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6 month user ... Need advice!
  • newguy01
    Posts: 1
    I've been using the Aneros for a little over 6 months now. I have tried every model other than the Eupho, and I have decided to settle on the Helix since it fits my needs best.

    I usually start every session out with some deep breathing excercises, in conjunction with arousal through the viewing of pornographic movies. After I feel like I am fully aroused I then go onto my session. I usually lye on my side and lube up with KY Jelly, but I DO NOT use a pre-lube of a liquid form due to it's laxative affect on me. I then lube up the Helix with a generous amount of KY and insert it. After about 10 minutes of becoming accustomed to the feel of it in me I roll over on my back with legs spread wide. Next, I practice the deep breathing along with the slow intentional contractions.

    After about 3 sets of 30 contractions I start to get a rapid heart rate, and feel quite flush. My member becomes fully erect and begins to throb which feels great!

    Here in lies my question.

    After this occurance of a 2 minute rapid heart rate, flush feeling, erect penis, involuntaries, and tingly feeling all over, my heart rate subsides to it's normal rate. Nothing I do from here on out during this session will cause me to feel the way I do when this initially occurs. After around 30 minutes of total session time, I become frustrated and finish the "deed" through manual masturbation with the aneros inserted.

    Am I not waiting long enough? Am I being impatient?
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Newguy01,

    Read through B's BEST of BEELINE thoroughly (see sticky above). Yes, impatience can be a factor, i.e. responding to a promising pleasure wave with an intense contraction, for instance, can in many cases extinguish such waves. It seems counterintuitive...but less is very often more here. Again, read through my stickies above (B's Keys to the Backdoor too) and keep us posted on your progress.

    Good Luck,

    BF Mayfield