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  • Taurus
    Posts: 33
    Hi All,

    Since I had my first breakthrough about a week ago I've not had anything similar since, I've gotten myself to the point which triggered my first major "o" but I don't make it over the edge, I'm so wound up that it feels like the waves should start at any time but nothing happens, at this point I don't know how to get the waves started so I just finish off the old fasion way.

    Has anyone had similar experiences?

    Thanks

    Taurus
  • darwindarwin
    Posts: 1,195
    hopefully others will have more suggestions. the one that i have is: don't finish off the old fashioned way. save that till the next day. let the good feelings of the aneros linger for a day unabated. might help, might not...

    darwin
  • TripperTripper
    Posts: 250
    I like Darwin's suggestion.

    When I have a really active Aneros session (I haven't reached an "o" level yet) and finally finish the night (no traditional ejaculation) and put the Aneros away, I have a great sleep with "rewiring" effects all night long. Going in and out of sleep thinking "what was that?" or "what is this?" or "am I going to remember this tomorrow?". In fact, I feel I get closer to an "o" during the night so you may actually reach an "o" with your experience. After all, you are quite relaxed in and out of sleep which may help reduce the tension and focus that you are feeling.

    And, as Darwin mentioned, I think it helps to solidify the Aneros effects rather than remind the body and mind of the traditional orgasm.

    Takes a little discipline though.

    Let us know how you do.

    Tripper
  • hlaser99hlaser99
    Posts: 785
    Hi Taurus!

    The only thing I can tell you, is what works for me???

    Relaxation, slow, even breathing and visualizing the Anerose and the "sweet spot" on your prostate(the tiny place where the good feeling is coming from).

    Take that tiny feeling and try first to "lock-on" to it(sometimes elusive and hard to do?), and vizualize the feeling as if it were a "ray of lite" that you can see on this spot on your prostate. Then try to grow it in intensity! You can't force it; it must grow as if you are nurturing it??? Make friends with it and embrace the feeling as if you were old lovers!

    If I am having trouble locking-on to it, I use a tiny amount of PC pressure; just enough to kiss and tickle the prostate sweet spot! (If I need something more, I reach into my bag of tricks and add some nipple play or soft palete nursing(something I got from Darwin...try it, it's great!)

    Works for me, usually!

    Hope it helps someone???

    Later, Hlaser
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi Taurus,

    My whole journey was plagued with the "1 step forward, 2 steps back" process. That is why I mention to people who may be similar to me to not get too concerned if, after a breakthrough, they have a dud session or two. You will get there. It is a process and for me was a slow one.

    Hang in there and be thankful for the progress you have made so far.

    Buster