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hello and my first couple of attempts.
  • syllogism
    Posts: 2
    Hi,

    I received my aneros (MGX model, ebcause it had the best overall reviews and, blutly, because it was liek 20 bucks cheaper than the helix. :> ) a few days ago and have used it twice. My first attempt was far from the ideal time, but I had received it in the mail and figured "eh, what the heck, it'll probably take a few tries to really get the hang of it.")

    well I lubed up, inserted it, waited the 15 minutes the directiosn suggested, and futzed around with it around 30 or 40 minutes. it was.. "okay." it certainly didn't change my world in that session, but I will admit that that it did seem to actually stimulate my prostate. That was it's saving grace. I'd tried a coupel of silicone plugs like 4 or 5 years back ( I'm 31 now) , but gave up on them. it didn't do much for me and, if you'll forgive the pun, anal toys are a pain in the ass comapred to more traditional mastubation. Still, the aneros did seem to a least have some potential, so i figured it was worth more experimentation. I finished manually and went to remove it. The sucker didn't want to come out and I had to work a littlen to remove it, which is when I discovered that the aneros was, by then, nearly dry. I decided to use more throrough lubrication inthe future, figuring that would probably help a lot, especially since it had seemed to work better earlier in the session.

    well, today was my second session. It wasnt' ideal ( I've got a cold, but what the heck, I knew I was in a much better stae overall. ). I lubed more thoroughly, workign a decent amount in carefully with a finger, then doing the vasoline under water based lube on the aneros it's self that some peopel sugested. It defiantely made a difference, the aneros was a lot more mobile and there were more sensations ( I'd venture to say that the lube problem seems solved at least) . Still I'd used it a good 45 minutes and nothing anywhere near resembling a super o had occured, just a mild sensation of sometimes having my prostate stroaked. really the most intense sensations had been when I sort of roleld my hips ( which seems to cause it to move via the much hated back tab... jsut as a note, that sort of movement of the aneros, via fairly vigorous hip rolling, etc. is appropriate and safe, right? I know manually moving it can be dangerous, but that sort fo hip rollign does seem to cause it to move via the tabs and not spesifically by anal contractions, so I wanted to doubble check).

    Anyhow I was a bit disappointed and fairly clsoe to giving up, so I tried the last few tricks I had left in my arsenal. For one, I very gentley nudged the perenium tab to the right, sicne that seemed to be better contact. Then, I sort of just layed down on my back , played with my nipples a bit ( several forumg goers have mentioned it being helpful and I've enjoyed it in traditional masturbation so it seemed worth a shot, anjd really worked on muscle contractiosn squeezign and holding, more pelvic muscle than anal per say. I focsed on an erotic fantasy and, bluntly, I fell asleep for 5 seconds or so( it's late and I have a cold, such things happen) . When i woke up I resuemd my fantasising and nipple tweaking and, to my suroprise I felt a growing tingling sensation in the general pelvic region and thighs. It rose and fell, becomming quite pleasurable on a few ocasions, but ultiamtely I lost the sensation ( left the zone so to speak) without, not that I'm worried in the least. It was real priogress, and, doesn't seem bad at all for a seciond try, with neither one being completely ideal.

    anyhow, Hello and those are my aneros experiences so far.

    to sumamrize my questions and expriences

    The aneros probably works ebtter if you haven't jacked off an hour before you use it. ;>
    be careful to lube sufficiently
    make sure the tab is centered properly
    fantasys and nipple stimulation seem to help a lot
    is the back tab intended to move the aneros when one moves?
    and I have soem idea of what works and what I'm lookign for now.





  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    (this post was edited 2006-05-07 10:26:43)

    Syllogism,

    Looks like some good deductive reasoning to me ;) Good lubrication is a definite must for several reasons; 1) the Aneros requires adequate mobility for optimal performance and comfort and 2) as you discovered, you gotta be able to remove it when you want to! With regard to the handle, it's there for two reasons; removal and balance. With respect to the latter, there have been those that have removed it altogether and seemed to have been fine with it. (The verdict is still out on this on this modification though....my suggestion, for the time being leave the handle alone, particularly if you don't have a backup unit).

