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  • Just got back from a weeks holiday. No aneros, no anal play, nothing. Really looking forward to last night after a break of a week.
    cleaned and lubed up. Inserted my Helix, lie on side in traditional position and watched some porn. Didn't take long to get tickling inside with slight contractions. Then got a huge hard on from not only the outside but also felt like on the inside too ( if you know what I mean ).
    I could feel the Helix pushing against my prostate. Now this went on for 1 to 2 minutes but no sudden surge but a dull ache instead. I was relaxed,I was hardly contracting or least I wasn't. The more I tried to relax the harder the contraction got and the dull ache.

    What is this that I am experiencing?
    this can't be right if I'm getting an ache?

    If this is what a dry orgasm is about then I must be doing something wrong because although it felt nice their was no overwhelming sensation.

    Oh dear a week away and back to square one. HELP
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Fear not V.S. I have been thought EXACTLY what you have. You would think that a week away would be enough to set you in motion right away. I was off for about 10 days and it took me about 3 sessions to get it back
    together. I was told my some wisemen in the forum that my pipes were probably clogged. They were right.

    Hang in there and jump into your next session. As far as the dull pain goes, I seem to suffer from that on and off as well. It is really wierd and not consistant with anything I am doing. The body can be strange!

    Take it easy,

    Buster

  • Originally Posted By: virginsoldier
    Just got back from a weeks holiday. No aneros, no anal play, nothing. Really looking forward to last night after a break of a week.
    cleaned and lubed up. Inserted my Helix, lie on side in traditional position and watched some porn. Didn't take long to get tickling inside with slight contractions. Then got a huge hard on from not only the outside but also felt like on the inside too ( if you know what I mean ).
    I could feel the Helix pushing against my prostate. Now this went on for 1 to 2 minutes but no sudden surge but a dull ache instead. I was relaxed,I was hardly contracting or least I wasn't. The more I tried to relax the harder the contraction got and the dull ache.


    Actually V.S, this is quite amazing as the sensations/problems getting back to a routine (when I go away) are almost identical. I thought that this was unique to me so infact it is quite a relief to know that there are others out there with the same issues!
    Seems like it is just a case of waiting to be used to being back in normal suroundings and not trying to force the sensations.

    Sparked by the mention of holidays lol, I am looking for somewhere to take my family for a week (has to be reasonably cheap) hopefully near the coast (UK). Anywhere that is recommended? (sorry if Ive gone off the subject too much).
  • LOL Andrew. Just got back from Pontins in Pakefield. Good laugh. Half board and food was good but not exactly cheap.

  • i dont mean to hijack this thread but i have a question regarding timing aswell. (sorry if the chronology gets confusing here)- about 2 weeks ago i was getting a little pessimistic about my progress so i tossed my mgx in its drawer and kind of forgot about it for nearly a week. i then remembered about it and decided to have another go at it and BAM! insaaaaane results. i had all these almost 'liquidy' feelings surging through the pelvic area, and it was as if a could control them not by contractions but through thoughts. anyways, what seemed to initiate the success of this session was a really strong, warm and wonderfull feeling right where the abutment tab hits the sweet spot which inevitably starts spreading to other areas. sinse then, i havent been able to get that feeling back, no matter how accurately i aline the tab and im certain that for me, the perenium is the key to success (assuming im doing everything else right). for the last week, i can still feel a strong sensation in this area but its also very dull and obtuse. hense, i believe that timing is of the essense, eg. allowing everything to recharge but not get 'out of practice'. ive tried skipping single days but that doesnt seem adequate. so i guess my question is what is the optimal amount of time to wait between sessions? any advice on the subject would be great. i hate having to take breaks from all the fun but it seems necessarily in order to make progress.
  • BusterBuster
    Posts: 953
    Hi Enemagra,

    It is like a puzzle. I could tell you to not let more than a couple of days in between sessions. I have found that to be a good amount of time under normal circumstances. Then, there will be something happen in your life that can effect it. Stess, diet, sleep....any of these factors or others can effect your journey. You have to have your head in the game, that is for sure. You cant just breeze through them.

    Keep experimenting to find what is going to be the best for you. Dont get too upset if it doesnt always work, because next time it will.

    Have a great week.

    Buster