Howdy, Stranger!

It looks like you're new here. If you want to get involved, click one of these buttons!

Sign In with Google

In this Discussion

WOW....it's good to cross the finish line
  • Hey, everybody. I've posted here once or twice before....but I really have to share this latest experience. I've never been really sure if I've "gotten there" before, but WOW. This time, there's no doubt.

    I've had my MGX for probably almost 2 years now, and I've only been using it sporadically. Y'know, got a girlfriend in that time, moved, went back to school for a master's degree, so it's taken me quite awhile to make progress. Back in November, I had my first super-orgasm, and a bunch of real close calls in a session which lasted about an hour. It was wonderful, it more than justified the cost of the Aneros, but I couldn't build on that experience because semester final projects turned me into a cave-dwelling, coffee-driven creature of the night for the next month. After that, I had to find a job, and just generally had a lot going on.

    Within the last month or so, I've found time again to "play" occasionally. I had a few supers during that time, but nothing major. So, I decided to go for broke. For about 3 days, I didn't let myself cum. I watched porn, stroked a bit, but didn't finish. I would do muscle contractions and build up to an almost-orgasm without the toy. It didn't take long before I built up enough energy that thought I was going to explode.

    So, I settled in to play. It didn't take long to feel the energy building up, and I had one very nice orgasm. Then, I seemed to hit a lull. I couldn't get back up to that level. I changed the position of the tab, changed my breathing, etc. Had some nice feelings, but nothing earthshaking. So, I relaxed, focussed on building up my arousal, then started the contractions again.

    It built up slowly, the "ball of energy" growing stronger in my lower abdomen, then I slid into an orgasm. That's the best way I can describe it. It's a much gentler threshold than an ejaculatory orgasm...that's more like jumping over a cliff...this was more like sliding into home plate.

    I relaxed a touch and slid back off the peak, so I focussed again and very quickly started orgasming again. This is the first time I've had that kind of control. Over the next fifteen minutes, despite the toy popping out once, I had probably 5-6 BIG orgasms and 5-6 smaller (briefer) but still very intense ones. The longest one lasted almost a full minute. I stopped mainly because I thought I was too exhausted to keep going, as much as I wanted to. This was all about half an hour ago, and I'm stil shaking, buzzing in the head and weak in the knees.

    One of my ex-GFs said that I was a little obsessed with orgasm. Well, I'm 27, I've got a fairly sharp refractory period. I could go again within like 20-30 minutes, but once I cum, I rarely get excited enough to go again. So singles are the rule for me. Combine that with my first girlfriend--she was multi- or poly-orgasmic. So at the tender and impressionable age of 18, I watched this girl have orgasms blending into one another, over and over sometimes until she passed out. Since then, I've wanted to experience that. Now I know I can--twelve (or more) orgasms in fifteen minutes! This is literally a dream come true for me.

    Thank you guys, especially you, B, for helping me figure this out! And for anyone who has been playing for awhile and is starting to feel like you won't get there...don't get discouraged. Like I said, I got this thing in the mail about 2 years ago. I gave up a few times, but HOLY SHIT, is it every worth it in the end!
  • Edit
    Posts: 0
    Just one question:

    Are you me, in disguise?

    Your life seems to have mirrored mine in many respects (though probably not all). I, too, had a girlfriend (at 18!) who was poly-orgasmic. She rarely went more than 2 minutes without orgasm, and more often than not would slip from one to the next nearly effortlessly. As you, I envied her for this ability. As you, I have a long refractory period. I make up for it by striving for longevity, but the fact remains: once I come, we're done for 30 minutes, at least. If you're still interested in more after that wait, let's talk.

    So I considered myself experienced. At some point in my life, learning about sexuality, I realised "all the gay men in the world can't be wrong," and started experimenting. I've had toys. I've been pegged (Dan Savage coined that term in his column "Savage Love." He recognised there was no phrase for a woman with a strap-on fucking a man, and made one.). I realised I was bi (though strongly on the hetero side) and had some experience with men. And I've loved every minute of it.

    Naturally, when I learned about aneros, I had to try. I ended up with the MGX. It was good. I had a large number of pleasurable experiences with it. It just didn't quite hit the spot. I came to the forums, I read, I browsed, I lurked. After a while I decided it was time to buy a newer model. I went to the closest shop listed as selling them. Sadly, they didn't have the Helix. On the other hand, they had the Maximus. Now, remember that pegging? I've taken 10 inches long, 1.5 inch diameter, and I've taken it to the hilt. I paid attention to my body during that, and I learned what's what, and what's where.

    So a number of tries later brings me to tonight. I followed the classic recommendations: I had a glass of wine. I showered. I cleaned myself out. I had another glass of wine and took it easy for some 15 minutes. I put on some porn. I lubed up well. I took the Maximus in me.

    Tonight was different than the rest. After some 30 minutes, I turned off the porn. I focused on myself, and relaxed. Not long after, the involuntaries started.

    Well, two hours later, here I am. I drenched myself in fluids. I was probably orgasming three-fourths of the time. I'm pleased. I'm happy. I'm calm and relaxed. And yes, I'm buzzy.

    You know what else? I'm going again in another hour or so. I just need to catch my breath.

    I love you all.
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    (this post was edited 2006-06-11 14:22:30)

    Congratulations to you both! Persistence is the key, and as you now know.... it IS CERTAINLY worth it! I envy you so....to be in your twenties and be multi-orgasmic. I'm in my forties now and for me it's been an awakening of sorts.... a dynamic process that continues evolving. But to be your age....well, the sky's the limit my friends!

    For whatever it's worth....now that you know what you know......never allow the narrow-mindedness of others to limit your perspective. You've both discovered an amazing, powerful capacity within yourselves....you must seek out others that will celebrate this with you!

    Be well!


    BF Mayfield