    Your technique with contractions (particularly the more p.c. type), and focus seems to be spot on (btw. I'm one of the proponents of nipple tweaking), just keep exploring and see where it takes you. You might also experiment with the sensations produced by lower pelvic expansion, that is, by breathing into this area and holding the expansion, concurrent with your other methods. Check out my B's BEST OF BEE LINE and B's KEY's to the BACKDOOR stickies above for more on this.

    One last thing, with respect to abstaining prior to these sessions, I've actually recommended that people try to do this for a day or two as opposed to a couple of hours. Again, the idea is to ramp up a good level of erotic tension....tension that you are going to release in a new and different way.

    Cheers,

    BF Mayfield
  • Claw
    Posts: 4
    TY Syllogism, I've only used my MGX once so far - I'm hoping that the claims about it are genuine!
  • Edit
    Posts: 0
    I used the Maximus for the first time today. All I can say is "Wow".

    I was pretty skeptical about buying a $70 toy that may or may not work, but I am a believer now. I can totally see the importance of the breathing too. I had trouble maintaining the sensation at times because my breathing was erratic. Getting into a rythym allows you to focus on the sensation instead of the breathing itself.

    I am pretty damn excited that I was able to get such great results the first time I used it. I have to admit that I am a heterosexual that has experimented alone with anal penetration, so the feeling of inserting the Maximus was not a problem for me. This might have helped my experience. I didn't wait at all after insertion to begin the anal contractions. I was pretty exhausted after the "session" as the muscles throughout my body were contracting something fierce. I hope this doesn't interfere too much with the prescribed rest between gym workouts. ;)

    This was just the type of thing I had been looking for, and didn't think was possible. For the longest time, I've had urges for anal penetration, but doing so was never really satisfying in the way I had hoped. Regular masterbation was always so much better because it allowed a release. The Aneros allows a release with a totally different sensation that is just as good, if not better than ejaculation. And this is my interpretation after only one use!

    I am eager to find out what I can achieve with practice.

    And... I've got to find a way to tell my girlfriend. Ha ha!
  • indy
    Posts: 8

    Originally Posted By: Nils
    I used the Maximus for the first time today. All I can say is "Wow".

    I was pretty skeptical about buying a $70 toy that may or may not work, but I am a believer now. I can totally see the importance of the breathing too. I had trouble maintaining the sensation at times because my breathing was erratic. Getting into a rythym allows you to focus on the sensation instead of the breathing itself.

    I am pretty damn excited that I was able to get such great results the first time I used it. I have to admit that I am a heterosexual that has experimented alone with anal penetration, so the feeling of inserting the Maximus was not a problem for me. This might have helped my experience. I didn't wait at all after insertion to begin the anal contractions. I was pretty exhausted after the "session" as the muscles throughout my body were contracting something fierce. I hope this doesn't interfere too much with the prescribed rest between gym workouts. ;)

    This was just the type of thing I had been looking for, and didn't think was possible. For the longest time, I've had urges for anal penetration, but doing so was never really satisfying in the way I had hoped. Regular masterbation was always so much better because it allowed a release. The Aneros allows a release with a totally different sensation that is just as good, if not better than ejaculation. And this is my interpretation after only one use!

    I am eager to find out what I can achieve with practice.

    And... I've got to find a way to tell my girlfriend. Ha ha!


    My first attempt was last Saturday night. I used a classic and a SGX from a package deal from Aneros.

    I have to say that I did not have much luck. I think I had to high of expectations. Probably tried to force the issue. Although disappointed, I will continue to try to reach the level others have reached on this forum.

    I am wondering if you had to do contractions to the point of fatigue before you got good feelings. Also, how hard did you press with the contractions?

    I am a 46 year old heterosexual male who is engaging in this kind of play for the first time.

    Any response might help.