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now what?
  • I can get my self to the point where my stomach tightens up and then I always scare myself away. What do I need to focus on?
  • B MayfieldB Mayfield
    Posts: 2,077
    Keith,

    First you need to give yourself some time to become accustomed to these kinds of sensations. Once you do, you will find yourself a bit less intimidated by them. With regard to focus, I like to tell people to center yourself in that area between your navel and your pubic bone yet deep inside the abdomen. Visualize your orgasm arising from this area. Alternatively you can let erotic images work for you. These tend to be somewhat subjective (depending on what turns you on) but can range from images of being penetrated, to intercourse, to the image of a traditional orgasm/ejaculation, to name a few.

    BF Mayfield