women feel when their orgasms are hindered or lost so easy. Concerning improving his erection, with the aneros it should make him harder, but be warned the it can come out during his ejaculation. I wonder at his age if doing the exercises with the aneros will improve blood flow enough…I would think it may not help. It would seem better to reduce the stress, which in itself can cause the erection problems, cut down on caffeine, take some relaxation pills, and\\or walking or squatting exercises. A natural sedative I’ve found is Valerian Root 450 mg, taken 2x a day with meals (can get from Vitamin World). A more expensive alterative is 5-HTP 50mg, about $8 for 45 capsules. Concerning him taking a long time or cumming less, it makes me wonder if his is having ejaculations you don’t know about. It would be harder to press all the right buttons to trip him, but maybe he is just enjoying the arousal, hey most guys would take 1 hour of hot arousal instead of a few seconds of a orgasm.
    In summary, although I would think he would enjoy the aneros, I wonder if trying other alternatives first might help him better, due to his younge age...

    I hope this helps…


    Thanks Steam 239!
    Yea my car broke down so i have yet to purchase the aneros, so i guess it'd be silly to still call it a valentines gift but im still planning on getting it asap
    My boyfriend doesnt have hangups about his bottom like most guys, so i think he would appreciate it as a gift.... hes an in-the-closet bisexual, and ive played with his prostate before just with my finger, and after that he became pretty eager to explore more of that part of his body. Ive looked at other prostate massagers and the aneros seemed to really stand out as superior...mainly because the more comfortable you get with it the more fun you can have...not like some toys that do their thing and then its like...okay so thats it? yawn. Even if he doesnt ever get a super-O, it seems that just having the aneros inside him could spice up pretty much anything, even just kissing. Its nice that its no hands. Ive never been good at patting my head while rubbing my belly.
    At the same time i dont want to get something too complicated that takes too much patience on his part...
    But you're right by comparing prostate orgasms to female orgasms, thats the first thing i thought when i read some of the testimonials. similar in so many ways.
    Thanks for the tips about the relaxation pills. I never would have thought of that.
    About him taking so long, its possible that sometimes he holds back or tries to hide his orgasms thinking that i wont notice... but i think there might be something hindering his ability to produce or ejaculate semen...i know nothing about the male reproductive system.. but..all i know is just that sometimes he couldnt ejaculate to save his life...one thing thats strange is when this happens and ive been stimulating him for a long time he has repeated dry orgasms...and he says the pleasure gets so intense he feels he might pass out or collapse... But then after we stop he says he has minor pain from not being able to cum.
    I dont know maybe i should let it go, its still good sex i guess, i just miss the sense of completion!
    Oh yea, another thing... hes like NEVER able to make himself orgasm just from masturbating. Sometimes he can with porn on, but most of the time he cant. Im wondering if going for long periods of time(when he was single) without ejaculating could cause congestion or whatever might be the culprit.
    -Elenore

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    Originally Posted By: ohElenore

    Thanks Steam 239!
    Yea my car broke down so i have yet to purchase the aneros, so i guess it'd be silly to still call it a valentines gift but im still planning on getting it asap
    My boyfriend doesnt have hangups about his bottom like most guys, so i think he would appreciate it as a gift.... hes an in-the-closet bisexual, and ive played with his prostate before just with my finger, and after that he became pretty eager to explore more of that part of his body. Ive looked at other prostate massagers and the aneros seemed to really stand out as superior...mainly because the more comfortable you get with it the more fun you can have...not like some toys that do their thing and then its like...okay so thats it? yawn. Even if he doesnt ever get a super-O, it seems that just having the aneros inside him could spice up pretty much anything, even just kissing. Its nice that its no hands. Ive never been good at patting my head while rubbing my belly.
    At the same time i dont want to get something too complicated that takes too much patience on his part...
    But you're right by comparing prostate orgasms to female orgasms, thats the first thing i thought when i read some of the testimonials. similar in so many ways.
    Thanks for the tips about the relaxation pills. I never would have thought of that.
    About him taking so long, its possible that sometimes he holds back or tries to hide his orgasms thinking that i wont notice... but i think there might be something hindering his ability to produce or ejaculate semen...i know nothing about the male reproductive system.. but..all i know is just that sometimes he couldnt ejaculate to save his life...one thing thats strange is when this happens and ive been stimulating him for a long time he has repeated dry orgasms...and he says the pleasure gets so intense he feels he might pass out or collapse... But then after we stop he says he has minor pain from not being able to cum.
    I dont know maybe i should let it go, its still good sex i guess, i just miss the sense of completion!
    Oh yea, another thing... hes like NEVER able to make himself orgasm just from masturbating. Sometimes he can with porn on, but most of the time he cant. Im wondering if going for long periods of time(when he was single) without ejaculating could cause congestion or whatever might be the culprit.
    -Elenore


    If you do buy an aneros I would recommend the MGX model. It is less expensive and I have had better results then with the Helix model. You need to tell your boyfriend to use gentle contractions; at first he will want to contract too hard because it feels good. Concerning his reduce semen and trouble ejaculating, I have read a man can’t ejaculated if he is empty…I really wonder if his reduced volume and dry orgasms are due to him draining before hand ? Is his semen thick (gel like) or thin (watery)? It’s thick if it’s been a while and get watery as you kept draining. If his is thick , then it would seem there is a problem. The fact he can get dry orgasms indicated the prostate was working and it should have produced milky thin fluid, especially after a long stimulation period. Are you saying there was nothing? If so it makes me wonder if he is dehydrated. The minor pain was from the excessive repeated contractions of the prostate (make the muscle sore). About him not being able to make himself orgasm, does his penis seem less sensitive then normal? If he is circumcised, does he use lube or a masturbation aid? I assume he is not taking any depression medicines, which can inhibit orgasms or any other mental affecting drug. Does he use anti-histamines? They can cause dehydration. You comment about him not cumming when he was single probably would not have caused the problem, the body can reabsorb the excess or the brain will cause a wet dream. However, you do get more bateria after a long time, even causing unpleasent semen odor and a light yellow tint. One of the keys of prostate duct health is if doesn,t dribble with his orgasm. Also, it would be good if he quits smoking while his is young as this will affect his arteries, the penis having the smaller ones, when he get older. Anyway, the aneros usually does kept the prostate pumping longer (emptying more with the first orgasm). It will improve the circulation below, which can help to bring in more nutrients. Please let everyone know what happens! I know I’m really interested.