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help! in need of words of advice or encouragement
  • obieguy
    Posts: 2
    hey guys,
    thanks for your earlier words of wisdom about penile stimulation. but now, im in need of some help. being as young and frisky as i am, i cant keep my hands off myself when i get to the end of step 2 from the online instructions. i just can't seem to move byond that stage. it feels so good to jack off at that point, but i know that i shouldn't. can anyone give me some encouragement or advice? maybe even some exercies to help me develop the discipline to go on with the entire process would help.

    matt
  • empires
    Posts: 10
    Well Obieguy, I have the opposite problem. I was once a frisky youngster such as yourself. Now in my mid-twenties, I find it almost impossible to get all that turned on anymore. I have to go like a week without touching myself in order to be "in the mood".

    So I guess my suggestion to you (and this is totally experimental, i'm not saying it will work) would be to completely wear yourself out sexually. Maybe masturbate traditionally a few times in one night, watch porn, just really go overboard with it. Then the next night see how you feel...? I don't know it just makes sense to me. Hope it makes sense to you.

    Good luck.

    - Emp
  • charliecharlie
    Posts: 124
    (this post was edited 2006-08-31 14:01:39)

    Hey Obieguy,

    For what its worth, here's some advice from an older guy: Why not try to slow down things down? When you get too excited, get into a more comfortable position, stop contracting, close your eyes, and breath deeply. You will find that by relaxing your body and mind, you allow your sexual energy to build to a higher level from which you will experience stronger, more explosive non-ejaculatory orgasms.

    Realize that you are on a journey of self exploration, and that you will miss many of the pleasures of this journey if you race to your old destination. Good luck on your journey

    Charlie